Parents' experience sharing is very brief.

Parents' experience sharing is very brief.

Parents' experience sharing is very brief. Family education is very important for every parent and child. Many parents are not very clear about the methods of family education. At this time they will share their parenting experience with each other. Let's briefly share the experience of parents.

Simple sharing of parents' experience 1 the first point: spend more time with children and communicate more. Praise more, encourage more, criticize less and blame less. Everyone is lazy. It is natural for children to play, and so are we adults. Do you want to have a rest, play cards and chat with friends after a hard day's work? Therefore, children should not be blamed blindly for their playfulness, but should be encouraged to finish their studies quickly before playing.

Parents have to make sacrifices at some point. Read and watch TV with your children, so that they can feel your care and love. I believe that "what you lose will be gained", you will find that your child's heart is close to you, your child will become sensible, and you will find that what you pay is worth it.

In the past, my son didn't like to communicate with us and didn't take the initiative to say anything. He didn't know when he asked, and he didn't care. He asked a lot, he slowly observed and learned to think. He always tells me what is happening at school now.

The second point: cultivate a sound personality, encourage him to participate in more collective activities and enhance the sense of collective honor. For example, I suggest parents encourage their children to participate in various activities organized by the school, so that children can have a strong team spirit. Because only in activities can children feel the collective strength and their real happiness!

The third point: cultivate children's consciousness and develop good study habits. Let children know what is right and what is wrong. When to do your homework and when to have fun. We should appreciate children's mistakes. When children make mistakes, we should help them analyze and help them get out of trouble.

Because at this time, children need help most. Watching children change day by day, as a parent, I see it in my eyes and like it in my heart. I know that every progress he has made is inseparable from the teachers' earnest teaching, the selfless help of his classmates and the hard work of his parents.

Introduction to parents' experience sharing II. First, adjust your mentality in time.

When children are young, we often hear him say to friends, "You are wrong, my father said so …" "No, my mother doesn't want to …" But as children grow up, they begin to have a sense of self. You will find that they no longer put their parents first as they did when they were children. They are more willing to be with their classmates and friends, and they are more willing to talk to their friends when they have worries, and they are no longer willing to open their hearts to you easily.

If parents don't adjust and change themselves in time at this time and still treat their children like children, it will easily lead to family conflicts and conflicts. The biggest feature of children at this stage is that they think they are adults and don't want to be treated as children by others. I remember my daughter's birthday in the fifth grade and invited several close classmates to play at home. When the children came in, I casually asked, "What do you want to eat, children?"

I didn't expect their reaction to be particularly fierce. They strongly protested that I called them children, as if they were greatly humiliated. I quickly apologized and called them classmates before I gradually calmed down. After a while, my daughter whispered to me again, can I avoid them when they blow out candles? Her friends will be uncomfortable when I'm around. From then on, I began to realize that when children grow up and have their own circle of friends, parents will gradually withdraw from the first intimate relationship.

Although there are some disappointments, these are all things that children must face when they grow up. For these changes, we must first accept them and then change ourselves to adapt.

Second, accept your children and influence them with care and action.

Every child is unique, the top students will have their own shortcomings, and the underachievers will have their own unique advantages. As a parent, you should first accept your child completely from the heart. No matter where he ranks in the exam, you should completely accept him as your most precious child and regard him as the most special and potential child. Usually, we should pay more attention to children and talk less, and consider problems from the perspective of children.

For example, many adolescent children begin to worship idols, which many parents find incomprehensible and often lead to contradictions. Idolatry is a unique phenomenon in this age group. Considering that we also like singers from Hong Kong and Taiwan at that age, parents need to give correct guidance according to the situation to avoid being killed with a stick. My daughter likes an online singer named He Tu. After observation, I found that children's listening to music did not bring adverse effects on their study and life.

So I sometimes try to listen to his songs, and the children are very happy to see them. They also shared new songs with me, and often exchanged ideas, which brought us closer at once. In learning, my daughter is not the legendary "university tyrant", and her primary school grades are only above average, and she is not very diligent and quiet and introverted. When I was in primary school, I basically followed an open and free way of education, belonging to the "queue-jumping school". I didn't put too much pressure on my child because of her grades.

However, the sects are not completely indifferent, and teaching by example is more important than words. Parents' behavior affects their children bit by bit in daily life. For example, they read more books and spend as much time with their children as possible. Invisibly, children have developed the habit of reading. My daughter loves watching Harry Potter, so I bought her a full set of Chinese and English versions. I have time to watch the original Harry Potter movies with my children on weekends, which not only enhances the parent-child relationship, but also improves my English.

Although a lot of reading is not obvious in primary school, it will become an intangible advantage in junior high school and high school, and it is a precious asset for children's life.

Third, when it is time to let go, let the children make their own decisions.

Let go when it's time to let go and let the children make their own decisions. When children reach puberty, their self-awareness is high. At this stage, they are eager to grow up and be independent. They think they are thoughtful when they grow up. They feel that they are being watched and their parents pay too much attention to them, so they lose their freedom. So they stand up and protect themselves like hedgehogs, and they are rebellious. The less adults let them do, the more they will prove that they have grown up independently.

