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Chatting can be learned. Let me share some of my experiences with you here. From "sensory flow"

Let's chat with you today. Anyway, in this era of mobile phones, many people's socialization is in software. If you want to pick up girls, you must have coquettish chat ability.

But on the contrary, the real Sao's ability to chat is very simple. That's what I want to tell you today.

There are many buddies, and their understanding of picking up girls is in an awkward position. It seems to be a little coquettish than that kind of pure good man, but let him really catch up with one, but he can't catch up. They often look ambiguous and coquettish when chatting, but in fact they all pretend to be too aggressive. In fact, any normal girl will not like a man who pretends to be forced. For many girls, they don't like formal chatting. Simple chatting is never wrong. After all, the real coquettish is in the bones, not spoken.

Quite a few buddies don't like to use the word "what are you doing". They think it's too monotonous and only good men can use it. Actually, what are you doing? These four words are quite useful. I have used it many times and think it is not bad. You can use these four words anywhere you want, whether at the beginning or in the middle, but don't just do what you are doing. You have to understand that chatting, in many cases, depends on fragments, not single sentences. One sentence doesn't decide anything, but the whole fragment can convey some feelings and information. For beginners, you are simply the safest and most comfortable. But if you want a girl to be awesome, you can't just stay in a simple state. In other words, in fact, any single form is too long and inappropriate.

Simplicity is only the foundation, but it doesn't mean that your architectural decoration, style and culture are simple, so there is no bright spot. Although it is safe, it is useless because it is not aggressive.

So, if you are just learning to pick up girls, simple chatting is the main line. You don't need to think about anything else, just learn to communicate with girls simply first. But to be awesome, there must be a lot of embellishments on the simple, such as some bright spots, cute points, turning points, orgasms or crits, which requires some skills.

Let me give you some demonstrations:

Me: What are you doing?

W: I'm listening to music.

In fact, when I come here, the first reaction of many buddies is what songs to listen to and so on. Anyway, I just like to go in the direction of topic chat and finally make it a reporter's interview. Can you be a little innovative. Simplicity and boredom are two different things We don't have to cut in from the angle that everyone can think of. For example, it can be like this:

Me: I am listening to the song you are listening to.

In this case, girls will be a little curious. W: How do you know what song I listen to? She usually has this reaction. You know, girls are lazy when chatting, and they basically follow her first reaction. Because she is chased by you, she can enjoy the welfare of no thinking and no effort.

In this way, there is an immigration point. But at this point, some people think that they will jump out of the girl's buddy, and they usually reply angrily: because I am in your heart, because our hearts are interlinked, and so on. It's actually awkward to talk like this. If you talk like that, you will basically collapse if you say a few more words. So, don't drive easily, just keep it simple. You know, really good driving skills can't see the technical components.

Me: I just imagine that we are doing the subway, and each person has an earphone.

This kind of sentence is more imaginative and will always keep you slightly aggressive. Then the next girl's reaction, you can see a lot of things. If she answers: Come on. It's actually a good feeling. If she replies: Haha, you think too much. Then have a good talk. Of course, her reaction was average. We said, yeah. It is also possible. But it doesn't matter. You just need to be yourself. Chat and try to relax yourself.

Actually, that's all. I didn't want to go on, but many buddies wanted me to do some demonstrations before, so I'll give you some guidance. I'll tell you all three situations.

Me: I just imagine that we are doing the subway, and each person has an earphone.

Woman: Come on.

Me: How about this weekend? Let's make our dreams come true.

Me: I just imagine that we are doing the subway, and each person has an earphone.

Woman: Haha, you think too much.

Me: You look so happy.

Me: I just imagine that we are doing the subway, and each person has an earphone.

Woman: Yeah.

Me: Allow me to think so.

That's about it. Break it down into every sentence. As you can see, the sentence structure is actually relatively simple. There is no such sentence as an old driver driving, but they are not talking about a topic. Now let's make a random combination.

Me: What are you doing?

Woman: I'm listening to music.

Me: I am listening to the song you are listening to.

W: How do you know what songs I listen to?

Me: I just imagine that we are doing the subway, and each person has an earphone.

Woman: Come on.

Me: How about this weekend? Let's make our dreams come true.

As you can see, after being combined into a fragment, the whole is simple and disgusting. The first invitation appeared in about three sentences, which also reflected that I said that the progress of picking up girls should be faster.

So how can you have such a simple offensive chat ability? Read more books to make your imagination, innovation and adaptability stronger. As I said at the beginning, in the final analysis, it is an understanding of life and a way of life. You can live, study and see the world actively, and you will naturally be awesome.

I hope it helps you! Hope to adopt!