What do people over 65 fear most?

I don't think a 65-year-old is afraid of anything. At this age, life is not far from the end. Everything is natural. One day at a time, one year at a time.

People over 65 are almost 70 years old, so we can take our time. Fame and fortune have nothing to do with us. We have to live with high-ranking officials. Many girls have no choice but to catch up with them.

Whether you are a senior official or a rich man when you are young, you will eventually face birth, illness and death. God is fair.

It's just that people with good conditions live better, and those with poor conditions have to live. Don't compare money and filial piety with others. It's good to be alive.

Life is very difficult. They struggled when they were young, and they felt at ease. They only pay, regardless of return, but also let go. There are thousands of trees in the mountains, but it is hard to see a centenarian in the world.

Cherish yourself, be less sick and less miserable, cherish the people around you, love and cherish those who care about you and help you get old.

It is not easy for children to cherish their affection, and it is not easy for children to be cool. Try not to get the children into trouble. Do it yourself as much as possible, don't always be filial, people will change their minds.

Don't complain. What social injustice, what welfare is bad, what children are unfilial, and what changes in the world have to be put aside. Life and death are natural laws, so we should face them frankly.

Old people have five fears. Let me tell you the truth:

According to my observation, people over 65 have five fears.

One is afraid of losing another partner, with no one around. No one cares about diseases and disasters, and loneliness is very helpless.

The second is to go to the hospital for fear of getting sick. I can't stand tossing and turning. I worked hard to save two dollars, and I spent all my serious illness.

Third, I am afraid that my pension is too small to go to a nursing home. It's hard to hire a nanny, so spend the rest of your life carefully.

Fourth, I am afraid of slippery roads in the snow, and I will fall down if I am not careful. The injury of flesh and blood is a trivial matter, and the fracture is even unbearable.

I'm afraid to go out and cross the road. The traffic is heavy. Stop and go, look around, and be careful of accidents.

People have difficulties when they are old, so it's no use being afraid.

Birth, old age, illness and death are the laws, and we can only be optimistic.

Happy every day, living in the present is the most secure.

I'm 59 years old, and I'm still a few years away from 65. I think people over 65 are most afraid of having no money. Everything is easy with money, and they can't move without money. If you are over 65, you will have no bank deposit and no retirement salary. If you add unfilial children, you are likely to lead a miserable life. Do you agree with me? It's hard to get old!

What are old people over 65 afraid of? It can be roughly divided into two types.

The first type: people with money or pensions are afraid of poor quality of life.

Most people over 65 who have money or pensions will live in cities and towns, because they don't have to worry about having no money. What else will they worry about? Or what are you most afraid of? Considering my personal feelings, what I should be most afraid of is:

First of all, I am afraid of losing my wife. Young couples are always together. When they reach old age, losing their wives is the most painful thing, and they will become real "lonely old people". Our generation is conservative. Now that two people are together, they hope to live forever and lose their wives. Even if our children and grandchildren are full, even if our children are very filial, they can't replace the role of wives. There is a speaker around us.

The second is to be afraid of getting sick. Even if you have money to treat yourself, you will suffer. If you have an incurable disease, even if you have more money, it won't help. There is a saying in Zhao Benshan's sketch: What people fear most is that people are in heaven and money is in the bank. Therefore, everyone wants to have a good health when they are old, but money can't buy a good health. On the contrary, people who live on meager food will feel better, so money can't determine everything in terms of health. I am most afraid of getting sick. I haven't had a dutiful son before my bed for a long time. My children also have their own work and life. They won't take care of you every day. The key is to rely on yourself and have a good body to have everything.

The second type: I have no deposit in my bank, no retirement salary, and I am afraid of survival.

Although there is only one difference between life and death, there is a big difference in real life. Rich people want to improve their quality of life, while poor people want to survive in the future. Most people don't have the problem of survival, but if they are old, have no money, have no pension, and their children are unfilial, then they have the problem of survival. What are people who have no savings or retirement wages in the bank afraid of?

First, they are most worried about their physical problems. Because without good health, you can't work, your income can't be guaranteed, and without economic income, the problem of survival arises. You can go and have a look. Old people in rural areas, no matter how old they are, should work in the fields as long as their physical conditions permit. Do they want to rest? Does anyone else say that they have no pension? It's not that they don't want to rest. A meager pension is useless. One month 100 pension, you can buy a bag of rice at most. What about the rest? Therefore, old people who have no money want to have a good health and can work in the fields to make money.

