Be a self-reliant and powerful person!

A few days ago, in front of the hospital, I saw a little girl in her early twenties crying while hanging water.

There is no one around, and she is full of grievances and inner grief. She kept looking at her mobile phone and couldn't help crying.

I don't know what she is going through at the moment.

But in the adult world, there is really no such thing as easy. Everyone has their own difficulties and hardships, and they all have to face single-handedly fighting. No one can escape.

The only thing we can do is to be strong.

Recently, a very hot news, a takeaway brother sent a takeaway with his son after school, and the cold wind was cold, and the young face of the child on the battery car was flushed.

People who see this scene can't help feeling that this is the essence of real life, and no matter how cold the wind is, it can't stop the pace of hard life.

Life is hard, but we still have to live in the sun.

The takeaway brother took his son on this difficult life path. Although life is hard, the child sees a hard-working, tenacious, hardworking and brave father. The hardships of life did not crush his father. He faced a hard life and the hardship of no one taking care of his children. He has no choice to back down or give up.

Being born in the sun is the best education for children.

There are many reasons to retreat in life, many realities that I don't want to face, and many unacceptable difficulties.

However, there is only one reason to move on. We should face life strongly and live a strong and brave life.

02

Romain rolland once said, "There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to see through the essence of life and still love it".

Are there any friends around you who always complain about everything, whether it's hard work or hard life, whether it's in a bad mood or in a bad mood?

In fact, there is nothing wrong with complaining occasionally. After all, everyone needs emotional catharsis and appropriate comfort and relief, but people who always complain may not really have a bad life, but they just have a bad mentality.

Adult life is not easy for anyone. Those who seem to have a better life than you are not happy in everything, but know how not to compete, not to entangle, and not to pass on their negative energy to others at will.

And those who always like to complain may not really have a bad life, but often torture themselves and disturb others with trivial things.

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Everyone has a different standard of living in this world. Some people pursue fame, others pursue profit, but only those who are mentally firm and independent can really make live high wonderful.

It's been almost three months since I really took writing as a profession. During this time, I have gained a lot, become more and more independent, and become firm and strong inside.

Because of reading, I made many wise friends in the book. Because of writing, I began to listen to my inner voice more, keep a diary and record every bit of my life. The above is my conversation with myself and my understanding of life. My heart has become rich and my mood has been greatly improved. This is my own mental journey.

I even become a little lonely, especially like a person. When I am immersed in my own words, the world becomes simple and calm.

Words are a particularly good thing, because every emotion can be found in them. No matter what mood you are in today, you can always find comfort in your words.

Under the nourishment of words, I also began to become more and more independent. I used to like to talk to others when I was in trouble, and I needed to find an exit to settle down.

But it's completely unnecessary now. As long as you read a book or write an article quietly, all kinds of negative emotions will naturally find a way out, and your heart will become calm and calm, and all kinds of insecurity and wandering feelings will disappear one by one.

Bi Shumin said: "The most important thing in a person's life is to make himself happy."

The happiness we imagined before was that we needed a lot of money and that radiant moment.

In fact, true happiness comes from inner strength and inner stability.

We can't decide everything outside, but we can decide our inner state.