mollifying remarks

1, contented people sleep on the ground, but they are in heaven; An insatiable person, even in heaven, is like being in hell. In life, spiritual wealth is the most important. If you are limited to material desires, even if you have more, you will feel insufficient. This is poverty. On the other hand, poverty in material life does not affect the enrichment of the soul. Happiness lies in contentment and giving freely, which is the real wealth.

2, everything can be met but not sought, what is lost is not necessarily the best, only what suits you is the best.

3. The first concept of learning Buddhism is never to look at the faults of all beings. When you see the faults of all beings, you will always pollute yourself, and it is impossible for you to practice.

You don't have to wait until life is perfect to enjoy the best in life, because it is not far away, it is what you have and what you know how to cherish.

When you are angry, don't just say goodbye. Because breaking up is easier said than done. Break up, don't get back together casually. Because reunion looks sweet, but feelings are not so easy to recover. Many things that seem to be remediable are actually single-threaded. Missing is missing, leaving is leaving. Life is gambling and long-distance running. No matter what you encounter on the way, please try your best to move forward and don't look back.

6. Separation is an inevitable test. If your relationship is not stable enough, you have to admit defeat, and true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end, we have to choose which one believes in fate, and everything goes with the flow.

7. Being alive for one day is a blessing, so cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.

8. Jealousy is because you like it, and anger is because you care. If one day I really don't care about you and others, then we are finished; I love you, not to forbid others to love you, but to let you only love me.

9. I'm too tired to be angry. People are contradictory, eager to be understood and afraid to be seen through. Try to change once in a while. Although you may lose something, you are likely to get something better. Only when you are down and out will you know who is a fool who is worried about you and who is a stranger.

10, don't be angry and disappointing, don't see through it, don't appreciate it, don't delay it, don't be tempted and don't act.

1 1, you are angry at his words and have been sulking for a long time, waiting for him to coax you. Maybe in the end, he didn't even know what he said wrong. So now I understand that communication must be the most important. You are angry, you ignore him, and you cry, which will only make him feel unreasonable. You think he can understand, you think he can understand, but in their eyes, they will only feel ignorant. If you don't say something, they will never know.

12, I don't want to keep reaching into the sky, expecting someone to lead me forward, so I'll just wait where I am. If I don't clench my fist, I won't have the strength to rush up and wait.

13, the way we express our feelings is very simple. Angry because we care too much; In a daze, because we are gone; Sad because we don't want to lose. Although we are usually strong, we also have a very fragile heart.

14, giving up wisely is better than insisting blindly, because there is only a paper between persistence and paranoia, and it is difficult to grasp the discretion.

15. Don't open your eyes so wide. Let me ask you, in a hundred years, it will be yours.

16, mentality, reflecting a person's moral character and cultivation. In real life, some people are happy with their colleagues' progress or achievements, admire those who are more capable than themselves, and secretly follow his example, learn from him, learn from others' strengths and make up their own knowledge. However, some people do the opposite. If you are poor, you can't make others rich. This is an abnormal state of mind.

17, everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life.

18, not angry and disappointing, not seeing through, not breaking through, not jealous and not appreciating, not procrastinating and not being active. Mentality determines the state, mind determines the pattern, and vision determines the realm. Mistakes are short-lived regrets, and misses are eternal regrets. Life is fragrant in a careful aftertaste, and at the same time, we are also creating new surprises with our own hands.

19. Some things won't belong to you no matter how much you like them, and some things are doomed to give up no matter how much you miss them. There are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love be a kind of harm.

20. Some destinies are doomed to be lost, and some destinies will never have a good result. You don't have to be loved, but if you have someone, you must love him well.

2 1. Believe that dreams are the source of value, that vision determines everything in the future, that success is more important than success itself, that there are setbacks in life without failure, and that the quality of life comes from erin brockovich's belief.

22. If you want to know the world's swords and robbers, you can only listen to the midnight sound of Tumen. Don't just blame yourself for being ill, but look at how many sentient beings have died by your sword.

23. We have nothing but youth. Dreams make me different, and struggle makes me change my destiny!

24. Life is a pigment, but it feels like a blank sheet of paper. Feeling needs the paint of life to describe it, and it will be colorful; Life teaches us to face it, but the feeling of love teaches us to save enough energy to go forward on the premise of facing life calmly.

