To what extent can poverty make a man feel inferior?

Poverty will make a man feel inferior and lead a depressed life.

But some people are getting poorer and worse. Just now, the cloud said that he was originally a poor man. He lived a good life and lived a rich life. If you don't toss well, you will still be poor.

I have a classmate who is very handsome and has heavy eyebrows. After graduating from college, he was assigned to a state-owned enterprise. At that time, I was very proud and full of ambition. I was going to combine my career vision with the long-term development of the company, and my ultimate goal was to become a deputy director.

However, the wave of being laid off was unstoppable, and my classmates failed to escape this "disaster".

Generally, people who have worked as management cadres and offices in companies have the hardest time after being laid off, because they can't let go of face, self-esteem and money.

My classmate divorced not long after he was laid off. He didn't go out to work or do small business. He counts on his luck every day and wants to sit in the office and eat "national food" again. His mother is doing some side dish business outside. When she is in her sixties, not only is nobody in charge, but she also has to bear this disappointing son.

He sleeps at home every day and doesn't know what he is doing at other times. Anyway, he didn't have QQ or WeChat, so he called him ten times and didn't answer it nine times.

What a cheerful person he used to be, a person full of longing for the future. Now life has completely crushed him, he has cut off all social contacts, and he has completely closed himself off.

I look down on such people who "mourn their misfortune and anger them."

There is a laid-off woman worker in Xi 'an. After she was laid off, she bought cold rice noodles and dragged a tricycle around the street. Later, she used her brains to invent a kind of cold rice noodles-Qin Zhen cold rice noodles, which are more delicious than others. This kind of cold rice noodles is soft and delicious.

One step at a time, women workers first dragged tricycles along the street to peddle, then opened stores, and finally embarked on the road of chain development, achieving a career.

"There is no despair, only desperate people", life is like a road, how can there be no pit dolls. In the face of difficulties, we still have to improve our courage, use our brains, find ways to overcome difficulties and move forward bravely, so that our life will be colorful and interesting.

When you are down and out, all dignity, etiquette, shame and humanity are rolled aside, leaving only humility.

1993, I finally couldn't hold back my heart that had been stirring for a long time, and went to Guangzhou to break into the world alone regardless of everything.

I never dreamed that Guangzhou, known as the "world of flowers and flowers" at that time, had no place for me. It's been 15 days, and I've spent all my 1 10 yuan, with nothing but a shabby skin.

The sun in the south is burning, and I am walking in a crowded street, listening to Teresa Teng's sweet "When will you come again?" . Besides looking for a job, the most important thing now is: how to fill your stomach.

I haven't eaten for almost two days, and I feel the feeling of sticking my heart to my back for the first time. I even envy the wild dogs running around in the street. They are interested in food everywhere, and I never have to worry about starving to death.

I stopped in front of the window of a restaurant, and through the glass, people at a table were eating and drinking. I imagined the taste of all kinds of food to soothe my stomach, which I knew nothing about the taste of meat.

When I saw four people standing up from their seats to say goodbye, the food on the table was still steaming, especially a plate of "princess chicken", lying quietly without moving chopsticks.

I had a brainwave and walked quickly into the hotel. After making sure that four guests had left, I quickly sat down at the table. Looking at this table full of chicken, duck and fish, I can't wait to swallow it all in an instant. However, looking around at the waiters, I controlled myself rationally and tasted the delicious food gracefully.

"Chicken Princess" I didn't move. I transferred the guests' leftovers to my stomach one by one, burped and stretched, then turned to the waiter and said, "Pack!" " "

The waiter has noticed my unusual behavior, but he is afraid to ask more questions. When the "princess chicken" was firmly packed into the food box, my heart was much more solid: I don't have to worry about being hungry tomorrow.

After eating the "overlord meal" last time, I summed up my experience, improved my plan, copied three restaurants and took turns eating other people's leftovers, and spent 46 days in Guangzhou.

It was not until I was lucky enough to sell three houses at one time in a real estate company that I gradually recovered my appearance.

Looking back on that "humble years" today, although my heart hurts from time to time, I regard it as a precious experience in my life, urging me to never slacken and make progress forever.

Hello, landlord, it's my pleasure to answer your question.

To what extent can poverty make a person feel inferior?

In fact, I have always been poor and a little inferior. Not enough, not too serious. I can only say that I am poor. However, some people really feel inferior to a little abnormal because of poverty.

Let me tell you a true experience! My brother-in-law used to be a very confident man. I started my own business in the early days and also did business with the Japanese. I earned 300 thousand in the first year, when I was only 2 1 year old.

It can be said that during that time, he was in high spirits. His father often educates his brother, and you don't learn from your brother. My sister married him because she saw that he was young and promising. In fact, she never liked his appearance. After all, my sister is also very beautiful.

