My boyfriend is four years older than me and I love him very much. His ex-girlfriend was his first love, older than him. He said he would never forget his ex-girlfriend in his life, never. ...

If you leave him alone, he can do whatever he wants and then see if he is good to you at ordinary times. You can also go shopping, watch movies and eat with friends of the opposite sex. If he expresses dissatisfaction, you can say that you have always been friends, no problem.

Of course, you should be bold and not always jealous, otherwise, you will never be able to hold him. Moreover, after all, you care more, so you have actually suffered. In fact, the less you care, the more you will make the other person love you. What you can't get is the best.

And whether you can understand what I said depends on your way.