Should a daughter-in-law serve her sick mother-in-law?

Should a daughter-in-law serve her sick mother-in-law? Personally, I don't think there should be, only willing or unwilling. If the mother-in-law was very kind to her daughter-in-law before, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got along very well, then it means that the old man has done his duty, and if the daughter-in-law knows how to be grateful. I will take care of my mother-in-law, because everyone's heart is made of meat.

On the contrary, many mother-in-law always find fault with their daughters-in-law, and even embellish them. They are never willing to help, neither pay nor contribute to their sons' families. So to be honest, such a mother-in-law is neither nurturing nor helpful. Don't talk about your daughter-in-law, don't even care about your own son?

Therefore, how a daughter-in-law treats her mother-in-law depends on how her mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law and grandson.

It is human nature to take care of her, and it is my duty not to take care of her. After all, I have to work and take care of my children.

If the mother-in-law is sick and can't take care of herself, should the daughter-in-law serve for a long time?

Personally, I think you should take it for a long time, because since you are married to his family, you have the responsibility and obligation to undertake his family's affairs.

When a man is working hard outside, as a wife, he should share the troubles in his life to the greatest extent, especially his mother, which is the most concerned thing for many men. If the mother is ill and nobody takes care of her, then the man will feel uneasy no matter what he does. At this time, if a virtuous wife helps her take care of her mother, he will not only feel at ease, but also be very grateful to his wife, which will also help to enhance feelings to some extent. So I think a wife should take care of her mother-in-law, both morally and objectively.

As the saying goes, women hold up half the sky. I think couples should choose to share these problems according to their actual abilities in life. For example, if men shoulder the responsibility of working outside to earn money, then women's main responsibility should be to take care of children and the elderly at home. Because this family needs the support of both husband and wife, it is impossible to take care of this family by one person's efforts. So in principle, the daughter-in-law should take care of her sick mother-in-law and take care of her wholeheartedly, because this is the responsibility of both of you.

From the perspective of educating children, the daughter-in-law's very filial behavior will also greatly affect the child's future growth. The child will follow your example, take good care of you when you are old, and educate his wife and children.

We must pass on this filial piety in the future, which will play a very benign circular role for your whole family. Let the family flourish, and after many years, you will feel that it is really worthwhile to pay now. As the causal cycle says, if you plant good karma today, you will surely get good results later.