It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, probably because of youth and premature success. So after that time, I often go out to play with some friends. Business matters are not very concerned, and gradually many investments are lost. I became more and more grumpy and hit my sister. Because of this, I got divorced, but then I remarried.

One thing that impressed me deeply was that I didn't do anything, and then he said that there was a good project for me to do together. In the end, it was a loss. I still remember that morning, when I woke up, I saw him standing at the door naked, looking a little crazy. Then I went to the kitchen and took out a kitchen knife. I said it backwards and called us all out.

Then he said he would call the police and say that you cheated me of my money. Later he called his mother and said he was sorry! Said he was incompetent ...

It took a long time to calm down, and according to what he said later, he took me for someone else. But I can still feel his inferiority. My sister does WeChat business and often sends some advertisements on WeChat. He always said, be careful when making friends, and don't let others see anything.

Many of his friends are bankrupt now. Besides running to work, he usually plays games at home, but his energy is not as good as before. After all, it was so successful before.

I hope he can get rid of this inferiority complex as soon as possible. After all, his family is still there, and his parents still have some money at hand, so he doesn't need to worry. I started from scratch. I heard that I slept in someone's underground garage for a year. Think about the spirit of struggle at that time!

I happened to be reading a book "Inferiority and Transcendence" recently. According to the book, many people have inferiority complex, and those who can finally surpass it can achieve higher achievements.

Very sensitive, very sensitive, especially when family or girlfriends compare you with people who are better than you, or when someone looks down on you.

My family is ordinary, I am an only child, and my personality is particularly easy-going. I was admitted to a parallel university, but I didn't study for a few months. I found a job with extremely low salary. After working hard for eight years, my income has become much better than that of my peers, and my savings are OK. Then at the end of last year, I decided to give up this career and go back to my hometown to prepare for a big career. The baby was just born last year, which is very embarrassing. He lost half of his savings as soon as he came back. He failed anyway. So he found a job and went to work slowly. The money is only 3000 yuan, and it will be finished directly. After paying off the 2000 yuan mortgage, there is not enough money left to buy a car. I used to spend a lot of time looking at what I bought, but I still like to buy some literary luxuries. I'm fine now. I dare not go out after work. I used to eat out or invite others to dinner to contact my feelings. I dare not go out to eat now. My wife's bank relies entirely on her to support her family, her brother-in-law is also a civil servant, and her family is full of intellectuals. They look down on me and think that I have no culture and skills. Colleagues think I am stupid, and this kind of good treatment will come back.

However, I feel that these are only temporary, and I will get ahead one day.

Poverty really limits one's imagination.

When you live in a house with a leaky roof, you can't imagine the comfort in a mansion.

When you can't eat out once a year to save money, you don't know what a Michelin-starred restaurant is.

I don't know when I will suddenly fall down when I am sick.

I met a man in front of the hospital. His wife is very ill, but he can't afford hospitalization.

Only need 200 yuan, he knelt at the gate of the hospital. My wife sat on one side and wiped her tears.

Although in the end, some kind people gave them money.

But I will never forget that man. He took the money on his knees until the good-hearted man said, "I won't give you money unless you stand up."

He just got up from the ground.

But he never looked up, from his face to his neck and heels, it was all red. I think this is the most humble moment in his life.

For his wife, this is the most insurmountable obstacle in his life. Fortunately, his modesty still has dignity. He insisted on leaving the contact information of good people and promised to repay them.

A man with gold under his knee is also a responsible man who is forced to do so for his family.

I wish my wife a speedy recovery!

How low can poverty make a person?

"When I fell in love with you, I felt the inferiority caused by poverty."

This is a real example of my friend:

When he was alone, he lived in the basement of 600 yuan for a month. He didn't think it mattered when he was single.

Until my girlfriend shows up. ...

Shoes you can't afford, western food you can't afford, hotels you can't afford, and tickets you can't afford are all stuck in your heart like knives.

When he doesn't have a girlfriend, poverty is only the difference between eating instant noodles at night and eating steak in a western restaurant, and it doesn't harm his happiness.

But when he has a beloved person, he deeply feels the inferiority caused by poverty.

The good news is that he hasn't been hiding in inferiority complex.

With the appearance of his girlfriend, he has been thinking about how to make money and how to earn 1 10,000 yuan.

Later, he really did it and fulfilled his promise to his girlfriend.

When they were still living in the basement, he said, "Remember, others may still live here in two or three years. By then, we have left. We do not belong here. We are just making a transition here. "

Every time I share his story with others, I am particularly envious.

First, he can have a goal to work hard to achieve it.

Second, girls are so lucky to meet him.

Poverty didn't make him humble all the time. As he said, we only did it temporarily.

This is the state of poverty. Instead of always complaining about poverty, we should face up to difficulties and find a solution to poverty.