At this time, if parents do not pay attention to their attitude and confront their children, it will inevitably lead to family conflicts and affect the parent-child relationship. Independence is something that children must face when they grow up to a certain stage, just like a butterfly is about to break out of its cocoon. If you don't let it out, it will die. Therefore, when children strive to be independent, parents should give them enough respect and relative freedom. After all, children are immature and will not reflect on themselves. At this time, why don't parents give up voluntarily? As long as the general direction is good, let go when it is time to let go.

My daughter didn't attend remedial classes in primary school for six years. When she goes to junior high school, I sometimes feel impatient when I see that all the children around her are in various remedial classes. But my daughter has her own old ideas, and she doesn't want to go to remedial classes on weekends. After careful consideration, I suggest that we discuss it after the end of the semester according to the results. Daughter Xiaoshengchu ranks sixth in the class, ranking around 20. She immediately agreed, saying that if her grades fell below the top five, she would listen to her mother. Results Several big exams made progress every time, and the first semester gradually entered the forefront.

In the second semester of the second grade, my daughter offered to take part in the remedial class, because she chose it, and the remedial class for one and a half years was very active. Therefore, when children encounter problems in their study and life, parents should try their best to understand her thoughts and discuss and reach an agreement with her through consultation and communication, instead of making decisions for her. Usually listen more, give less orders, and do it when children need help.

Fourth, how to skillfully deal with children's rebellious behavior

In adolescence, almost every child will have a certain degree of rebellious performance, but some will be more intense and some will be slightly mild. In the face of children's rebellion, we must not play hardball, and it is unrealistic to let it develop. This requires paying attention to some skills and using some means to fight with children and solve problems. First of all, we should reach an agreement on parents' educational concepts. If you have differences, you should negotiate behind your back and never argue in front of your children.

Since the child wants his parents to treat him as an adult, sit down and negotiate like an adult. This is the most equal and fair way. What parents are required to promise, what children are required to do, and what everyone will abide by ... Finally, when an agreement is reached, everyone will follow the agreement. Parents must first keep their word.

One of the things that I have the most conflicts with my children is about mobile phones. I've said it countless times, but good times and bad times always work. Every time she said it, she had a reason: "My classmates asked me about my homework, and I still need to check the information ..." When I was in the third grade, I made up my mind to get rid of the problem that she looked at her mobile phone while doing her homework. Finally, an agreement was reached through negotiation, and my smart phone was replaced by buttons, so I could use my mobile phone to check information. Gradually, I stopped touching my mobile phone in the third grade.

But in high school, there are signs again. At this time, it is no longer feasible to change the mobile phone. The teacher ordered the class group to be dissolved, but it didn't seem to work.

Later, I thought, don't we parents all hold mobile phones all day? How can we educate our children well? So I discussed with her that I didn't look at my mobile phone when she was doing her homework. Now, it seems that this trick is quite useful. My daughter is generally obedient and has mild symptoms of rebellion. This method may not work for other children. Parents should pay more attention to their children's personality characteristics. As long as they are suitable for their children and achieve their goals, it is the best way.

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The fifth-grade children will soon face junior high school, which is also a concern of parents. First of all, as parents, we must pay attention to the senior high school entrance examination policy in recent years and be cautious in choosing schools. Since 15, there is no choice of schools in high schools, that is, the number of places with a few cents in the past is gone, and the proportion of index students has increased. My point of view is to try not to let children lose their qualifications as index students, so we must be careful in choosing schools. It is gratifying that some students who have studied well can be admitted to famous schools such as Shanda Foreign Language High School, but the gathering of top students there means that the competition for the senior high school entrance examination is more intense and cruel. Parents must weigh all the advantages and disadvantages before making a decision.

Another advantage of Shunwen is the nine-year system. When children enter junior high school, they can enter the state faster without having to re-adapt to the new environment and new classmates. Then there is the connection between junior high school and junior high school. Many parents think that the connection between junior high school and junior high school is just one of them. The knowledge of junior high school is very different from that of primary school. What is more important is the adjustment of children's study habits, methods and ways of thinking.

Let children develop good study habits, concentrate on attending classes and study independently, learn to preview, take notes and review in learning methods, and transition from image thinking to abstract logical thinking, all of which need to be gradually adapted. Parents should guide and care for their children from these aspects.

Parents are the first teachers in children's lives. To be a lifelong mentor and friend, cultivating a good parent-child relationship is the key. When children reach puberty, it is most important to establish parent-child relationship. I hope my life experience can help everyone. I am very willing to grow up with you! Thank you!

Parents' experience sharing is very brief. 1. Create a good learning atmosphere.

Children must have a good learning atmosphere if they want to study well. After all, children are still young and have poor self-control ability. A little noise outside will affect their attention. Therefore, when children should play, they can turn on entertainment equipment such as TV and stereo. However, as long as the children have entered the learning state, everything will be quiet, which makes it easier for students to immerse themselves in the learning situation. Therefore, I won't turn on the TV or stereo.

