Insecurity, indecision, worry and gain, too utilitarian, how to survive in the workplace?

First, about security? An indecisive question.

Such a personality trait? What is the best choice in job position selection? Work within the system.

The work within the system basically belongs to the ranks of iron rice bowls, which can give you enough sense of security.

? Generally speaking,? If there is no violation of discipline and discipline, who will make a big mistake and work in the system? Will not be fired.

Such as teachers, doctors, civil servants, etc.

Let's take teachers as an example to make a simple analysis.

? Teacher? The work is relatively stable. Teaching and educating people, isn't competition the same? Intense? Interpersonal relationship? Relatively speaking, not that? Complicated.

? What is the main competition? With what? Your own? Business? One's own work level, work achievements, scientific research level, etc. Competing with each other.

As for it? Indecision,? You don't need to be a teacher either? How many decisions. ? You follow the course step by step. Follow? Go to the textbook? Follow? Class schedule? All right.

Take civil servants as an example. ? As mentioned above,? What is the stability of teachers? And other characteristics,? Civil servants? What else? Both.

In the civil service? In the hierarchical structure, it is pyramid-shaped, layer by layer? . Generally speaking, if you are not the head of a department or unit, a lot of work only involves the implementation level. There's no need to make a decision. Make a decision. ? You just ... You can do it step by step, according to the requirements of the leaders and the practice of work.

? Such people generally have different personalities, right? More docile and obedient. Is it easy to get leadership? Are you happy? It's an honor.

Second, the problem of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss.

? It's difficult to do any job or occupation, and it's a matter of interest. Avoid. Relatively speaking, work within the system, work outside the system, such as doing business, starting a business, selling and so on. Gain and loss? Are relatively stable, for example, within the system, how much is your annual salary? Roughly Expect. ? Even if? Some are working? Bonus? Not even fluctuating? Too big for you to reach? The nerve-racking point.

? Be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, don't do some work. ? Like stock trading? ,? Speculate on funds and play finance? Wait a minute. ? Sometimes, within hours, in and out. Hundreds of thousands are gone. ? Are you online? Stock market? Up? Or a big drop? Fluctuation of funds? It's very big. ? Most people's little hearts can't stand it. There are more people who are prone to gain and lose? what's up I can't.

For what? Suffering from suffering, suffering from loss, suffering from loss? This question. The word "suffering from loss" comes from the Analects of Confucius. Confucius said to his disciples, "Can you deal with people with low quality?" ? When they can't get it, their troubles can't be obtained; When he got it, he was afraid of losing it. If you are worried about losing, then he will do anything bad. "In Confucius' eyes, people who are swayed by considerations of gain and loss have low quality and cannot do things.

? Yeah, he used to worry about that, right? Modern China? Zeng Guofan? There is a very good one? Statement? Ah,

Zeng Guofan said in his will that he was swayed by considerations of gain and loss: "Those greedy people are greedy for fame and wealth, and only do things that are beneficial to them and don't let go of any small profits. This is what Confucius said. "

What we are talking about now is too entangled in the past and too entangled in interests. Zeng Guofan also inspired us. There is a passage in Cai E's Quotations from Zeng Bing that "if you don't meet in the future, you won't mix, and you didn't love in the past".

This is very enlightening to us. ? Yesterday's is over. Tomorrow's hasn't come yet. The important thing is to be present? . The key is to live in? Right now.

? Whatever you do, don't dwell on the past. Like what? I lost my money, didn't I? Don't worry.

Economically? Isn't there a theory called sunk cost? ? If you care any more? What is the possible cost of sinking? More. ? Now you have it. Lost it? Now that it's irreversible, we'll ... Why don't you let go? Or what? What will your loss be? Bigger.

Third, about? Utilitarianism is too heavy.

1. Utilitarianism is a good thing. ?

Napoleon once said, don't want to be? The general's soldiers? No? Good soldier.

? If there is no utilitarian heart, how can this society develop?

? And vice versa? We now? This society, right? Have a mentality. That's it? Buddhist mentality.

? Now? There are many young Buddhists. ? Work Buddhism, life Buddhism, Love Buddhism, marriage Buddhism, no initiative? Do not refuse? Do not pursue it? Don't resist.

? Is it possible to become socialized in the long run? There is a problem.

2. What if? What if the utilitarian heart is too heavy?

? First of all, we should make psychological adjustment. Dealing with actual income and psychological desire for income? A balanced relationship. ? Psychologically Comfort yourself. ? Is there a correct one? View of money. The ancients said,? What is the money? Things outside the body,? Life does not bring, but death? Do not take it.

? we? Sometimes the utilitarian heart is too heavy. Maybe you can give more? How many children and descendants are there? Leave some property. ? However, as the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren? Blessed are children and grandchildren.

? Although we haven't reached the state of being completely detached from money and wealth, let's work hard in this direction.

The second is for what? Earn what you deserve and take yourself? The income that should be taken. ? Whether inside or outside the system, the workplace? There are some advantages more or less. ? You must know which one you should take. Things you shouldn't take. ? We will take what we need. It has nothing to do with it. ? You shouldn't take it, please? Don't reach out. Reach out? Will get caught.

If you want to increase your income, do it in a down-to-earth manner? Do your job well? Waiting for a promotion. ? Generally speaking, with the promotion of the position, the ability will improve? ,? Income can naturally go up.

Three is? If there is not much room for promotion, you can also do some part-time jobs.

? As for part-time jobs, what are the opportunities? A lot. ? Like what? Manual labor, can I go? Driving? Drive a taxi, drip, and drive. Use? Internet, okay? Do e-commerce, do self-media, write articles, do translation, etc.

? As long as you are willing to do it, as long as you want to do it, this society will provide you with endless opportunities.

I have several friends, all of whom have formal jobs and work part-time as psychological counselors outside. Psychological counseling. The income is very good

These? Mainly from the increase? Income increases wealth. If we ... There is not much promotion in the position. But? Get some money? It is also good.

? Really? A lot of things are essentially reflected in money, aren't they? ? Everything is about money? Easy, nothing is difficult without money. ? we? Want to really make a profit? Not a photo? Pseudonym. ?