Do you agree with the saying that the mother of a boy is ugly and the mother of a girl is beautiful?

I have been pregnant twice, with a boy and a girl. Let me tell you about my experience. I remember that when I was pregnant with our baby, my skin showed little change in the first trimester, but in the second and third trimester, it became noticeably rougher. In addition, the baby moved frequently at night, which caused me to have trouble sleeping, often insomnia, and a poor mental state. It is indeed uglier than before pregnancy.

When I was pregnant with my second baby girl, maybe it was because I had already experienced pregnancy once and knew that I should adhere to skin care during pregnancy, so my skin condition looked better. In addition, sometimes I also You will feel beautiful (I hope you will have a daughter for the second time), so it may also have a psychological effect. Why is there a saying that the mother of a boy is ugly and the mother of a girl is beautiful

I believe that most expectant mothers know that the mother of a boy is ugly and the mother of a girl is beautiful has no scientific basis, so why has this statement been circulated for so long? , almost every expectant mother knows it?

Generally speaking, if the expectant mother is pregnant with a girl, then estrogen may increase, thereby promoting the development of the expectant mother’s metabolism and making her skin better. If the expectant mother is pregnant with a boy, the male hormone will increase, which will lead to increased oil secretion in pregnant women and worsen the skin, so she looks ugly.

Of course, although this explanation seems reasonable, in fact, after pregnancy, most expectant mothers will have excessive estrogen, and excess estrogen will stimulate the skin to produce melanin, making it easier for pregnant women to grow estrogen. Spots, so the idea that mothers who are pregnant with boys are ugly and mothers who are pregnant with girls are beautiful does not apply to everyone (there is no scientific basis).

The reason why there is a saying that mothers who are pregnant with boys are ugly and mothers who are pregnant with girls are beautiful, I think it is also related to the sleep quality of expectant mothers during pregnancy. To put it simply, if the expectant mother is pregnant with a boy, and boys are generally more active and have more fetal movements, this may cause the expectant mother to have poor sleep quality, so her skin condition will deteriorate and she will look ugly. On the contrary, if the expectant mother is pregnant with a girl, the baby's fetal movements may be gentler, so the pregnant woman sleeps well, is in a good mental state, and looks more beautiful.

Of course, this explanation does not apply to everyone. This is because the fetal movements of each baby are different. Even if some expectant mothers are pregnant with girls, they may feel them very frequently. of fetal movement. I remember that when I was pregnant with my second child, I felt that her fetal movements were even stronger than those of the firstborn. Sometimes they even kicked my stomach so hard that I couldn’t sleep well at night.

In fact, in addition to the saying "the mother is ugly when she is pregnant with a boy, and the mother is beautiful when she is pregnant with a girl", there is another popular saying among the people, that is, the sour boy is the hot girl. In other words, if the mother is pregnant with a boy, then she will be pregnant with a boy. You may prefer sour foods. On the contrary, if the mother-to-be is pregnant with a girl, she may prefer spicy foods.

I remember that when I was pregnant with my eldest son, I had a bad appetite and always wanted to eat some sour food that was appetizing. Therefore, I ate a lot of hot and sour noodles and oranges at that time. This might It irritated the skin, so it caused a lot of pimples and even spots, which looked ugly. When I was pregnant with my second child, I only wanted to eat spicy food in the first trimester, but I didn’t think so much in the second and third trimesters. I had a lighter diet and my skin was in good condition, so I might look in better condition.

Generally speaking, whether a mother is ugly or beautiful during pregnancy may not have much to do with the gender of the baby, but has a lot to do with the expectant mother’s living and eating habits, sleep quality, skin care and other factors relationship.

I'm happy to answer your questions.

I have a say in this, because when I was pregnant, people who knew me said that I looked better.

My skin has become whiter and my face looks better. I couldn't tell I was pregnant for the first 7 months.

From 98 pounds to 140 pounds, not a single stretch mark appeared.

One month after delivery, I quickly recovered to around 108 pounds.