I let my children enjoy themselves while studying, but keep the environment quiet. I silently accompany the children. Sometimes my husband leads his friends to play, and I am worried that it will affect the children, so I let them study in the study or at my classmates' home. In this sense, it is worthwhile for our parents to sacrifice their entertainment time for their children's study. Therefore, when children are studying, we should try to keep the room quiet.

Second, according to the characteristics of children, set realistic and feasible learning goals.

Every child has his own characteristics, so we should teach children in accordance with their aptitude. Parents want their children to become talents as soon as possible, and they can't wait to master what they have learned overnight. Their feelings are understandable, but they must not help each other. Excessive expectations will put too much pressure on children and lead to weariness of learning. The key point is to cultivate interest in learning and develop good study habits. Therefore, in terms of expectations, parents should first understand their children and don't set their goals too high.

In fact, my child is not a smart child, and sometimes he feels very tired and lazy in his studies. Sometimes, she is lazy, but in any case, I give her positive encouragement, set a small goal for her, compare the efficiency of dividing a day into two parts, then one day at a time, one week at a time, and so on.

Children will gradually find interest in learning in the fun of trying to succeed, so that learning is no longer a painful thing, but a pleasure. Always sum up children's progress in time and give some material encouragement.

Third, according to the characteristics of their children, formulate scientific learning methods.

No.2 Middle School is the best school in our county, with good teaching quality and learning atmosphere, especially a lot of top students. My children are under great pressure to study here. I know that in such a school with a cloud of experts, it is not enough to work hard and work overtime to be outstanding. Excessive efforts will not only affect children's physical and mental health, but also lead to the result that haste makes waste. So we must find a set of scientific learning methods according to children's characteristics.

In recent years, different problems will appear in different stages, and even multiple problems will appear in the same period. I grasped the main contradiction at each stage and came up with a solution. I summed up five experiences:

1, pay attention to the cultivation of learning attitude and improve children's autonomous learning ability.

Parents should learn to simplify complex problems. Learn to simplify the complex, and you can get twice the result with half the effort when you explain and coach your children.

3. Exercise children's memory through constant stimulation.

4. Grasp the key points of learning, such as three subjects other than Chinese, and never limp, and then all subjects will be promoted and improved in an all-round way.

5. Never delay the time when doing the problem. Be sure to complete the specified content within the specified time.

Fourth, cultivate children's enterprising spirit and serious attitude towards things.

The accumulation of a person's knowledge is not determined by his intelligence, but by being down-to-earth, accumulating over time and reading extensively, let alone being a junior high school student. I always say to my children, "Don't panic, take your time, as long as you make a little progress every day." .

As parents, don't rush for success, but step by step. When dealing with children's mistakes, we must calmly reason with them, or we can discuss with them to make them feel that something is wrong and give some suggestions to parents. In the future, don't let your child carry a burden to do things, and don't let your child have a sense of compulsion to learn.

In this process, parents gradually get used to themselves, understand their children's inner world, and let children regard their parents as their best friends, which can not only reveal their children's voices, but also solve problems and bring happiness to their children, so the motivation for learning naturally arises. It is very important for a teenager to cultivate their serious attitude towards things. Don't say you don't know or ignore your child's questions easily. Be sure to answer them patiently and carefully.

Even if you really don't know, you should guide your children to find out the channels and find out the problems. In this way, over time, the child's serious attitude will be cultivated more or less. Furthermore, it will be of great help to improve your careless attitude to remind some error-prone aspects frequently, or to do more targeted exercises. I believe that as long as you take things seriously, there is nothing wrong with them.

Fifth, guide children to arrange their own time reasonably.

I think children's study days are as tiring as parents' working days, so after school, all the time is left to the children themselves, but only if the homework is completed on time. Whether she wants to watch TV, play games or play outdoor sports, all this can be arranged by herself, and her parents can make appropriate adjustments according to her arrangement so that she can have enough time to finish her homework.

My children like watching cartoons at home very much. Because cartoons are usually broadcast around seven o'clock, homework is definitely endless. At first, we forced her to do her homework instead of watching TV.

She is reluctant to concentrate, and sometimes she even cries and loses her temper and doesn't do her homework at all. Later, after discussion, we decided to respect her choice of watching TV and doing her homework, but we should have time to make an appointment, when to do her homework and when to watch TV for a while, so that she would fulfill her appointment and not think about watching TV when doing her homework.

Sixth, educate children to treat failure correctly and praise them more in front of their achievements.

This is also the appreciation education advocated by our school. We are never satisfied with our children's exam results. When there is a problem, we will not blame her too much, but give priority to encouragement, and then analyze the reasons for not doing well in the exam with her, as well as the things we should pay attention to and the direction of our efforts in the future.

Let her know that the process of learning is actually the process of improving learning methods. As long as you master the right method, you will succeed in whatever you do in the future. When the child makes a little progress, we will praise her and let her know that the method we have adopted is correct and feasible, and we have also seen the actual effect, so that she will know how to deal with the same problem in the future.