25. Convenience means being kind to yourself. People's hearts are mutual. You let others take a step and they will respect you. The heart is like a road. The more they care, the narrower they are. The more inclusive, the broader. If you don't care about a gentleman, he will double it; If you don't care about the villain, the villain will take you for nothing. Tolerance seems to let others, but in fact it opens the way for your own heart.

26. Today's big things will become small things tomorrow; The biggest thing this year, next year is a story; The biggest thing in this life, the afterlife will be a legend, and we are people with stories at best. When there are problems in life and work, say to yourself: Today will pass, tomorrow will come, and a new day will begin.

27. When a person is born, it is a simple stone, angular and full of vitality. However, in the relentless polishing of life, people are slowly worn away and become sleek and sophisticated. Be a stone stuck on the cliff, bravely endure the wind and frost, and always keep your edges and corners. Don't be a stone in the river, enjoy the passionate touch of microwave, and finally become a bright pebble.

28. What you nag at him after you get angry is like nailing a nail. It is good for you to nail a nail in a man, but these nails are deeply rooted in a man's heart. Even if it is nailed, it will still leave a deep nail hole.

29, there is a kind of love, obviously deep love, but I can't say it; There is a kind of love that obviously wants to give up, but can't give up; There is a kind of love, knowing that it is suffering, but it cannot be avoided.

30, smiling is not tired, angry is tired; Simple is not tiring, complex is tiring; Acacia is not tired, but unrequited love is tired; If you are not tired together, a person is tired; Love is not tired, disability is tired; Single-minded love is not tired, but promiscuous love is tired; Friendship is not tired, but love is tired; Really not tired, false feeling tired; Gains and losses are not tiring, but caring is tiring; Whether it is physical or mental, it is tired.

3 1, true love is a kind of heartfelt care and care, without flowery rhetoric and grandstanding, you can only feel it in words and deeds. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, oaths and promises explain its uncertainty. Never believe sweet words.

32. If sincerity is a kind of harm, I choose lies; If a lie is a kind of injury, I choose silence; If silence is a kind of injury, I choose to leave.

I don't like quarrelling. I am angry and don't want to talk. Either don't make any noise or play and disappear. Or you didn't answer a sentence, or you just weren't online, didn't turn on your phone, didn't answer your text messages, and didn't answer your phone. I don't like meeting people, but I don't care. However, if you really don't come to me, I will only make sure that you really don't like me.

34. Like love songs, the highest realm is the lingering sound. The saddest thing is not revenge, but regret The best love is bound to have regrets. That regret has become a lingering sound, so we should pay attention to it. The most beautiful love, don't cry for the land, just care for each other silently.

35. It is better to be angry than not to live up to expectations, and it is better to work hard when angry. Life will encounter all kinds of anger, such as laziness, sulking, resentment, anger, arrogance, discouragement, anger, meanness and cowardice. If you swallow these gases, you will feel sick. If you ignore them, they will dissipate. If we use ambition, courage, vitality, kindness, talent, atmosphere, luck and good luck to resolve and replace these negative spirits and turn anger into success, we will certainly get a satisfactory life.

36. Communication is important. You are angry, you ignore him, and you cry, which will only make him think that you are unreasonable. You think he can understand, you think he can understand, but in his eyes, he will only feel ignorant. If you don't say something, he will never know.

37. I get angry when people misunderstand me as a joke. And when he misunderstood others with dignity, (next88) forgot the feelings of others. I kidnapped the truth myself, but let others misunderstand and hurt me. I don't know when I started. I was as ridiculous as a clown in unprovoked guesses and fantasies.

38. For some things that make you angry, get angry when you are angry, just bear it. If you are angry, just endure it. That is a kind of cowardice, lack of self-confidence, and lack of pride and pride; It is reckless to be angry when you should be patient. If you act according to your heart, the consequences will be very difficult. If proper limit can handle it properly, it shows that he is a man with principles, stand, brains, human feelings and a clear understanding of Dali.

39. Anger is not an expression, but an idea. Jokes are not necessarily funny; Upset, why bother. The prime minister can punt in his stomach, and the general can race horses on his forehead. Everything in the world, when I am used to it, is a cloud. I am happy, not because the world is peaceful everywhere, but because I don't want to live in pain. Be less angry and add years to yourself; Don't be angry, leave some room for others. No matter how chaotic the world is, my heart is peaceful and my life is happy.