My belly became significantly enlarged at the end of 8 months. But there is no sign of pregnancy from behind, she doesn’t walk clumsily at all, and she especially loves shopping.

What’s particularly amazing is that I don’t suffer from hair loss anymore. I had a poor appetite during pregnancy and didn’t take any special nutritional supplements. These are all home-cooked meals by the children’s grandma, who often cooks hairtail and yellow croaker. She often eats KFC burgers. She doesn’t like meat. Now that I think about it, she eats a lot of fruits and fish. I also eat Malatang and barbecue occasionally. I also drank coffee a week before giving birth. There are no special taboos, but they are all tasted very rarely.

I have never eaten bird's nest, abalone, sea cucumber, etc., but I successfully gave birth to a little princess naturally.

I would like to discuss pregnancy with you.

Do you agree with the saying that the mother of a boy is ugly and the mother of a girl is beautiful? I don't agree with this statement!

When I was pregnant, people around me also said that the mother of a boy was ugly and the mother of a girl was beautiful. Two female colleagues in the office who gave birth to boys said that they became uglier during pregnancy and their noses became bigger· ·····But I’m not. I had double eyelids when I was pregnant with my baby. In a sense, this should be regarded as becoming more beautiful! (*^__^*) Heehee

I am a mother who is pregnant with a boy, but she has not become ugly. On the contrary, I feel that my complexion has improved a lot during pregnancy.

I have a friend who happened to be pregnant with a daughter, but she developed a lot of pregnancy spots and her skin became very dry.

So there is no scientific basis for saying that mothers who are pregnant with boys will become ugly and mothers who are pregnant with girls will become beautiful. So why is it said that the mother of a boy is ugly and the mother of a girl is beautiful?

Some people think that pregnant boys will become ugly because pregnant boys will inhibit the secretion of estrogen in the body and affect the hormone levels in the pregnant mother. But in fact, the changes in hormone levels are related to the progesterone in the pregnant mother. Everyone has individual differences, so there is no such thing as an ugly mother of a boy and a beautiful mother of a girl.

Some people think that the skin of a baby girl will darken during pregnancy. In fact, this is also nonsense. Some mothers' skin will darken during pregnancy. In fact, it is mainly because the changes in progesterone cause the activity of melanocytes in the body. Enhanced, so melanin precipitation is more likely to occur than before pregnancy. Coupled with individual differences, some pregnant mothers will have more obvious symptoms. In most cases, it will return to normal within 1-2 years after pregnancy and delivery.

In addition to the claims that the mother of a boy is beautiful and the mother of a girl is ugly, we always hear a lot of opinions about judging men and women during pregnancy, but in fact most of these are based on no basis for judgment. Do you look at the belly shape? A sour girl? Is there a black line on the belly of the baby boy’s mother? Wait, these methods actually have no scientific reason, and there are many real counterexamples.

It doesn’t matter if you have fun during pregnancy, but it won’t be fun if you take it seriously.

Regardless of whether you have a boy or a girl, a healthy baby is the most important, what do you think? I don’t agree. I tell you from personal experience that a mother’s beauty or ugliness has nothing to do with the gender of her child.

I gave birth to two boys. When I was pregnant with them, people around me said that my skin was getting better and better. They even joked about the daughter I was pregnant with.

When a woman is pregnant, many functions of her body will undergo some changes. The skin will also undergo some corresponding changes, some becoming beautiful and some becoming ugly. These are related to each person's sensitivity to hormones and secretions in the body. If we want our skin to get better, we need to pay attention to the following points:

First: Use facial cleanser to wash your face even when you are pregnant, keep your face clean, and try to be as bright as possible to give people a refreshing and lively feeling.

Don’t wear heavy makeup during pregnancy, and don’t ignore your skin at night. After cleansing with facial cleanser, apply some simple moisturizing mask. Massage the essence that cannot be absorbed and then wash it with water, then apply eye cream, lotion, essence, facial cream, etc. Many pregnant mothers do not use any skin care products during pregnancy for fear of causing harm to their children. In fact, you need more moisture during pregnancy. If you don’t take care of your skin, your skin will be very dry. Over time, the condition of your skin will get worse and worse, and there is a saying that “it becomes ugly after pregnancy”. When we choose skin care products, we just need to choose products that are safe and usable for pregnant women.

