I can't eat with my family, so it's difficult to unify my tastes. What should I do?

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I think everything can be settled through negotiation. Everyone's living habits can be changed slightly, depending on whether you are willing to make some sacrifices. If everyone in a family only cares about themselves and doesn't consider each other's feelings, then the life of this family will be very painful. I suggest you find time to communicate with your family and sit down to solve the problems of the taste, the combination of meat and vegetables and whether it is spicy or not. First of all: the taste problem. It is true that some people value taste, while others value food. This can be changed gradually. After making a request, you can make the taste of the dishes you cooked before heavier, and slowly reduce the amount of salt. Eating habits will change the taste. If it is light, you can add a little more salt. After such a period of time, everyone's tastes may be unified. You can try if you don't believe me.

Secondly: the issue of vegetarianism. This is easy to solve. You should mix meat and vegetables every day. If you don't want to eat meat today, you can be a vegetarian. Eat more meat if you want! Daily nutrition should also be comprehensive, with a good mix of meat and vegetables. Discuss this problem with your chef. Very easy to solve.

Finally: the question of spicy or not. I also think that after discussion, we can gradually reduce the amount of pepper until the end. I come from Hubei. I used to eat spicy food, but now I have been in Guangdong for more than 20 years. I don't eat spicy food much now! Because of the climate in Guangdong, I feel uncomfortable after eating spicy food, and I can't stand getting angry. If you really want to eat, you can buy some Chili sauce at home and add some when you eat.

So I said it was all negotiable. The key is that you should sit together and negotiate to solve this problem. Without communication, there will never be a solution. When a family is together, it must be mutual accommodation. There is a saying that it is difficult to adjust. How many mouths does a family have? If a company, hundreds of people, and the chef of the canteen can't cook the meals in this canteen, they can only cook some popular tastes, which can't satisfy everyone's tastes. Of course, the canteen menu can also be changed frequently to meet the needs of different tastes.

Above, thank you for your question.

[Pie] [Pie] [Pie] I really understand this question. First of all, one of my parents likes to eat hot and sour food instead of meat, and the other likes to eat meat and sweets, which leads me to be picky about food since I was a child, so that when I grow up, I will cook a lot of meals I like to eat to satisfy my appetite.

After getting along with the object, he likes to eat spicy food and sweet and sour food, so we had a big opinion at first [sobbing]! I believe that people who eat spicy food and people who don't eat spicy food can feel the same way … after getting along for a long time, they can eat spicy food and don't eat spicy food. Now he eats spicy food better than me! I used to like spicy dishes, such as Hunan cuisine, spicy griddle and hot pot.

Now almost every meal in my family has spicy and non-spicy dances, which can satisfy both people who don't eat spicy food and those who like spicy food. ...

Summary: When people who eat spicy food and people who don't eat spicy food eat at the same table for a long time, people who don't eat spicy food will learn to eat spicy food, and people who eat spicy food can accept not eating spicy food. This is what I like. I used to like spicy food, but later I especially like Cantonese food that is not spicy ... but I can't eat spicy food [I want to be quiet] [I want to be quiet].

This phenomenon is a problem for many families. Generally, two kinds of dishes are cooked, one is spicy and the other is not spicy. There are many differences when two people live together. There should be more communication and tolerance between them. No matter what happens, we should consider each other as much as possible, which will reduce contradictions and lead a harmonious life.

Every family has a difficult experience, some because of personality differences, some because of different tastes, some because of different interests, and so on. Bite your tongue, family conflicts are inevitable, so how to change?

There is a family where the father wants noodles, the son wants rice, the husband likes cakes, and the hostess is in a dilemma. Later, the family sat together to discuss a countermeasure. Eating noodles in the morning, rice at noon and cake at night makes the family happy, and it is always difficult to find a way. Trying to change the taste is also a very good thing. Since the tastes are different, let's find something in common.

The most important thing for a family to live together is mutual tolerance, because home is your only harbor.

My family also has different tastes.

My children and I have light tastes. I prepared Chili sauce for him.

The child's father likes spicy food. At home, I prepared Chili sauce for him and he added it himself.

