When men cheat, women must be calm. What three things can be done to make the "little three" retreat?

What do women fear most when they reach middle age? My husband must have cheated on me and had a mistress. There was a line in the once hit drama Dwelling House: "Once you can't beat Xiao San, Xiao San will come into the room, spend our money, live in our room, sleep with our husbands and beat our baby ..."

In the face of mistress, many women will choose to "go shirtless" when their minds are hot, and fight directly with mistress. They can't wait to catch mistress and show her off. Anyway, this is how they get rid of the feeling of anger.

However, people are prone to make mistakes under impulse. At that time, it will not only arouse the resentment of the husband, but also be counterproductive and may trample on the bottom line of the law.

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In fact, when a husband cheats and a mistress appears in his marriage, a woman must be calm and use her legally recognized status as a "client" to do three things well so that the mistress can retreat.

First, try to find signs of husband misconduct as soon as possible.

A single spark can start a prairie fire, but it is always easier to put out a single spark than to put out a prairie fire. As long as a woman observes carefully, she will always find clues about her husband's derailment, such as often working overtime without warning; Answer the phone with a flustered face; Wechat is cautious ... these are probably signs of her husband's infidelity. If these "danger signals" are found, women should be "highly vigilant" and kill them in time.

Second, make good use of family warmth.

After all, it is only a moment of passion for my husband and mistress. I must have deep feelings for myself and my husband. Women should be good at playing family cards, and draw the hearts of men who want to cheat with the family's family happiness and the deep affection of husband and wife. You can also organize family members to travel together, soak in hot springs and other collective activities to create a warm family atmosphere; If the child is not big, you can also send the child to your parents' home every once in a while, live alone with your husband and relive the life when you are in love. ...

Third, change yourself and create surprises in life.

Most men cheat because of "aesthetic fatigue", not to destroy the family. Men calculate the economic cost of marriage more clearly than women. Never cry or make trouble when a woman is hot-headed. Men can't find their way back. Yao Mulan in Clouds in Beijing is the representative of this kind of women. She is beautiful, smart, sensible and knows how to choose. After discovering that her husband was having an affair, she didn't cry, but quietly started the remedial work. I often dress myself up beautifully and pretend to communicate with mistress unwittingly, so that she can retreat.

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There is a "mistress" in marriage, and women cry and make trouble. In fact, they just pushed their husbands to "mistress" faster. It may not be irreversible, but this noise will completely "water under the bridge".

Couples who have been married for more than ten years, even if they lose their passion and look back on their past joys and sorrows, women will certainly not give up. What's more, if you divorce because of this, it means that the married couple that Ming Media is marrying lost to a pair of shady "dew couples".

Therefore, since you can't bear to part with it, you should choose to be calm and not be hot-headed. To be honest for a while, things will get out of hand.