Tea bureau healing department-round table school

The reason why "Round Table School" is regarded as a healing cultural program by the audience is that in the era of network variety and film and television drama, it inherits the immersive style of cultural festival projects: patient explanation and multi-dimensional thinking.

The Round Table School is also a highly free and nutritious program, which gives me the biggest impression that it can gently tell us all kinds of hidden pains of modern people, spread them out and analyze them with methodology, so that the audience can gain some sense of belonging and security and return to a rational perspective!

There are four people in each program of Round Table Pie. They sit around a table, order a wick, put snacks, make a pot of tea and talk while eating.

Li Meijin, a professor of criminal psychology at the People's Public Security University of China, said: "I found that many people really have no sense of self-defense. For example, if you walk at night, sometimes you just need to go out at night or the plane will arrive after midnight. What should I do? In this case, we should realize that if you are in danger, you basically have no chance to ask for help. At this time, you should stay in the nearby hotel first, don't go out, especially avoid entering closed spaces, such as getting on the bus, because the police can't monitor all corners of society. "

The round table school can gather a large audience, not only because it is well-made, but also because the topics it talks about are the life difficulties encountered by the current urbanites.

No matter what class or age, or even the young audience after 00 who are just beginning to understand the world, the confrontation between guests and hosts can directly hit the hearts of the audience.

Even in today's material-rich era, people are still unhappy, and contemporary young people have even fallen into luxury and depravity, and that feeling of anxiety has deeply hurt them.

Everyone urgently needs some intellectual elites to bravely stir up the beams to try to solve these spiritual puzzles!

Tell you a true story that touched my soul some time ago. Once, I ate in a restaurant with classical and elegant style, about 100 square meter.

There is a noble sofa in the dining room. There is a big coffee pot next to the sofa, making coffee and purring. The whole hall is filled with the smell of magic coffee and charming vanilla.

While eating, suddenly a middle-aged man came in, holding a violin, followed by a little girl. At first glance, I knew that I had just participated in a small performance, and the little girl was pouting and unhappy.

It turns out that the little girl just finished the violin level 3 exam, but unfortunately she didn't pass it.

The middle-aged man next to her is her father. Her father patiently and gently told the little girl that my father didn't sign up for the violin class just to make you pass the grade.

Dad actually hopes that one day when you grow up and feel unhappy when your father is not around, you will open the piano box and help yourself play a song. Familiar music will come out and surround you, as if your father were still with you.

The little girl replied to her father, "OK, I will continue to practice the piano well, but I don't want to go on stage alone. I'm scared. I want my father to stay with me and watch my performance. "

The little girl's father patiently comforted her and said, "Don't be afraid, Dad will always be with you. However, my father hopes that you can learn a musical instrument, which, like your bosom friend, can continue to accompany you, surround you and protect you when all your family members leave you, okay? "

Hearing this conversation, my nose ached and my tears rolled down in an instant. I seem to have forgotten what my family taught me since I was a child: "Men don't flick when they have tears!" " "

In the program of Round Table School, the famous writer Ma Jiahui often talks about his relationship with his family, just like fireworks on earth.

Interestingly, Ma Jiahui is also regarded as the Tony Leung Chiu Wai of the literary world by fans. This handsome uncle not only has a high face value but also a high "word value". He can tell stories, be humorous and have a unique vision!

The Round Table School has a sharp point of view and witty remarks. Most importantly, it fully respects the diversified order, and the invited guests are full of cultural details.

Therefore, I would like to talk more about the permanent guests of the Round Table School, such as, Tao,,, and they are all highly respected cultural figures.

Invited guests also have hot topics, such as Ma Yili in My First Half Life, Michelle, a famous writer, and Jiang among classical beauties.

The guests are celebrities with their own traffic, which is involved in all three places. Whether they are knowledgeable, elegant, funny, who have studied all their lives, or young and famous Jiang, they are all senior big coffees in various fields. What they say often carries weight and will become the presentation and output of certain values.

Whether a program can guarantee ratings depends on whether the content attracts viewers, whether it is close to social hotspots, and whether the depth of the analysis topic can reach expectations. The Round Table School has done quite well in these three aspects. It cares more about interests than nobles. It pays more attention to introspection than correctness; It chooses to stare at the truth instead of fulfilling morality.

