My boyfriend said that diamonds are an IQ tax, and he didn't buy me a diamond ring when he got married. What should I do?

Men and women pay different attention to things. Never expect men to understand women's obsession with diamonds.

In the eyes of the majority of men, whether it is diamond or jade, in the final analysis, it is just a stone, which is no different from other stones we see in our daily life.

But in the eyes of women, it is not the same thing. What matters is not the diamond ring itself, but the meaning it represents. Diamonds represent unswerving love, and marriages without diamond rings are full of regrets.

My boyfriend said that diamonds are nothing unusual, that is, IQ tax, so he didn't plan to buy me a diamond ring when he got married. But I want it. Not that I'm vain. I just hope that my love can have a symbolic thing to show. What if he doesn't buy it for me? How can I be sure of my love?

In that case, of course I quit. If you don't buy it for me, don't you love me?

You don't even want to buy a diamond ring to prove your feelings for me and expect me to marry you?

So, I rudely lectured my boyfriend from head to toe to let him know how much his words hurt my young heart. My grievances, my unwillingness and my dissatisfaction are all expressed without a trace. I taught him not to talk, probably because he discovered his selfishness and never considered my feelings.

After that, I should probably have thought of everything. I got a sparkling diamond ring as I wished. I feel extremely happy when I look at the bright light of diamonds flashing between my fingers. That's right. I don't want too much. I just need something to prove it. What's the use of asking you if you don't even give me this?

Dear sisters, your boyfriend won't buy you a diamond ring because they don't think it's necessary, so you must tell him how much you value it and how important it is to you. If he doesn't dare to buy it for you after understanding this, he should give him a rough lesson and let him know that you are not easy to mess with. He doesn't pay attention to your feelings, which makes you angry, and the consequences are unbearable.

In fact, is it necessary for men to tell us that diamonds are IQ taxes? It's not that we women don't know that diamond is a carbon molecule. Who hasn't studied physics in middle school?

Do we value diamonds themselves? What we value is the meaning it represents. Just like a man's obsession with cars, a car with 30 thousand yuan is the same as a car with 3 million yuan. Why can you men give so much meaning to 3 million cars? Everyone is a human being, and no one can be obsessed. Only men who don't care about women will find such and such excuses.