First of all, I think inferiority is related to personality psychology. People who are cheerful and optimistic and have a strong heart will be slightly better. That is to say, it is a very common psychological state in China. It seems that everyone has inferiority complex, but some people are more obvious and some people are not easy to perceive. Some are born, others are caused by environment, because people's psychology has been formed since they can remember. For example, other people's children have beautiful toys and beautiful clothes, but I don't, and I feel very inferior. The more vulnerable I am, the more I feel inferior.

There is also the result of environmental impact, such as parents, brothers and sisters, relatives and friends, and people around them. In addition, China people are proud of ostentation and extravagance, especially now, they are deeply influenced by the thought of "being laughed at by enemies". Under the guidance of money worship and all the bad habits that value money, the richer people are respected and the poorer people are despised. Therefore, people have learned to keep up with the trend, and the poorer they are, the more inferior they feel. As for the degree of inferiority, the most serious thing is suicide. I feel too tired to play with you.

There is another situation, that is, partners who grew up naked together, classmates, colleagues and comrades with deep feelings, because the gap between the rich and the poor is gradually no longer in contact, which is caused by inferiority. There was no difference before, but after many years, I found that Zhang got along well, bought a luxury car, and Li Zhanyou got along well, and lived in a mansion, but your present situation seems to be standing still, and it has not changed for many years.

Some time ago, I saw a video on the Internet, which was shot by a netizen in Africa, mainly introducing the cultural customs of Africans. One day, he walked into an African family to interview and shoot. This humble house was built in the desert. The shopkeeper is an aunt who looks about 50 years old. She doesn't have any decent furniture except pots and pans. It can be said that she is surrounded by her family, but she is optimistic and answers every interview with a smile. Aunt introduced the black guy next to the photographer and said that this is her son. He has two sons. The one who didn't come back outside is in his twenties and lives apart from his parents. The photographer offered to visit his room, but I didn't expect the African guy to be very cheerful and readily agreed. In fact, it is a mud house like a grain shop. There is nothing in the room except two single beds separated by sheets, but people don't think it is an embarrassing thing at all.

I have a strong sense of inferiority. If this happened to me, I would never welcome you to interview me, especially in my home. I'm disgusted. Not only unpopular, but also angry: "What are you doing here? What are you shooting everywhere? See if I am too poor to look down on my busyness? " Well, I feel humiliated and hurt my self-esteem. Therefore, it is normal for people to feel a little inferior, but it can't be too strong. If the inferiority complex is too strong, it is a mental illness, so I don't deny that I have a mental illness. Since childhood, I have only listened to good words and not empty words, and I can't tolerate half a sentence of criticism.

I haven't been to my sister's house for more than ten years. I didn't go when my sister got married. I don't even remember my relatives' children now, let alone attend their wedding. I don't know how many children my cousin has or how old they are. Of course, they don't know me. I haven't been to menstruation's house for more than 20 years. Of course, I also hope that on the day I die, no one will go except a few family members to help me scatter my ashes, just as they don't know me. So did someone else offend me? No, did I offend anyone? No, either. I just don't want to show my face, mainly because of my personality, and I feel a little inferior. I haven't made a fortune these years, and I haven't had a good life.

It's been more than ten years, almost 15, and I no longer worship my husband. My wife is from Laizhou. I used to worship people every third day, so I prepared so many seafood in advance. One year, my grandfather asked me how much money I made this year. As soon as I heard a buzz in my ear, I immediately realized that he was asking knowingly, because before that, could he not ask my wife? Ask his daughter? I used to live in Kongtong Island, and the sea in Kongtong Island was contracted by individuals. He already knows. If he knows that I can't make a lot of money, why do you ask? Didn't this mean to embarrass me? I was so unhappy that I couldn't put a smile on my face. I intend to go back the next day. Moreover, China people have a habit of always asking what you do when they meet. How much do you earn every month? This makes me very disgusted. What kind of job is related to you? I know so many netizens that I have never asked them what they do and how old they are in recent years. The same is true in life. What's the last name for convenience? I don't think it's necessary. This is not a relationship. Even if I'm in love, I won't open my mouth and ask, beauty, what do you do? How much do you earn every month? How many people are there in the family? How are the parents? Don't care about this, even if she is an orphan? Just look at her long lines that don't meet my aesthetic standards. As for whether she can get along with her personality and temper, I'll get to know them slowly.

What people fear most is poverty. Poor people have nothing, no money to spend, no wife, no circle of friends, and they are all poor people. They have been living in this poor circle, very humble, just want to hide themselves. Poverty will make a man feel inferior, and he can only close his inner world in his own small world forever, becoming more and more inferior and introverted.

Although money is not a good thing, it is absolutely impossible to have no money. No money, only a poor man, afraid to marry a wife, can't afford to raise children, and no one can raise children. In particular, the poorer people always want to have one more child, and they will only get poorer and poorer, and there is no way to change the status quo. They can only work in riff-raff, earning the hardest money every day, with a meager salary, but they can't afford to support their families and carry them in front of their wives and family.

