Only when your mind is calm can you hear your own voice diary

Happiness is not just a feeling in your heart, but because you feel happy, others can read smile and happiness from your face. If you are more careful in life, you will know that the most beautiful expression in the world is a smile. If you want to have the most beautiful expression in the world every day, then please make happiness a habit!

Peace of mind Only when you are clear can you hear your own voice; only when your mind is clear can you see the true nature of all things. What is unwilling to let go is often not worth cherishing, and what is pursued hard is often not what life needs. Life often moves in a hurry, so we must learn to stop and laugh at the wind and clouds, sit down and enjoy the flowers blooming, calm down and be as quiet as the sea, settle down and watch at ease. The state of mind is calm and calm, all things are naturally reflected, the mind is extremely still, and the moment is eternity.

In the face of wind and rain, when the trajectory of development is incompatible with our own ideals, or even in conflict, should we be pessimistic, complain, disappointed, give up, or should we persevere and persevere? What if you don’t want to pull it out? Without resilience, we cannot reach our ideal destination. Without resilience, we may miss success at the last moment. And those who can persevere have mastered the magic weapon to win in the world: wait while being patient, and forge ahead while waiting.

I am used to watching the sun rise in the east and set in the west, the moon waxes and wanes; I am used to the warmth and coldness of spring, summer, autumn and winter, and the changes in everything in the world; but it is difficult to look down upon the joys and sorrows of the world, love and hatred, and even more difficult Look at sadness and sadness as if they are clear and calm. After many years of changes, I became happy as a habit, so I found that my happiness infected many people. When people asked me why, I only said: happiness is a habit!

Being good at finding lessons from historical experience, being good at finding experience from other people’s lessons, and exercising and improving one’s memory is a shortcut to avoid detours. People must learn to take care of themselves and motivate themselves. To do this, you have to keep applauding yourself throughout your life.

Applauding yourself is a kind of spiritual resurrection, which can help you get out of adversity. This is because having your own applause will keep you away from rumors and give yourself a clear state of mind; applaud yourself, and you will burn the fire of hope in the atmosphere of your own applause.

Everyone longs for a happy life, but it is impossible to envy it, so I decided that it is better to envy others than to envy yourself. If your mind is rich and thorough, you will understand the necessary abandonment and necessary pursuit. I always believe that a person who envies himself will have many happy surprises and beauty in his life.

When you encounter ups and downs, you should also regard the twists and turns of life as a normal state. Don't be pessimistic and disappointed, don't sigh, don't stagnate, and regard detours as another way forward. Another form, another way, so that you can reach the distant sea of ??life like those rivers that take a detour.

The second nature of life is understanding. There is an old saying in China: The master leads you in, and cultivation lies in the individual. Because once we enter society, the social rules we accept include not only literal rules, but also substantive rules. You have to understand it on your own.

The third nature of life is resilience. There are so many living beings in the world, and everyone is chasing their own dreams. But whether everyone's dream can finally be realized depends on resilience. Because the operation of society is not as seamless as the dream track set by each of us. There are always bumps and bumps, there are always ups and downs.

The fourth nature of life is blood. The fourth gender is also very important. Being strong-blooded and bold in personality is not a problem when you are young. However, the world does not develop according to what we think and what we want.

There are so many hardships, so many stumblings, so many frictions and disputes, and so many things that go against our wishes. When we are no longer young, or even after our youth has passed away, can we continue to maintain our own persistent personality? , does it have the square spirit that we have been pursuing for our ideals?

In a person's life, there is always knowledge that is endless to learn, truths that are difficult to comprehend, and some annoying things that are intentional or unintentional that break into the heart. In short, the dream of life is to be a good boy. Many, life is not easy. Don’t always be in trouble with others, let alone yourself. The book says: If you don't like others, it means you don't have enough self-cultivation. Think about it, because everyone’s background, education level, and social influence are different. When you can’t stand others, do others also hate you?

When you Only when you lose everything do you know what you only want

Many times, we always hope for the good of others. At first, I couldn’t be more grateful. But after a long time, I got used to it. When you get used to someone being nice to you, you take it for granted. One day someone doesn't treat you well, and you feel resentful. In fact, it’s not that others are bad, but that our demands have increased. When you get used to getting, you forget to be grateful.

The more stories people have, the calmer and simpler they are, while the more superficial and frail people are, the more restless. The real strong man is not the one without tears, but the one who still runs with tears in his eyes. Be patient, be strong, and even if you can't see hope, still believe in yourself. The first thing that causes us to age is not our appearance, but our reckless ambition. Sometimes, you have to dare to carry burdens beyond your expectations. After you really work hard, you will find that you are much better than you imagined.

Life cannot be perfect, and there will be shadows under the sun. It depends on how you look at life. Life is just like this. Either you control your own life or let life lead you by the nose. How you go is up to you.

