After the renovation of the new house, my husband wants his in-laws to live together on weekends. How can I refuse?

What if my mother-in-law wants to move in with us? Don't have negative energy at this time, it's best to communicate with your mother-in-law husband. I'll tell you how to refuse to live with your mother-in-law and make her happy.

First of all, you must get your husband to agree with your idea. Only with his support can the idea really be completed. Therefore, you and your wife should be the first to unify-suggestion. If you communicate with your husband, you need to speak from his point of view. Use examples to illustrate that there is no daughter-in-law and mother-in-law who don't fight. Don't expect her husband to make sandwiches and biscuits on both sides, and don't expect to destroy the current acceptable relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Every day, one ear goes in and the other goes out, and your husband will naturally understand.

Secondly, we can suggest renting them a house nearby, saying that it is more convenient for everyone, and in fact, my in-laws will understand that you all want to live with them. You can also avoid the embarrassment of raising your mouth right away. It can be said that in order to reduce the burden on my mother-in-law, I have to wash and cook for you when I think of the old man around you, and I have given you my retirement time again. It can be mentioned that mother-in-law and father-in-law live together, so there will be more space for the couple to play and travel. It can be said that the young couple don't have to worry about their in-laws, and I believe they will also recognize your kindness.

Third, frankly communicate this matter, directly say that cohabitation will have various problems, or not to live together. It is best for the husband to bring it up. After all, husbands are their children. But the mentality must be honest. We should not only understand that it is good for our mother-in-law, but also think from the perspective of our in-laws. You can also tell your mother-in-law that everyone's working hours are not afraid of affecting your old man's rest. In this way, what you say will be nice and your mother-in-law will be very happy. Think about the filial piety of my daughter-in-law.

Everyone can't be so mature after marriage, especially in the face of family life, and it is even more impossible to be mature enough to be comfortable. If you want to make your family harmonious, you need to learn to refuse to live with your in-laws.