I have a three-year-old daughter. Because my wife has to go to work, grandma takes care of the children most of the time. Only when my wife comes home at night can I have time to accompany her.

I have worked in kindergarten for so many years, and I often encounter similar situations.

Some mothers are away from home for a long time, and as a result, children are close to teachers, not close to mothers, making mothers jealous and losing their temper with teachers. In fact, as a kindergarten teacher, I understand my mother's feelings very well.

In your case, I think you should understand your wife first. Not only that, but also win the understanding of your wife from your grandmother. Since your wife has cancer, you should spend more time with her. When her life is over, what will you do to make up for it?

I think you usually neglect the emotional education for your children, but it can still be made up for the 3-year-old children. Tell your children more about your mother at ordinary times, and make them feel that your mother is great, a hero and even an admirer. You can make up a story about your mother to tell your children. Slowly, the child will feel very happy with his mother.

Adjust your mentality first, don't worry, and wish your family happiness!