Second, I am afraid that my children will be unfilial and have no money. Why do they have this idea? If you are old, you have no savings in the bank, no pension, and the money you earn is not enough to make ends meet, you hope your children can give you some money for your old age. Raising children to prevent old age is deeply rooted in their ideas. If you have money, this idea doesn't exist. They also want their children to get along well. If their children have no money, what kind of pension can they give their parents? Even if the children are filial, it is difficult for a clever woman to cook without rice and have no money in her hand. Filial piety is also empty talk, right?

There are many things to be afraid of. When people get old, their bodies gradually decline and they can't do anything. They have to rely on others to help them. It is often said that it is better to ask for yourself than to ask for others. Dont Ask For Help can't do some things when he is old.

Sixty-five years old, most afraid of poor health, illness, and no money in my pocket. That is the greatest sorrow. No money hurts me to death. Secondly, I need someone to care about me, someone to be warm, and someone to be afraid of loneliness.

In real life, there are many lonely old people living alone. Despite social care, TAs are still eager to have family to accompany them for the rest of their lives. It is not unreasonable to raise children for old age. The national pension system is gradually improving. In the process of perfection, it is inseparable from the family pension model. Only by combining the two can the old people feel safe and dependent.

People are always the inevitable law. We respect the laws of nature, and it's no use being afraid. When it comes, we should have a good attitude, good living habits, face the reality optimistically, take good care of ourselves and live a healthy and happy life every day.

Sixty-five years old, over sixty-five, stumbling towards ancient times.

Say goodbye to the post of love.

Say goodbye to hard work

Say goodbye to familiar colleagues.

Say goodbye to rushing.

Say goodbye to ambition and ambition

Farewell to promotion and salary increase.

"Flowers will reopen one day, and people are no longer young."

There is still afterglow, and there is still residual heat.

Or return to the field, or return to the roots, or stick to the nest, or move the child.

After five years of self-cultivation after retiring,

Stay away from sweating

Stay away from dizziness

Stay away from fatigue

Stay away from hard work

Stay away from day and night.

Stay away from the bang.

Stay away from the struggle

Stay away from the battle for drums.

Stay away from deep feelings and hatred

I forgot the blood boiling at work.

Forget about his all-powerful days in office.

Forgot that I was walking on thin ice at work.

I am very relaxed, watching the scorching sun, the snowy moon, the autumn rain and the spring breeze.

In downtown, in alleys, in mountain villages, in Taohuayuan,

Travel around famous mountains and rivers, taste all kinds of specialties, play all kinds of things that you like to play, and be proud of forgetting your ambition.

Be a good nurse, security guard, buyer, cook and hygienist, and enjoy family happiness.

Inadvertently, look in the mirror:

What a familiar face inside, suddenly become strange:

Thick hair, like dead leaves on trees in winter, is sparse. "I stroked my white hair. It has become so thin that it can no longer hold hairpins. "

Smooth face, like wrinkled bark, ravines. The face is covered with dust, and the temples are like frost.

Bright eyes are like unpolished glass, turbid and dim.

Smart ears, I feel that the loud songs outside the window are getting lighter and lighter. After lights out, sleep in the beautiful rain.

White teeth, never say goodbye a few times.

He seems to be two centimeters shorter.

There seems to be two small bowls missing from my appetite.

It seems that I lost two hours in sleep.

The pace seems to be two beats slow.

The clothes seem to be two fingers too big.

Leather shoes seem to have gained two pounds.

Old, natural law, can't refuse to obey!

Sixty-five years old, what are you most afraid of?

Afraid of getting sick, unable to take care of themselves, dragging down children,

Afraid of being penniless, stretched out and unable to move,

Afraid of losing his wife, helplessness and loneliness,

I am afraid that my children will be unfilial, ignore them and leave the dusk alone.

I am even more afraid that the country is not rich and strong, the society is not peaceful, and the most unfortunate thing is the elderly.

Sixty-five years old, what are you most afraid of?

After the vicissitudes of life, there is nothing to be afraid of!

We should get together, have a rest, eat, drink, sleep, get up, play, swim and have fun.

Life is only once, and youth is gone forever, and it is impossible to start again, while Su Shi Dongpo thinks:

"Who said that life has not decreased? Running water in front of the door, you can still go west. "

Although people's youth can't be copied, they can be old and strong, and they can have the spirit of self-improvement. This spirit often makes people glow with youthful brilliance, that is, life can be less, just like a stream can still flow westward.

These two inspirational words, that is, framing metaphors, express profound philosophy of life in perceptual language.

We should be soberly aware that we are sixty-five years old and still young;

Twenty years younger than two old people running for president in the United States;

In rural areas, it is still half of the labor force. As usual, weeding at noon, planting melons and beans;

In foreign countries, some are bosses in enterprises, some are looking for jobs everywhere to earn their own living, and some still meet after dusk.

