Why do you want to visit during the Spring Festival?

The most important festival for the people of China is coming, and it is a day for the whole country to celebrate. It is essential to visit during the Spring Festival, but it has bothered me for a long time. Why do you have to visit during the Spring Festival? I can understand what you said, "I don't have time to contact, and I can contact my feelings these days during the Spring Festival". I can also understand what you said, "Relatives will separate if they don't move, so they have to move", but I really don't understand "going to see (aunts, uncles, etc.). ) during the holidays. Why wait until the holiday to see it? It's generally fine. Probably not as important as my own business, so I don't go shopping much.

But then again, China is a human society, and some things must be done, and visits are indispensable. Red envelopes and gifts have become the standard for Chinese New Year.

I have seen a true story before. A young couple living in Chongqing planned gifts and red envelopes before the Spring Festival, and they also paid great attention to customs. Red envelopes also try to avoid the homonym of "4". Of course, they are not superstitious. Both parents are 600 yuan Hongbao, nephew and niece 500 yuan, grandparents, grandparents and aunts, and their menstruation is basically 200 yuan. "The National People's Congress estimates that there are tens of thousands of red envelopes.

The young couple also mortgaged a house, which was not decorated, and saved more than 30 thousand that year. They plan to decorate the house in the new year. As a result, the Spring Festival came and there was no year-end bonus, so they had to take out their savings.

The husband said, "Mom and Dad have many brothers and sisters. Someone came to visit us years ago." From the 28th of the twelfth lunar month to the New Year's Eve, menstruation, aunt and aunt invited them to dinner in turn. "

There are too many parents, brothers and sisters in the young couple's Spring Festival gift-giving plan, so they don't plan to give them. During the Spring Festival, they didn't encounter embarrassment, but stayed at home.

But I escaped here, but I did not escape to my wife. Children say "Happy New Year", 100 yuan is gone.

In fact, it is really not good to give gifts and red envelopes, so the young couple went into hiding for fear of giving gifts unevenly and offending people. If you give it all, tens of thousands of dollars are not enough.

Sadness is also a fact. And there are really many things to do in the New Year. Gifts and red envelopes must be prepared in advance.

Let's talk about our family. I wonder if everyone is like this. Every year after the New Year, there will be a lot of things left, many of which are useless. However, our family also spent money to send a bunch of things, which made a lot of contributions to the supermarket ... and it takes five months to completely eliminate the inventory during the Spring Festival.

I will go to my girlfriend's house this year. There are too many children in her family, and manners are very important there. In order to show my friendliness and make children and adults like me, it seems that a bunch of gifts are essential. I have prepared clothes, toys, candy and so on for younger children. For older children, some also prepared some red envelopes, totaling 100 yuan. There is also the elder over there. According to my girlfriend, his uncles like all kinds of cakes, so I prepared some cake gift boxes.

My parents also told me that if I bought a gift, the label must be torn off and the receipt must not be put in. Good reminder, otherwise I really forgot.

In fact, I think this is the most important.

There are also my brothers and sisters' homes here. I don't care much about what to buy when I visit, just buy some fruit or something. I bought a head and neck massager for my parents because their sleep quality is not good. This thing is very helpful to sleep.

To put it bluntly, giving gifts and red envelopes during the Chinese New Year is to maintain feelings. Both have some advantages. Whoever you buy a gift for will think of your kindness. Perhaps these "small favors" can help you at a critical moment, and there is really not much stress.

It is said that it was not easy before, but life is not easy now. Many people go home to be filial once a year and want to do their best. They won't pour out their pain to anyone. Despite the pressure, everyone wants to make their relatives and friends happy. But when giving gifts, it is good to have a heart. Don't care too much. Don't embarrass yourself.