Second: Eat a balanced diet during pregnancy. In addition to considering the health of the child itself, a balanced diet during pregnancy will make the pregnant woman's mood better and her skin will look good.

Third: Good work and rest habits, don’t stay up late. During pregnancy, many pregnant mothers are prone to drowsiness, sleep more, and do not stay up late at night. Sleep is a good friend of beauty. Pregnancy is the most beautiful moment in a woman’s life. The saying “the mother of a boy is ugly and the mother of a girl is beautiful” is a superstition. Whether to become beautiful or ugly depends on the care of the pregnant mother. “There are no ugly women, only laziness.” The term "woman" has its own truth.

I disagree. I am an example myself. There is no difference between giving birth to a son and giving birth to a daughter. Thank you.

I have also been told this. An aunt said that I have good skin and no spots, so I am indeed a girl.

The scientific basis is: we women are pregnant. At this time, endocrine disorders will occur, causing hormone levels to increase, affecting the metabolism of melanin, and the skin will easily develop pigmentation and spots.

If you are pregnant with a boy, your male hormones may be higher. There may be rough skin, dark yellow, sores, etc. during pregnancy, but this does not definitely vary from person to person.

In addition, you can use skin care during pregnancy, except for daily skin care, such as makeup and lipstick. For normal use.

I often use facial masks during pregnancy. Didn’t you find that your skin will be particularly dry during pregnancy? No matter whether you are a boy or a girl, your skin will become ugly when it becomes dry. To protect your skin, your skin will come to you with enlarged pores and clogged pores.

Therefore, you should also take good care of your skin during pregnancy, apply more hydrating masks, and moisturize daily. In addition, the diet is also very important, avoid spicy and irritating foods, and eat more fruits. Fruits contain vitamin C, which is good for the skin. You can also eat more foods containing protein and collagen, which are good for pregnant mothers and fetuses. In this way, you can be a beautiful mother regardless of whether you have a boy or a girl.

It varies from person to person! My own experience is that many skin acne problems have improved after pregnancy, and my belly is not big when I am pregnant with a boy. , there are no stretch marks, and the body shape recovers quickly. So since you are ready to be a mother, it is most important to take care of everything as it comes. There is a folk saying: after a woman is pregnant, if she is pregnant. If you are a boy, you will become ugly; if you are pregnant with a girl, you will become beautiful.

Women also have male hormones.

The female body itself contains a certain amount of male hormones, which are mainly secreted by the adrenal glands. If you don’t believe it, if you look carefully around a woman’s mouth, there will be more or less “beards”. However, women do not suffer from it. There are some male hormones that turn ugly.

Male fetuses do secrete male hormones in a few weeks to promote their differentiation and development in the direction of males. The amount of male hormones is very small, and the amount that enters the mother's blood through the placenta is even smaller and can be ignored.

The differentiation of female fetuses does not actually require the action of estrogen, as long as there are no male hormones. , the embryo will develop in the female direction.

Therefore, after a woman is pregnant, the fetus will not secrete estrogen. The male fetus secreting androgen will have minimal impact on the mother's hormones. The androgen in the expectant mother mainly comes from the mother itself. The hormone levels in the expectant mother's body are not disturbed by fetal hormones. Why do some expectant mothers change their appearance after pregnancy?

Although the hormone levels in the expectant mother's body are not affected by the fetus, the hormone levels in the female body will still change greatly after pregnancy. This is the internal reason for the changes in the appearance of the expectant mother.

For example, estrogen can cause pigmentation and pregnancy spots in the skin of some expectant mothers, but it can also make the skin of some expectant mothers smooth, delicate, and shiny. This has a lot to do with the expectant mother's original personal physique.

For another example, some expectant mothers were skinny before pregnancy. After pregnancy, their faces become rounder and their breasts are plumper, making them look more beautiful.