The poor have no voice in this society. They can only listen to the arrangements of those successful people and work and live step by step like robots every day. They don't know when the first time was. Their competitive heart has long been worn away by society, and they have no heart to struggle. When they are depressed, they buy a bottle to paralyze themselves, forgetting that they are busy with money every day, that they are poor, and that they have to support their families.

Being poor means not having money, not daring to participate in social activities, not daring to go home, not daring to attend class reunion, and not daring to go out to play. Besides work, I hope I am the air of society and will not be discovered. We are all people who have no sense of existence in the corner, and we may have forgotten his existence long ago.

The poverty in today's society is that there is no social status, no money to marry a daughter-in-law, no fear of going home, and no friends just want to hide themselves. How do you hide yourself?

As the saying goes, it is difficult for rich people to have no money. Poverty will damage a person's self-esteem and make him feel inferior to the dust. The humility that goes deep into the bone marrow will make a person feel sad everywhere.

Because of poverty, men walk limply, have no spirit, can't lift their heads, not to mention high spirits, and are timid in everything.

In the face of the girl you like, you don't even have the courage to go up and chat up. Falling in love is not about drinking the northwest wind, and your pockets are empty. How can I be confident?

Even if I married my wife and gave birth to a child, I dare not lead her to buy clothes I like and see delicious food. The taste of swallowing it is uncomfortable; Because I can't buy toys, it's sad to watch the children cry there, and my heart is tangled and helpless.

The saddest thing is that because of poverty, there are no relatives and friends around. When I was sick, I could only secretly take some cheap medicine, and I didn't even have the courage to be hospitalized. And so on, poverty is like a shackle, which grabs a person's throat and traps his hands, making him walk hard and disheartened in life.

But poverty has always been a double-edged sword. A real man will never be intimidated by temporary poverty. Being born in poverty is not terrible, because they will show endless fighting spirit and perseverance to change poverty after suffering from poverty. Because men only show their true spirit when they overcome difficulties and obstacles! Let's go

The collapse of adults begins with borrowing money. Borrowing money, what a simple word, is how many people and heroes are stumped by these two words. Money, at any time, is so vulgar to talk about, unlike love, which makes people happy and touching, but these are all facts, and only those who have experienced it will understand the sadness and pain.

Poverty can make a man humble to what extent, focusing on men! Yes, you heard me right. Not only does love make people feel humble, but so does poverty. When you have no money, you will find many things. You really can't finish them. You must keep a low profile.

You said, you can't feel it, it's just because you haven't lived without money or experienced those years. How could you possibly feel that way? In order to eat a meal, all the money in the bank card is transferred to the change, and only two or three dollars a day is sad.

Ten years later, I finally realized the noble kind in myth. Because you have no money and no power, you deserve to be trampled under your feet, bullied and respectfully sad. When you have no money, everything you say looks like farting to others, but one day, farting will make people feel fragrant.

When I was a child, I didn't understand that money was only used to exchange material things, so there was no need to look so important. When I grow up, I have experienced a lot of things and found that once people don't have this thing, they are nothing. If you choose to live in seclusion, everything will be fine, but once you appear, it will always be an interruption to those who see you.

20 17, this is the most difficult year for my family, perhaps because it should be said that it is the most difficult year for my father. I paid a lot of medical expenses because of a car accident. Later, a month passed, and the injured died, requiring hundreds of thousands of compensation, but all the expenses were spent on medical expenses, so there was no money to pay. After many twists and turns, the compensation of 10 million was finally agreed.

My father said that no one had ever given a clear answer from the time he started to borrow money to the time he finally returned to the original point. You always push me and I push you. I'm like a ball, kicked around. However, these are not the most sad. The saddest thing is to pass by a relative's house and close the door if you want to go in.

Later, my father sold everything that could be sold at home. On the last day of the deadline, he collected all the money and showed a smile on his face. When you are down and out, you will see many people's faces clearly, and you will understand how worthless those so-called family ties and so-called friends are when they meet interests. Some things don't need to be written so carefully, and everyone who has experienced them understands.

As the saying goes, "the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor are busy and no one asks." This means that as long as you are rich, no matter where you are, relatives will come to you, and as long as you are poor, good relatives may not remember you. Therefore, there is a saying that poverty is inseparable. When a person has no money, no matter friends, relatives or even brothers, they will look down on him.

Men, in particular, are under great pressure. The most important things in their lives are houses, cars, wives, children and adoptive parents. What doesn't need more money to support? So men work hard. If you are poor, you don't want dignity, because dignity also needs money to support it.

If you don't borrow money, you will never feel broken or humble, you won't feel that others dislike you, you won't feel that you have no status, and you won't find that everything you say and do is wrong.