"Low marriage rate, high divorce rate, low fertility rate", how long will this situation last?

It will continue indefinitely until there are corresponding policies. For example, if you marry late, you have to pay taxes. If you get divorced, the house belongs to the state. If you are over the age and have no children, you need a certificate from your employer. It will be enforced. You can do it. Otherwise, this situation cannot be alleviated at all.

First of all, let’s talk about the low marriage rate. Many people around me don’t want to get married, but they simply cannot get married!

1. The conditions are not good and I cannot get married. My brother’s father passed away when he was very young. My mother worked hard to raise him and send him to college. After graduating from college, he worked in a private company. In January My salary is only four to five thousand yuan, I don’t have a house, I don’t have a car, and I don’t even have to think about savings. Every time I go on a blind date and I mention the house, I’m sure it won’t work. Now I’m thirty-two and I don’t have a girlfriend. I’ve saved my own money over the years. I want to buy a house when I save enough for a down payment, but house prices are still rising. I think that either I will meet true love or I will be single for the rest of my life, so it's not that he doesn't want to get married, but that he is too poor.

2. She was injured, had clear goals, and could not get married. When my second aunt’s sister was in college, she had a boyfriend with good conditions and good family. Later, the boyfriend’s family disagreed, and the two After eight years of dating, people break up. After the breakup, it’s like being possessed. You can’t look down on anyone, so you have to find a rich man. You’re almost 30, and unmarried men are just leftovers. , where can I find someone who is rich? Now the conditions have been relaxed to second marriage, but you must be rich. In my opinion, if you are not good-looking and have a good job, you should still find someone with money. Go single.

3. They think being single is good, so they cannot get married. Nowadays, many girls have their own houses and cars. They go to work, get off work, and travel. This is their whole life. They don’t want to find a partner to hold them back. There is also a terrible relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If I were given another chance, I would never get married. Falling in love is fine, but marriage is too tiring.

Secondly, let’s talk about the divorce rate. Love cannot be eaten as food, money, rice, oil and salt are the real life!

1. If you don’t have money, you will get divorced, and poor and humble couples will suffer from everything. Do you remember "The Age of Naked Marriage"? Tong Jiaqian, who didn’t want a car, a house, a diamond ring, just love, finally divorced Liu Yiyang. Money is needed for too many aspects of marriage, including raising children and buying a house. Life is inseparable from money. No one wants to follow her. If you eat glutinous rice, that's all in the past. Today's women want a perfect life. If you can't provide it after marriage, why would she still follow you wholeheartedly? Give you children and take care of the family. You are like an uncle. , you will win if you earn three to five thousand yuan, so don’t think that a woman divorces you because of money, but because of your lack of ambition, incompetence, and a meaningless life for a man who can’t even support a family.

2. If you don’t know how to be tolerant and understanding, you will get divorced. My husband does nothing at home and can step over a garbage bag when he sees it. But he also has good things. He doesn’t smoke or drink, and he pays all his wages. , if all I think about is the bad side, then our marriage cannot be maintained at all, and we can only divorce in the end. Therefore, marriage must be tolerant and understanding, of course, from both sides. Not one person can maintain the marriage by doing this.

Finally, let’s talk about low fertility rate. Childbirth is the most terrifying hurdle after marriage, and only a few people can get over it!

1. Money. If you want a child, you have to talk about money. From pregnancy to birth, you need money for everything. After the birth, you need money for diapers, various supplies, schooling, and extra classes. My son has been in school for five years. Kindergarten costs less than 100,000 yuan, not counting extracurricular classes, so the children want it, but don’t dare to ask for it if they don’t have the money.

2. I am afraid of losing my job. Nowadays, children have to be raised after they are born. It is impossible to rely on one person to support the family. I dare not have children because of my job. When I have a stable job and enough money, but after the last The best childbearing age, the result can only be infertility and in vitro fertilization. Low marriage rate, high divorce rate, low fertility rate? This situation cannot be changed now, let alone having a second child. When can we provide mothers with better protection like Japan and South Korea, maybe we can change the status quo .