Correctly treat the changes in appearance before and after pregnancy.

First of all, we must correct our mentality. The changes in a woman’s appearance during pregnancy (whether she becomes beautiful or ugly) are temporary.

The pregnancy and childbirth stage is a great opportunity for women to improve their physique. For example, after I gave birth to my child, the constipation problem I had for many years disappeared naturally.

Therefore, pregnant mothers should not change their appearance, but should take this opportunity to regulate their internal health problems. Never change your diet just for temporary appearance, causing nutritional losses!

Of course, everyone has a love for beauty. If a pregnant mother attaches great importance to personal appearance and image, she can put more effort into her clothing and hairstyle. For example, wear cute maternity clothes and some pretty hair clips and headbands. For specific dressing tips for pregnant women, please refer to Feiba Baby's previous article "Pregnant Zhu Dan is so beautiful, and the correct dressing during pregnancy is indispensable!".

We do not approve of expectant mothers wearing makeup during pregnancy, but if they must wear makeup due to professional requirements, expectant mothers should choose relatively safe cosmetics.

Summary:

Changes in a woman’s appearance after pregnancy have nothing to do with the gender of the fetus, but are caused by changes in the mother’s own hormones. These changes in appearance will gradually recover with the end of pregnancy and childbirth, so expectant mothers do not need to worry too much.

There is a popular saying: A mother who is pregnant with a girl becomes beautiful, and a mother who is pregnant with a boy becomes ugly. This has also become one of the ways to determine the gender of the baby during pregnancy. Therefore, as long as a pregnant woman has spots on her face and overall swelling, she is considered to be pregnant with a boy. If her skin improves and her face becomes more beautiful, she is considered to be pregnant with a girl. But is this true?

The basis for the rumor that “beautiful women, ugly men” are:

The basis for this statement is: if you are pregnant with a girl, then due to the increase in estrogen contained in the girl, It can promote the development of the mother's skin metabolism and make the skin better; if she is pregnant with a boy, male hormones will increase, leading to increased oil secretion and thickening of the stratum corneum, thus making the mother's skin worse.

This seemingly reasonable explanation is actually not a scientific basis. The conclusion can be drawn for the following three reasons.

1. An appropriate amount of estrogen will be beneficial to the skin

Studies have shown that as age continues to increase or estrogen levels continue to decrease, the collagen content in the skin will decrease. The decrease in collagen content will cause the skin's elasticity to decrease, making the skin dull and loose.

An appropriate amount of estrogen is of great significance in maintaining the structure and function of the skin and subcutaneous tissue. It can promote the development of metabolism, thereby strengthening the skin and making it firm.

2. Excessive estrogen can cause harm to the skin

If estrogen exceeds the standard value, it will stimulate melanin in the skin, and pregnant women will be prone to skin growth. spots, and the color of the skin will gradually darken. However, this phenomenon usually goes away on its own after the baby is born.

3. During pregnancy, the estrogen of most pregnant women will exceed the standard.

Many pregnant women will have estrogen exceed the standard during pregnancy, and this conclusion has nothing to do with whether they are pregnant with a boy or a girl. . Studies have shown that when giving birth, the estradiol content of pregnant women who are bad girls is 23,000ng/L, and those who are pregnant with boys are about 20,000ng/L. In normal times, as the menstrual cycle changes, the estradiol content is 20ng/L-750ng/L.

If the lower the estrogen, the better it is for the skin of pregnant women. In fact, the skin of pregnant women who are pregnant with boys will be lower. From this point of view, it should be that the skin of mothers who are pregnant with boys will be better. Better.

Therefore, many of these folklores are incorrect. It may continue to spread with Lao Lier, but young parents should be able to control and grasp these rumors when faced with them. Don’t guess the gender of the fetus just because you see changes in pregnant women.

Nowadays, giving birth to a boy or a girl is the same. As long as the child is born healthy, the whole family will be relieved. Therefore, do not deny your children because of unscientific rumors, which will cause unnecessary sadness.