Speaking skills of communicating with the elderly

1. Don't fool your elders when you speak. When your elders live to this age, they will naturally develop a pair of critical eyes, so when you talk to your elders, don't be perfunctory, too worldly and too hypocritical, so that your elders will know at a glance. Therefore, you should be yourself. There's no need to disguise yourself. Be more sincere to your elders, and they will appreciate you more.

2. Don't show impatience, some elders may nag and some topics you may not like to hear, but please don't show impatience. It is common for elders to nag when they are old. We should be considerate of them, and in the process of chatting with them, we should devote more energy to show your interest in this matter, so that the elders will like to chat with you.

3. Know how to coax elders. Although the elders are wise elders, they are sometimes considered as old children. Children naturally want more people to coax them. So when you chat with your elders, you might as well say more sweet words, which will naturally attract more attention from your elders and make you more willing to tell you what you are thinking.

How to chat with the elderly?

4. Pay more attention to the health of elders. It is normal for old people to have a little physical problems occasionally when they are old. Even if the illness is not serious, they want to be taken care of by the younger generation, so when you chat with your elders, you might as well talk more about their physical condition and care more about their lives, which shows that you are very filial and your elders naturally like you.

5. Tell me about the heroic deeds of the elders. In fact, every elder has had his own glorious moment, which they are most proud of and miss most. Therefore, when chatting with them, it is also good to talk more about their youth and let them fall into memories and think of beautiful young things.

6. Talk to elders about their hobbies. Every elder actually has different hobbies. If you really can't find other topics, you might as well tell each other how they usually spend their time and what they like to do, so that you can naturally know where their hobbies are. At this time, if you grasp the topic of chat, you can extend a lot of talk. It's actually quite pleasant to chat with the elders like this.