When a marriage comes to an end, should we choose to let go or stick to it?

Husband and wife meet, get to know each other, get along, fall in love, and finally get married. This is fate. We should cherish it, and then work together to run a business together.

But in reality, many couples turn from love to hate after marriage, and will continue to live, treating each other like air, quarreling after a few words, and even having the impulse to strangle each other, just like strangers.

Think about it carefully, is the husband and wife not tolerant and understanding enough to come to this step?

You know, tolerance and understanding should be mutual. I can understand your difficulty, and you can understand my hard work. It's not that one person can never solve the problem by unilaterally understanding tolerance, and the other party may push your luck.

Faced with this situation, if two people still have feelings and children, and the other party has not made any principled mistakes, then try to take a step back, sit down and communicate well, and it is most important to live in peace. If the other person has done something wrong to you, and your relationship has broken irretrievably, then let go!

Don't continue to be with each other without divorce, wronged yourself and wronged your children. Maybe you will ask, how can children be wronged?

The answer is actually very simple. When the marriage is not satisfactory, I have a cold war with my partner all day, quarreling and settling old scores. Afterwards, you ask your child: Who will you be with when Mom and Dad get divorced?

From the child's point of view, I don't want my parents to divorce, but some couples, what children hear most is divorce, and they can't give their children much love at all. All they gave their children was a warm and broken family.

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In my opinion, if both husband and wife can't give their children a lot of love, can't tolerate and understand each other, and the days are getting colder and irreversible, then instead of torturing each other, it's better to stop loss in time, get together with each other and let go to pursue the life they want.

Even if you end up alone, you will be happier than in an unhappy marriage. However, it is worth mentioning that letting go is easier said than done. Many women don't have the courage to divorce, especially those who are financially dependent. Few people really dare to divorce, but they will.

Some women also give themselves many reasons not to divorce, saying that it is for the children, that they have paid so much, and that they are the same as anyone else. In short, even if they don't get divorced, they can't afford to get married, and they all have their own difficulties.

But if this continues, couples will naturally cheat and the marriage will come to an end. What do you want to spend with each other? It really doesn't mean anything. Of course, I'm not trying to persuade people to divorce. I'm just saying, if two people's marriage really exists in name only, without feelings and trust, the best way out is to let go.

If you don't let go and keep walking, it's the grave.

It seems like a joke to describe an ending marriage and grave. In fact, if you read it carefully, you will find that, like the marriage in the grave, there is no love, only countless grievances and complaints, which is very realistic and has to be admitted. So, when a marriage comes to an end, let it go!