Let nature take its course and be content.

We should be glad that we were born in a good country, inherited our traditions, relied on our government, conformed to our system and enjoyed good treatment:

Holding three cards:

Social security card, with food in your hand, don't panic in your heart;

Medical insurance card, early treatment of illness, strong physique;

Bus card, urban and rural travel, pleasing to the eye.

At the beginning of Gengzi, COVID-19 ravaged the world, and the old people in the world bore the brunt, and everyone feared it. Some countries have given up the treatment of the elderly over 65 directly.

Only the great people of China and the country, people-oriented, life first, men and women, old and young, whether 65, 75, 85, 95 ... as long as they are sick and alive, they will try their best to save lives.

Proud that we are from China,

Proud that we are old people over 65 years old in China.

"The five-star red flag flutters in the wind, how loud the song of victory is, singing about our beloved motherland, and moving towards prosperity and strength from now on!"

Don't worry, people over the age of 65, put down their bags and go into battle lightly, and a happier life is waiting for us with a smile.

A healthy body is our body,

Happiness is our mood,

Hip-hop is our friend,

Tuan Tuan Yuan Yuan is our family,

Wisdom Fofo Agbo Wisdom Fofo Agbo is our wife,

Filial piety is our offspring,

Stability is our society,

Prosperity is our country.

At the age of 65, you have entered the twilight of your life. No matter how young and energetic you are, your physiology will always remind you that you are no longer young and it is time to consider the issue of providing for the aged.

Now many old people in the city have enough pensions, food and clothing, physical permission, can travel everywhere and enjoy life to the fullest.

However, when you calm down and think about it, there are still things to worry about, things to worry about, and things to fear most, which have always been in your throat: worrying about being seriously ill in bed when you are old, and being afraid of bringing a heavy burden to your child.

This kind of worry is not groundless. Not every old man can always fall asleep in an easy chair like Marx. Some people are over 65 years old, and they have physical diseases, strokes, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, which lead to bedridden and unable to take care of themselves.

My neighbor Professor Han is 67 years old. He cleaned the room, stepped on a step, broke his collarbone and is now bedridden. My son is busy at work and can't share his troubles. He asked a middle-aged woman to pay 4000 yuan a month for food, accommodation and day and night care. Fortunately, Mr. Han's retirement fee is more than 8,000 yuan per month, and he will not lose money. However, he is lying in the hospital bed, distressed! People don't have everything they want, and they have to admit their troubles.

Worry is not as good as taking good care of your body from now on. Don't be reluctant to eat, drink or consume. The body is the most precious and valuable real estate, and all the big items in the family have depreciated, only the body is priceless.

If you want to get through it, you should always pay attention to protecting your body, keeping in good health scientifically, eating well, sleeping well, playing fast, walking well and living happily every day. I don't think I will get seriously ill, so don't worry at all!

After the age of 65, people's health is getting worse every year, and various diseases gradually begin to appear, such as three highs, leg pain, back pain, and the body is no longer working. In fact, these are not terrible. My biggest fear is emergency hospitalization. Such as cerebral hemorrhage, myocardial infarction, various polyps, especially cancer. Spending money is a matter, and children can't just delay their work and feel uneasy. The thought of being in hospital just to suffer makes my hair stand on end. So the old man is afraid of an emergency. Chronic diseases are no problem. There are online pharmacies on the street. It is common sense for the elderly to take medicine when they are sick. The old man listens to the doctor and tries to avoid acute diseases. Don't smoke, drink less, wear thick clothes, eat less, walk slowly, be less in charge, and be careful everywhere, you can avoid acute diseases.

There are many things I fear most at this age, such as getting sick, having no money in my pocket, and being unfilial to my children. ......

If what I fear most is loneliness.

Sixty-five years old, in terms of time, should be enough, especially for retired people in the city, there is nothing to do at all. However, a lonely old man doesn't want to cook by himself, even if he has time. He is often hungry after eating enough, and three meals become two meals, and two meals are leftovers; I don't want to go out. I'm far away and my age doesn't allow it. I'm afraid of accidents, and I have nothing to do when I leave home. I don't even want to wash clothes. Why? No motivation!

A lot of spare time is locked in the house where I have lived for several years. Isn't it lonely? !

Mentally speaking, there is no goal and pursuit in life, and you can't divert your attention. A person is idle at home, no one listens to what he says, and there is nowhere to complain. Children are scarce, most of them are not married around, it is difficult to meet, and they have no patience to listen to you when they meet; Living with children doesn't help. Not only can not solve loneliness, but also may lose freedom and loneliness!

