How to face cold violence

Foreword:

First of all, we should realize that there is a big difference between cold violence and ordinary quarrels. Usually quarrel, two people can sit down and talk it over. Both sides can explain their reasons and finally negotiate how to solve similar problems in the future. Cold violence will not be solved, ignored, and I don't want to listen to your reason. I gave you a cold shoulder and gave you a look. In the event of a quarrel, you can signal two people to make things clear. If the other party says there is nothing to say, lose your face, don't be angry and don't worry. I will teach you how to deal with cold violence.

1. Cold violence must not be used mainly.

Getting used to it once and countless times will only make him feel worse. He even enjoys the pleasure of apologizing and making peace at home without doing anything.

You just need to calmly release a sentence when he refuses to communicate:

When I encounter a problem, I hope we face it, not you treat me. I am really disappointed. Come to me when you figure it out. You must be calm, even if your grievances are right. Don't be angry. Only when you say this sentence peacefully can you be right. He is the wrong person, and he needs to apologize.

He is cold and you are happy.

Use this time, you can ask your girlfriends out, do things that are restricted when you are in love, and pick up all the relationships that have been put on hold when you are in love.

3. Take photos of you going out to play

In particular, there are one or two handsome guys in the photo, letting him know that cold violence not only has no sweetness, but also increases competitors for himself. Not only do you not take the initiative to make peace, but you are also very moist every day. The only thing that makes him uncomfortable is yourself.

Finally, it's his turn to start looking for you and apologize to you. What I mean here is not to apologize for the quarrel, but to apologize for the indifferent, violent and unresponsive attitude. Some babies will ask him what to do if he doesn't look for me.

Only when he really wants to break up, will he not come to you. He wants to let you break up in a cold way and let him know. You will be lucky to get rid of someone who doesn't love you early. How many girls were tortured by cold violence and went crazy, and finally ended up dead. You can't buy his love, at least you can't make him so happy.

The most important thing is that when you accept an apology, you must make rules.

"It doesn't matter if you quarrel. If you have something to say, we will solve it together, but cold violence has touched my bottom line. See you next time. " The above tactics only apply to cold violence. In an ordinary quarrel, both sides can talk calmly. If you keep coming out like this, it's over.

It's not a matter of quarreling and going out. Hey, send photos or something. You just skip the face-to-face questions and go out to play. This is an escape. The other party will only be angry. Why did he come to you?

The original intention is to deal with those who like to deal with emotional problems with indifference and no solution. When you have a problem, it's your fault. Be generous and apologize. It's the other person's fault. Speak your mind and let's solve it together. Do the above operation without his cooperation. Moreover, in a small quarrel between lovers, if the other party comes to apologize, we should not be arrogant, but forgive if we want.