Come to my sister-in-law's house for dinner and talk about it.

Then don't eat. What you eat like this is not rice but a pack of gas. If I were you, I would try to eat something outside by myself, depending on your sister-in-law's strong face. Why give her money? Brother and sister-in-law should take care of you like parents. Not to be taunted, but to be able to hide. I'm so tired from work that I have to look at my face when I go home. Why don't you ask your brother and sister-in-law for a card? What do you mean? Remember that persimmons are soft to pick. If you don't want to eat out, why don't you eat generously and be afraid that she will kick you out? She won't make you feel better, and you won't make her feel better. This is my life principle.