Don't wait until you are old to understand what kind of old people are most likely to be "disgusted" by their children.

Don't wait until you are old to understand what kind of old people are most likely to be "disgusted" by their children. I often hear people leave their parents. At this time, I always feel that these people are too heartless. I also found it ironic when I inherited the family lineage, and then found that some old people should be accused and abandoned. True feelings are a bridge to maintain emotions, but some people are really desperate in this process, which will also make this true feeling unknown. Some old people don't have to wait until you are old to know that women are the easiest to leave these habitual old people.

0 1. Weird old man Everyone says that the palms of the hands are full of meat, but few people guarantee to treat every child fairly. However, we need to pay attention to a degree in everything we do. Some people have a little axial force, but it is not that serious. They still wake up in public and private places. But there are also some parents who are eccentric but worried, as if one child is their own and the other is not.

Not long ago, there was a popular search list about a child: a 15-year-old child was sent out shortly after birth. After the accident of supporting parents, the baby found his own biological parents, but the biological parents deliberately denied themselves. But biological parents cherish their children very much. Even on their birthdays, they have eight tables. At this time, they invited 15 children to have dinner together.

A child doesn't even have a place to live Besides, it's a luxury for children to celebrate their birthdays. It can be seen that this axial force has become eccentric and perfect. When a person is very axial, he always thinks it is best for a child, and he will regard the child as the apple of his eye. It is not easy to take another child seriously. But when you get old, you will find that you have many benefits. Children may not be filial to you, but will continue to be greedy.

But these children you don't pay attention to will not be unfilial to you because you are unreasonable to them. So, in the end, nobody will care about you. In fact, people who benefit from you should take care of you, but most people don't. So, as parents, don't go too far. Otherwise, your daily life will be of no help.

02. He has a bad temper and likes to call names. Some old people are particularly manic and like to curse others. Whether their children are right or wrong, as long as the old people are unhappy, they will curse at once. If you talk too much, you lose. Although it is your child, if you do this, the other person will feel chilling. Some parents go too far. In my village, many people burn paper money to curse their children. No one can see such a thing happening. Obviously, the child's inner hesitation and pain.

If you curse others, you are addicted, but the children will be very unhappy. Although some children can't believe this, if you curse yourself, such children will feel uneasy, so they must be separated from you. In this case, if you are sick, your children can't take care of you, which will bring you inconvenience.

Some old people get grumpy as they get older. When they got home, the children saw that the old man was ill and sent him to the hospital. When he saw what the old man lacked, he immediately bought it for him, but the old man was still intolerant and scolded others seriously.

Finally, your weight in other people's hearts drops sharply. No matter how your children, relatives and friends avoid you, you will eventually become a lonely old man. As an old man, you must flirt on your nose. You can't express your child's heart in words.

03. Like to lend money to others. Some old people like to borrow money from others, whether they are rich or not. The old man has been borrowing money from others. A relative and friend lent his family money to others, which is not a small sum. This friend has little money at home. A big family lives in the country. For decades, they only saved more than 65438+ ten thousand yuan, all of which were borrowed by the elderly. When the old man borrowed money, everyone refused to admit it. Even if some people admit this, they will delay again and again.

I met something urgent at home and couldn't afford it. At this time, the old man, the old man felt that he was doing the right thing and told others that the money was his own. When the old man said this, others were even more reluctant to return this person, so in the end, a lot of money could not go home. This matter makes no sense.

This matter has passed, and the old man also gave someone else's house to live in, saying that it was subletted to someone else's house. The conclusion is that when people leave, everything is done at home and a bunch of valuable things are smashed. However, the man lived a daily life in the village, and laws and regulations could not protect himself, so he ate another meal and closed the door.

Maybe some people think that such a thing is unlikely to happen, but it does happen to me. Such old people are really getting cheaper and cheaper. It doesn't matter. This family is kind, otherwise the old man would have been abandoned. Old people can't borrow money from others at will. Although we want the elderly to live a long and healthy life, the elderly are really the sun on the top of the mountain. If one day they are forbidden to leave, they don't need to go home.

04. People who tell lies and gossip probably don't like anyone. Some old people, as long as there is a little movement at home, tell others about their family, whether it is good or bad, and remind others immediately.

When the elderly do this, your family's trust will drop sharply. There are many key things I can't tell you because they are afraid that you will tell others. Young people have the social circle and world of young people. Some old people really listen to the wind and rain, promote this matter very much, and finally bring inconvenience to their children.

In some cases, when children are working, their children are likely to tell only a short story about others' work. The old man couldn't hear clearly, so he said it was something children did. Finally, they will continue to drag their children into the water and hurt their lives.

Some old people lead their daughters-in-law to do things they are not satisfied with. They will gossip about their daughter-in-law. After listening to your daughter-in-law, they will feel uncomfortable and let your children say that you are uncomfortable. When they get to the back, the daughter-in-law and son may need to move out. You are the only one in the family, or your wife. In this case, no one will care about you.

Therefore, we should talk less about the younger generation, do more good deeds and talk less empty words. Respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional Chinese virtue of the Chinese nation, but some things that some old people do are really chilling. Their children are also very kind to such old people, but some old people do things that make their children feel very troublesome and have to be separated from them.