40, mentality, affecting a person's health. Negative thoughts and dissatisfaction can lead to illness. Hong Zhaoguang, a famous health care expert, said: Psychological balance is one of the four elements of a person's health and longevity. Alexis Karel, winner of the Nobel Prize in Medicine, concluded that people who can't handle their own troubles often die young.

4 1, stupid people only get angry, and smart people know how to fight for it. Mood is a river, and its state depends on its depth. Deep water is quiet, shallow water is noisy. If the mind is too small, small stones can also arouse the waves of the mood; If you have a big heart, you can hold hidden rocks.

42, I gradually understand that the most disgusting thing in the world is an angry face; The dirtiest thing in the world is to show your angry face to others This is worse than beating and cursing.

43. I want to talk about a love that never breaks up. Even if we quarrel, even if we are angry, even if we are separated, we will be together again. I want to talk about a love that will never break up, and we will keep going. Stumbling, the sun sets, growing old together, caring for each other, then stroking your face and whispering, "I always sympathize with you."

Don't expect sparrows to fly very high. High in the sky, that is the territory of the eagle. If the sparrow is in the right position, it will still be very happy!

45. When you are poor, you should use your body to give alms, such as sweeping the floor, sprinkling water and moving things. This is also a charity.

46. If the heart is simple, the world will be simple and happiness will grow; If you have a free heart, you will live freely and be happy everywhere. Be optimistic when you are proud, but optimistic when you are frustrated. There are many things in life that can be put down. Only by letting go can we afford it. Be more tolerant, be more generous, wave your hand and smile, and all unhappiness will become a thing of the past.

47. True love is that two people can stay together in the most difficult time, but there is no requirement at all. After all, feelings must be paid, not just wanted; Separation is an inevitable test. If your relationship is not stable enough, you have to give up. True love does not turn into resentment. So in the end, we have to choose which one believes in fate, and everything goes with the flow.

48. Persistence is not necessarily wrong, but stubbornness is absolutely wrong; In fact, you can see that you don't want to persist now, but you don't have the courage to give up; If the sadness of the ending continues, and the ability to say goodbye to mistakes meets the right one, the heart that sees through will be sunny. When you know you are wrong, start over.

49. Mentality determines a person's happiness. There is an old saying in our country that advises people: everything is happy, and nothing is worrying. However, in real life, some people just like Schopenhauer said: We seldom think about what we have, but always think about what we don't have. This is the greatest misfortune in the human world.

50. I almost never get angry because I don't think it's necessary. I will solve the problem, and don't let other people's mistakes affect me. This is the secret of being happy most of the time. However, just because I'm not angry doesn't mean I have no temper. Just because I don't care doesn't mean I have a good temper. If you have to touch my bottom line, I can tell you that I am not kind.

5 1. If you are angry, the other party will listen to you immediately. That's because I'm afraid of you, even because of love. If you are sad, the other person will listen to you immediately, and that is hurting you, because of love. But if no matter what you do, he won't give in and only knows how to quarrel, where is love?

52. Don't be angry, try to live up to expectations, don't see through, and try to break through. Life needs to constantly try to taste its charm, and life needs to constantly understand to make its mind outstanding. Only when a river is separated can you know the depth, and when you cross the obstacle, you can know that there are many good things to grind. Pay will always be rewarded, more efforts, more gains.

53. It is better to be angry than to live up to expectations. Stupid people only get angry, and smart people know how to fight for it. In life, there is "Qi" everywhere, and everything has "Qi". A lifeless life is not a life, but a utopia in fantasy. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. Learning not to be angry is another realm of life. Angry, hurtful and sad, hurtful and hurtful Learning not to be angry and be less angry is a kind of maturity and wisdom.

54. When people are angry, their IQ is zero; People will be deformed if they are impatient; There is no trust between people, and it is useless to say anything; When people lose their direction, nothing is interesting to do; Of course, the most important thing for people is self-knowledge, self-awareness and self-improvement. Self-knowledge can foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, self-knowledge can be independent, and self-improvement can be indomitable.

55, angry, can't solve any problems; Roar, what hurts is heartbreak, but what hurts is affection; The cold war will only escalate contradictions indefinitely. It takes many years to warm a heart, but it only takes a moment to cool it.

56. Busy people don't look at people, anxious people don't wait for people, uncomfortable people don't miss people, warm people don't help people, moving people don't hurt people, cruel people don't hurt people, sinister people don't count, depressed people don't play people, embarrassed people Dont Ask For Help, angry people don't compare with others, successful people are outstanding, rich people don't cheat people, and comfortable people don't play people. Life is about people.