Not all memories are good, and not all people are worth remembering. The river of time is too long, and most people and things will be ruthlessly washed away.

If you have endless work, stop and relax; if you don’t make enough money, take a look at the things outside you; if you are uncomfortable with the secular world, just be quiet and let nature take its course; if you have endless lives, If you are sulky, talk about it, and your mood will be broad; if you have endless social activities, just say a word, which is good for your health; if you have endless filial piety, go for a walk and go home to see; if you have unfinished favors, weigh them and act according to your ability. ;The endless journey ahead, take a moment and stroll through life!

The most ruthless thing is not people, but time; the most precious thing is not money, but emotion; the most powerful thing is not the boss, but nature; the most terrifying thing is not disasters, but the helplessness after disasters; the best thing is not professionalism , just watching; the most terrifying thing is not lovelorn, but mental and physical insufficiency; the most comfortable thing is not a hotel, but your own home.

If you don’t chase what you desire, you will never have it. Give time, let the past pass and the beginning begin.

Life is short, just a few decades. Living is a blessing, and health is a blessing. Since we are alive, choosing happiness is a day, choosing pain is also a day, then why not choose happiness and live our lives in an ordinary way? What about this life? Maybe there is something more than satisfying about life, but what else is important if you are not alive? What's more important than health?

If you are single, enjoy this. You are single not because you are not good enough, but because no one is worthy of you yet.

The saddest thing for people is not that they lost too much yesterday, but that they are immersed in yesterday's sorrow. The most stupid thing about people is not not discovering the trap in front of them, but falling into it the second time. The loneliest thing about a person is not that the person you want to wait for has not yet come, but that this person has already walked out of your heart. The most boring thing about a person is not dialing a random phone number, but keeping talking when someone else dials the wrong number.

Everyone has his own nature, a lifestyle that suits him, and everyone has his or her own value. Don’t belittle yourself and ignore other people’s doubts, because there is only one you in the world.

The so-called maturity is not that the heart grows old, but that when tears roll in our eyes, we can still keep smiling; there will always be tears that make us grow up instantly.

Many things in life are hard to come by. Those who are deliberately forced cannot get it, and those who are not expected often come unexpectedly. Therefore, you must have a free and easy mind, let everything take its course, do not be resentful, do not be impatient, do not overdo it, do not force things, do not take pleasure in things, and do not feel sorry for oneself. Resigning yourself to fate is not about resigning yourself to fate, but facing life with an open-minded attitude.

At every stage of life, cherish every moment with the one you love.

The only thing in the world that can get something for nothing is poverty, and the only thing that can make something out of nothing is dreams. Nothing can be achieved without taking action. Although the world is cruel, as long as you are willing to go, there will always be a way; you cannot see the beauty because you have not persisted in walking. There is no need to regret moving forward. If it is good, it is called wonderful; if it is bad, it is called experience.

The sun will not stop rising tomorrow because of your frustration; the moon will not stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Covering your own eyes does not mean that the world is dark; covering other people's eyes does not mean that the light belongs to you!

In life, you always need to have multiple eyes to protect yourself. It does not mean that the higher the scheming, the higher the city, the deeper the city, but the happiness of staying strong despite the waves.

What faith can give a person is inner peace and dependence, rather than "negotiating conditions and exchanging favors" with gods - if I believe in you, I can get rich; if I believe in you, I Then we can have a harmonious family; if I believe in you, all my dreams will come true from now on. When faith is reduced to an exchange of interests, it loses its meaning.

The words we have said, the things we have done, the roads we have traveled, the people we have met, every moment now are our memories in the future.

People need to have such a person in their life: even if they are thousands of miles apart and have not contacted each other for several years, they are still relaxed and natural and have endless topics to talk about when they meet; or, sitting next to each other, each is busy with his or her own business. In front of this person, you can lower your eyebrows and lament, you can be arrogant, you don't have to be promising, you don't have to have an image, you can have flaws all over, this person is your confidant.

There is no road to despair in life, only a desperate heart. The other side of despair is hope, and the end of crisis is opportunity.

Some things are destined to have no fate with you. No matter how hard you force them, they will eventually leave you. Some people can only be passers-by in your life. No matter how much you miss them, all your expectations will eventually come to nothing. If it doesn't belong to you, then give up. The world is vast and vast. What we can have is limited after all. Don't let endless desires bury the original joy and happiness. If you try to catch everything, you will end up catching nothing.

Only when the soul has a home can life have a path. Only when you learn to be alone with yourself can your soul be cleansed, your mind mature, and your mind broad.

When a person feels contented, his mind is not upset, his body is not tired, he has nothing to ask for, and his mind is at peace, happiness is there. When a person feels that he can eat, play, sleep well, has no worries, and is satisfied, happiness is there. Giving up what should be given up is helplessness, giving up what should not be given up is incompetence; not giving up what should be given up is ignorance, and not giving up what should not be given up is persistence.