My wife wants a divorce, and now she has made up her mind. She said she hated me. I hate that I haven't cherished her in recent years. I can only say that I am devoted to her.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question.

1, why are you together? You both have to think about it.

2. What kind of life are you just married, what kind of life are you after having children, and what kind of life are you now? Think carefully about how it evolved and why.

3. How is her life? Do you have a job?

She may be used to the free and neglected life before, but she failed to change it in time after marriage. At the same time, she is not very mature, can't keep a house, and rarely considers the consequences when doing things.

You don't care much about her, or you don't care about the point. Your concern is not what she wants. At the same time, you communicate too little, and you feel that you have nothing to say after being together for a long time. Therefore, you need to improve communication, set your own marriage goals, and do what you should do first. The more things a woman has at home now, try not to make her feel bored. When you are all busy and have a full schedule, arrange some time to go out occasionally.

6. You should bypass the responsibility that she feels responsible, the responsibility of being a mother and the responsibility of being a wife.

In my humble opinion, good luck O(∩_∩)O Thank you.