What three people do you mean by "down and out"?

When we are down and out, the first thing we think of should be our noble people, right? Because we always thought that the other side would help us, so as long as we asked them for help, we were lucky enough to get through this hurdle without much effort. This is also the inertia that drives us to do so, but why can't we think of noble people when we are down and out? Because there is no such thing as a free lunch, others can't always help you, and you still have to spend everything on your own.

love

This statement is a bit cruel, but there are many examples to illustrate this sentence: "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when the disaster strikes." Many times, when something really big happens, once the seas run dry and the rocks crumble, the vows of eternal love suddenly become empty. Say, all you need is one mouth, and you can say it if you can't walk. But to do this, you need a real mind. Being down and out is the time to test love. Tu Lei once said in the program: Whether a woman really loves you depends on whether she is willing to accompany you when you are hungry and cold. There are many examples in reality. When one party is seriously ill or depressed, the other party is afraid of being dragged away.

Although there are lovers who really love each other and accompany them without regrets, in any case, you should know how to be grateful and thank each other for their encouragement and companionship. In this real society, many things can't stand the test. We don't judge people around us by the worst, but we shouldn't take it for granted. Without hope, there will be no disappointment. At least in this way, when you are down and out, you can quickly adjust your mentality without putting too much pressure on yourself or the other side. This will help to get out of the predicament as soon as possible.

enemy

When you are down and out, your enemy may be in the spring breeze. You don't want to see his goodness, but you will immediately think about how to surpass him. These "possessed" thoughts can easily make your mind out of control and make unwise choices and actions. And these decisions are likely to make your situation worse.

This is why people often say "it never rains but it pours". This is not a superstitious problem, but shows that bad things are prone to chain reactions. Or I don't think it's a big problem at ordinary times, but if something goes wrong, it will become a very bad big problem. When frustrated, let go of the past. Life is your own, better than nothing. What does it have to do with others? It's not cost-effective to fight for a sigh of relief, but delay yourself. Or speak with strength and skill, so as to truly conquer others and win respect.