Ode to Joy 2 is on the air. Does it meet your expectations?

The popularity of a TV series is partly because the plot is close to reality and reflects most people's understanding of life, and partly because the actors' interpretations are really touching and wonderful. However, while enjoying it, the audience will also criticize and resent the unkindness of this man and the inhumanity of that woman. But in the final analysis, the setting of this character's behavior and personality cannot be separated from the social and cultural background. It is said that a person's personality determines his fate, but what determines his personality? That's the people and environment around you. Today, I will talk about everyone's attitude towards chastity in today's society through Ode to Joy 2.

In Ode to Joy 1, we have seen four of the five beauties: Fan, Qu Xiaoyu, and Andy who lost their virginity. These plot settings are natural and clear, without any cover. There are no characters in the play who pay too much attention to chastity. Facing the fans' absence all night, Qu Xiaoyu stayed and lived with Bai, Andy and Guan Yuer just had a simple and clear smile. All these show that the concept of female chastity in today's society is indifferent, but this indifference is not a relaxed and tolerant attitude, but an attitude arising from the understanding of the world. This attitude varies from person to person, some people care, some people ignore it.

Someone once asked a question: If a woman had to choose between losing her virginity and losing a leg, what would she choose? There is no doubt that the answer to this question is to lose your virginity. Even a woman, even a man, will not object to your choosing to lose your virginity. But the contradiction is coming. Men who support you in choosing to lose your virginity are often very concerned about whether their women are virgins. I'm afraid this is due to the feudal society in China for more than 2,000 years.

In Europe and America, the attitude towards chastity is much more tolerant. They think sex is free. Especially before marriage, women can not be bound by all parties, and will try out of love or just curiosity, without being condemned, and some will even be encouraged. But once you get married, you can't cheat. It is disloyalty to marriage and will be despised by people. This concept of chastity is based on the premise of individual freedom and independence, the principle of equality between men and women, and even the embodiment of social civilization.

In China, due to the promotion of male chauvinism in history and culture, women have no independent human rights, and they are always accessories of men. Of course, the society is much better now. Women are no longer attached to men, but the concept of chastity still exists. Men can have multiple sexual partners, but women can't. The first time must be reserved for marriage, otherwise it will be disloyalty and make men feel sick.

Two people, from the first acquaintance to parting, are a journey from soul to body, and naturally transition to sex in the process of deep love, even if they finally part ways, it is natural and beautiful. There is nothing to lose by taking advantage, it is a love of both sides. But the premise is safe sex.

Just as the attitude of Zhongmei towards chastity in Ode to Joy 2 also represents the understanding of chastity from all walks of life: Andy, a returnee, has a natural attitude towards chastity; Qu Xiaoyu's attitude towards chastity and play; Qiu Yingying's ignorant attitude towards chastity in A Well-off Family; Fan's view of chastity and servility in Cold Door: Guan Juer, who was born in a scholarly family, has a traditional conservative attitude towards chastity ... There is no right or wrong, as long as adults can take responsibility for their actions.

Having said that, I just want to say that everyone should not pay too much attention to that little movie. Losing doesn't mean cheating in the future. As long as you are loyal to your spirit and soul, that is the purest loyalty attitude. Although this concept can be recognized by most people, there are too many criticisms left by history, especially men. I'm afraid there won't be too many people who really don't care This is society. There are many people, so the thoughts are complicated. Whose attitude doesn't matter. The key is to look at yourself. I believe that a girl who knows how to love herself will be cautious and chaste, and she won't care about anything other than her soul.