57. Even the best things will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, it will be forgotten one day. People who love again will leave one day. No matter how beautiful the dream is, it will wake up one day. Never keep what you should give up. Never give up what you should cherish. You can't be friends after breaking up, because you have hurt each other and you can't be enemies, because you loved each other deeply.

58. Love is two completely different people, who can understand and support each other, although sometimes they quarrel and get angry. Once something happens, they are always the first to think of it. Well, today is Valentine's Day. I wish you all a happy holiday! Rich people can go to tall and down-to-earth people at night, and they can live a warm life at home. Anyway, with that person around, every day can be Valentine's Day.

59. I don't think about whether I can succeed. Since I chose a distant place, I only care about suffering!

60. If you don't care, you won't be angry, you won't miss, you won't rely on and miss, but the more you care, the more attached you are, but it is the beginning of his spirit, because he can't catch up with what he can't get, so he is more tempted. Who let most people in the world who don't know how to cherish always take others' efforts for granted, but greedily want to get in touch with the novelty that doesn't belong to them?

6 1, disappointment, sometimes, is also a kind of happiness. I will be disappointed because I have expectations. Regret is also a kind of happiness Because there are things you regret. Pursuing love, and then finding love, has always been a thousand times.

62. If you love to lose your temper, you will think that others often make you angry, and everything may be the reason for your anger. It's not that everything is wrong, but that you can project, and you can project what is hidden in yourself to others. What kind of person you are, you will think that others are also. The part where you can't tolerate others is the part where you can't tolerate yourself.

63. True love is to cherish when you can love it. True love is letting go when you can't love.

64. Don't try to guess what others think. If there is no correct judgment with wisdom and experience, mistakes will usually be made.

Although no one sees virtue, God knows how to do good. People are kind, although the blessing has not arrived, the disaster is far away; Man-made disaster, although the disaster has not arrived, the blessing is far away; People who do good, like the grass in the spring garden, grow longer without seeing its length; People who do evil are like grindstones. If they can't see the damage, they will lose money every day. There is always a door between happiness and misfortune. The terrible evil lies not in being discovered, but in knowing. The value of doing good lies not in the praise of others, but in your peace.

66. Don't forget what others say when they are angry, because that is often the truth; Don't hate the person who says this, because it's another way for him to let you see yourself clearly. Time will precipitate the truest feelings; Wind and rain will test the warmest companionship. What goes far is just passing clouds; What is left is the love that is worth cherishing. If you come enthusiastically, you may not last long; Love is dull, not necessarily heartless.

67. The biggest mistake people make every day is to be too polite to strangers and too hard on people close to them. Change this bad habit and the world will be peaceful.

68, really anxious, fake angry; Thermal problem, cold treatment; Dare to touch hard, not hard; Don't make trouble, don't be afraid of things; Go straight and turn a flexible corner; Rest if you work hard; Prioritize things; Don't regret the past, don't compare with the present; If you get it, you will lose it. If you lose it, let it go. Don't get carried away when you succeed; Don't be sad when you are frustrated; Do your best and leave it to fate; Always forgive yourself and be happy; How confused, Changle.

69. Honesty and fools are separated by a piece of paper! Don't be so honest, you should learn to live.

70. When looking up, look at the clouds; When you look down, watch the road. Indifferent and quiet, natural and calm. This is the greatest wisdom in life. Life should be left blank, a trace of pure land, leaving a little blank for your mind, so that when you have a breath, you can get rid of all kinds of troubles and pressures, prevent happiness and anger from eroding your soul, and let yourself calm down and think nothing. Maybe this is the best way to rest.

7 1, life, but a cup of tea, full or less, what to fight for; Strong or light, each with its own taste; Whether it's urgent or slow, so what; Warm or cold, smile at each other. Life is painful because it cares; Because of doubt, it hurts; I am happy because I look down; I am happy because I am pessimistic. We are all passers-by in heaven and earth, and we can't be masters of many people. Let it be!

72. Please love when you cherish it. When you put it down, have a good blessing.

73. The mentality determines a person's success or failure. All pessimism and anxiety are killers of success. There are many things in life that are uncontrollable, but people can control their mentality when facing these things. Raw loose-leaf paper can be free from failures and setbacks, but the problem is that some people will lose their will and courage once they encounter failures and setbacks; Some people can learn from it, gain experience and turn it into a driving force for progress.