What does it mean to suddenly have weakness and armor?

What do you mean, "suddenly have a soft spot and armor"? Basically, everyone agrees that weakness is weakness in love, but the meaning of armor is different. I collected your opinions on the Internet and summarized them as follows:

1. Protection theory

In other words, after falling in love, there are weaknesses and strong backing. Armor here means that someone protects himself and is not afraid of being hurt by others.

2. Strong theory

Falling in love with someone is easier to hurt yourself, and the person you love will be your backing to become stronger and braver for your lover.

3. Alienation theory

After falling in love with someone, that person is your inner weakness. In the process of pursuing that person, you can feel that his every move is alienated like barbed armor.

4. Prevention theory

Weakness represents a person's weakness, and armor represents defense. It probably means that after falling in love with someone, that person is the weakest place in your heart, and it also makes you guard against others.

These views are very reasonable, but we can clearly see that the first view is from the perspective of girls. Girls feel that they have a real boyfriend, that is, they have weaknesses, and suddenly feel protected by their boyfriends. However, if a man is eager to be protected by a girl, it is a bit wrong, so this statement is not suitable for men.

Let's look at the "estrangement theory". This situation is generally in the process of unrequited love, unrequited love or pursuit of a person. Because the person you love has not developed into a lover, you may only be far away from him or her. It may be a strange relationship, an ordinary understanding relationship, or a very familiar good friend, but in fact, when you meet him or her or talk to him or her,

The "defense theory" means that two people are already in love. Falling in love with someone is of course a weakness. At this time, you lose interest in any other opposite sex and consciously block them. The armor here should be ready.

The "strong theory" can be pursued when one person falls in love with another. Falling in love with someone and trying to pursue him (her) is a pain in your heart, but it is precisely because of him (her) that no matter what setbacks you encounter, your will will become more tenacious and you can give everything for him (her). And falling in love, no matter what difficulties appear, loving him or her is the driving force for you to persist.

These statements are more supported by "strength theory", while I prefer the faint green feeling of "alienation theory" The answer is always colorful, and different people have different feelings. Everyone has different roles, is in different stages of love, and has different feelings about this sentence. So when you see someone who loves you, it feels like you suddenly have a soft spot and armor. You don't need too much explanation, just feel it with your heart, and sometimes being unconscious is also an understanding.