From a realistic point of view, when you have a headache and your brain is hot, you want to drink saliva. The water bottle is empty and the water can't reach you. At present, I am only sixty-five years old, and my body is still strong. I can still move when I want to do something, but I dare not think about the road behind me. I'm afraid I can't spend money. Not only loneliness, but also fear.

......

So people are most afraid of loneliness after they reach the age of 65.

However, if you have a wife, especially the original wife, you won't be lonely. The original wife has lived with herself for decades. Even if there are quarrels and bumps, she will not be separated from herself. She is loyal, reliable and considerate, and has long been a "comrade-in-arms" in the trenches.

With a wife, even if the money is less, it can make life a little harder; If you have bitterness in your heart, you can tell your wife that you may get comfort or ideas from your wife; Life is also regular, even if you do it yourself, you are more energetic; When I was sick, someone was around asking for help. ......

Therefore, cherish the original wife; Even if the original match is gone for some reason, find a wife as soon as possible.

A hole in the eye.

What is the most terrible thing for people over 65? Different people have different answers.

What's terrible about people over 65? No one can avoid the natural laws of birth, illness and death. No matter what age, one should bravely face all kinds of situations at all stages of life.

65 years of life, people have seen more, got used to it, and figured it out. They have lost too much desire and pursuit. What if they sleep and never wake up?

Generally speaking, people over the age of 65 have accumulated a lot of life experience, know more about the meaning of life, are less neurotic when things happen, pay great attention to controlling their desires, have their own habits and laws, and live happily every day.

Life should be like this: generous, free and easy, cheerful and optimistic! No matter what age, face life calmly and be fearless of all difficulties and hardships.

In the countryside, at the age of sixty-five, it is the "prime of life" when children are working outside, and several acres of responsible farmland at home are all managed by two old people. If at this time, the body is crossed and it is impossible to do farm work off the ground, it will be in trouble.

If you are in the city, or your children get along well, take your parents over and enjoy the rest of your time. Decades of hard work, disappointing is not worth it. Or an old man with a pension, who has been busy for decades, wants to do something he wants to do at this time, or go out for sightseeing again. Of course, it is uncomfortable.

Indeed, whether living in the city or in the country, 65 years old is an old man, but he is not old enough to do many things he wants to do. And if the body is failing at this age, the thoughts in my heart will not become a bubble!

Many people have worked hard for decades, living irregularly and not paying attention to eating and drinking. As they get older, their health has some problems. Even if you have money, you can't stand several ups and downs.

Some old people struggled tirelessly to "jump out of the farm" for their children in their early years, and later bought a house, a car and got married for their children, regardless of their life.

When the children brought the old man to the city, hoping that the old man could have a better life, the old man first lost his legs and feet, then his hands stopped working, and then his tongue failed when he spoke ... and when he checked, he said it was a "cerebral infarction" and "brain atrophy", and all the problems came!

Great, I'm in a wheelchair, eating and drinking Lazar from morning till night, and I'm completely taken care of by others. Of course, filial piety is better for children, but there is no filial son before the long bed! Besides, children have careers and families, how can they take care of them for a long time?

From this point of view, when people are old, what they are most afraid of is that their bodies are disappointing and their activities are uncomfortable.

Man, don't fight for fame and fortune, don't fight for position, and don't be angry about money!

The most important thing for people is to do what they should do, and think more about the happiness of others, the happiness of their families and their own health! Besides, it's all outside the body.

People over 65 years old will reach 70 years old before they know it. Even the employees of enterprises and institutions have retired for several years, and the elderly in rural areas will still go to work at this age, and no one will want anything. China's delayed retirement is still under discussion, and the age is set at 65, so we have to admit that we have completely entered the old age. What do old people at this age fear most? Refreshing means not supporting the elderly and being afraid of getting sick.

Older people over 65 enter a "decisive period" in their lives. The foot root is unstable, and falling sometimes causes joint diseases; Especially a stroke, if you are not careful, you will fall and be paralyzed. Not to mention looking down on illness, you can't take care of yourself just by living, and the pain is beyond words. Pension only has three meals a day, as long as you are not hungry, live day by day. Sickness and pain should be the most feared thing for people over 65.

Older people over 65 should exercise properly, for example, doing gymnastics and walking, which can promote blood circulation and improve immunity; Pay attention to the schedule, develop the good habit of going to bed early and getting up early, and sleep for at least 6 hours every day, which can regulate physiological functions and stabilize the balance of the nervous system; Protect brain health. Only in this way can we be in a healthy and benign state and prolong life.