You can cook one or two more dishes, and there is always one that suits him.

I can't eat with my family, so it's difficult to unify my tastes. What should I do? After my recent cataract surgery, the doctor said I couldn't eat my hair for a month. Hair is onion, ginger, garlic, seafood, spicy. Sometimes you can only eat alone.

This is a radish dish without onion, ginger, garlic and shrimp skin.

This is radish mixed with bitter gourd.

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I can't eat with my family, and the taste is difficult to be unified. What should I do if I am vegetarian and spicy? This question is quite interesting. Generally, when a family lives together, the tastes of eating together are similar. Like your question, it is really rare for a family to eat together. So this problem can be understood as a phenomenon, which does not exist in family of origin, but appears in a new family. Personally, that's how it is understood.

This problem can be divided into two aspects: going out to eat and cooking at home.

Eating out is relatively simple. Because in the restaurant, you can choose different dishes according to everyone's different tastes. Moreover, the dishes provided by general restaurants are not very single and will meet the tastes of the public, so we can order different dishes for everyone according to the tastes of our families, and everyone can enjoy delicious food at one table.

For example, if there are old people and children going out to eat at home, you can order soft and chewy food, which is easy to digest, not too spicy or too sweet. Take care of the old people and children, and there will be no trouble.

It is best to eat spicy food, not spicy food. When ordering, all aspects are taken into account, such as salty, sweet, meat, vegetarian, sour, spicy, soft, hard, crisp and crisp. Just order according to people's preferences at the table. If you don't know your preferences, you can give the menu to everyone, and everyone can order according to their preferences.

When eating at home and cooking at home, if everyone can't adjust, it will be a bit troublesome. Let's share some of my family's handling methods. There are four people in the family, an old man, a child and two of us. Old people don't eat sweet food, children don't eat spicy food, and wives love meat and spicy food. It doesn't matter what I am. So pay more attention every time you cook. For example, some people want to eat tofu, while others want to eat spicy tofu. In this case, I usually fry tofu first, then serve half and leave half in the pot. Add Chili or Chili oil to the remaining half of the pot and stir-fry until spicy. This meets the needs of both parties.

The above is my answer, the level is limited, for reference only. I hope to see more opinions shared by netizens and learn more food knowledge and skills.

In fact, a little bit of each other is enough! No, I can’t . I just need to work hard and make more flavors I like! [shy] [shy]

This is a problem related to family harmony, and it is not a small problem. You must insist on three meals a day. My opinion is: get used to it slowly, often change the pattern, and get used to it.

Home is the smallest unit of social elements. Most cities are families of three and four. That is, children and ourselves, this situation can easily solve the problem of taste. Both husband and wife will basically tolerate or accommodate each other. Both men and women have parents or relatives living together, which leads to different tastes.

Tell you something about our family. Although my wife and I come from the same province, we are far apart. I eat spaghetti and she eats rice. Fortunately, she can eat spicy food. I usually cook rice when I cook. Steamed bread is easy to buy. The food is easy to handle, and our tastes are almost the same.

Later, her sister came to work here and lived in our house. Her sister does not eat spicy food. When I cook, I basically cook three dishes, one is my favorite, the other is my wife's favorite and the other is her sister's favorite. So everyone takes care of it. It has been five or six years now, and I am used to it. And it never smells unpleasant.

Sometimes when my parents-in-law come, I will give them full priority. My parents-in-law like cooking, and I also like to eat their cooking.

It is inevitable that a family will have different tastes when eating! Get used to it after a long time. When you enter a house, you are a family. Everyone says we are all family. What problems can't be overcome? Is the taste of food still a big problem

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It is not easy. You can cook several dishes at home. For example, in our family, we cook three dishes every meal, so I prefer to eat green vegetables. Then I cook a plate of vegetables, stir-fry a spicy one, stir-fry another, and stir-fry a plate of meat. This will not affect the three of us, each eating his own food.

You can also stir-fry casually and stir-fry a few dishes. You can fry a little less, so you can eat more varieties. Our family never eats leftovers, so I cook and stir-fry just enough for each meal.