So it provides an opinion, not an answer; It discusses right and wrong, no matter right or wrong. For the moment, there are really too few programs that talk about people and deal with personnel.

In the first program of the Round Table School, Zhang Lixian said in particular: "I think many people are badly hurt by successful studies, because if a person reads too many books on successful studies, he will easily be particularly excited, but there is a huge gap between his real ability and his ideal life, so he will start to complain about others, feel that he has no talent, and feel particularly wronged all day.

When your ability and talent are not as good as you think, you should work and live in a down-to-earth way, and don't be brainwashed by "poisoned chicken soup". We should learn to look at what is happening in today's society objectively and rationally.

What is more interesting than the content is actually the cultural scholars of the round table school. They have their own characteristics. With more and more times of participating in the program, they gradually get rid of camouflage and show more of themselves.

In this way, the psychological distance between the guests and the audience will get closer and closer, and finally the audience will not only respect them, but also like them.

First, look at Tao's talk. He always wears a pair of round glasses like "Harry Potter", and his voice is soft and smirking, which is widely loved by the audience. He is a well-known host with high emotional intelligence and IQ!

Tao is one of the pillars of Phoenix TV, and has been selected as "the best talk show host" for many times.

The most rare thing is that Tao still has a sense of humor and self-deprecating spirit. In front of the guests, he pretended to be confused and modestly threw out hot topics. Wendu Tao's humor is not funny but self-deprecating.

For example, in the first issue of the Round Table School, when the guests were chatting, Tao had to cut in and interrupt the advertisement. After the advertisement, Tao said with a smile, "Now we have money. Teacher Wendao, please continue. "

Let's look at Liang Wendao again. He is a man who adheres to Buddhism. He is also an analyst who is as calm as boiled water and always has his own unique thinking angle. He is also a modest gentleman, who can neutralize acid and alkali slightly when his views are sharp.

So don't be deceived by emotions, especially the emotions called for in the name of the collective, which I especially resist.

Because in that environment, there is an invisible person who urges you to do things against your will all the time!

Take the specific content of the program as an example. One issue of the Round Table School is "Why are we so short of money?" For the theme.

Wendu Tao discussed with young people who often complain about having no money on the Internet. Ma Jiahui believes: "Desire is more than income, which means lack of money; Desire is less than income, which is wealth. "

Come to think of it, there are some things that need no money to solve in the past 20 years, such as your dignity, neighborhood life, love, friendship and so on. What money can't buy is what you can have without money.

But today's young people want freedom, dignity, love and friendship, but they need to pay a high cost, and even if you spend a lot of time, money and energy, you may not succeed.

Unauthorized love seems to be a normal state in the real world of contemporary young people. For example, some people may never meet a true bosom friend, or some people live a "sad life of poor couples" although they have bosom friends. And from a rational point of view, it is almost impossible for all good things to fall on one person at the same time, and good luck is never shared by everyone.

For example, when the university is confused, we all have some friends of the opposite sex. At this time, in fact, everyone is still immature, or they don't know how to protect each other and appreciate each other's beautiful places. Of course, the other party may not know how to appreciate our advantages.

But five years later, 10 years, 15 years, everyone has an obvious feeling that you met someone you like too early. If you just met today, of course, if you are both single, you may get along well and even become the most satisfied intimate partner in each other's mind.

Even when a real intimate partner has conflicts, hates each other a little, and can't even be lovers anymore, we all hope to minimize the pain of the other person, or try to make the other person accept this objective fact in the most relaxed state, no matter whether the pain comes from psychology or real life.

When our intimate partner's work life slowly returns to the right track, we automatically choose to quit invisibly. Personally, I think this may be the best way to protect my intimate partner, that is, not to leave the other person in a desperate environment to suffer those pains alone.

In fact, after all, people in many relationships will gradually become "familiar strangers". Young people are just too young to think that they may never see each other again once they turn around.

Another program theme of the Round Table School is "How much is a catty of face", and all intellectual elites have talked about their own ideas.

Ma Jiahui met Mr. Li Ka-shing "awkwardly" and felt humiliated. Ma Jiahui thinks that face is a kind of resource and a leader of social circle. He should "pretend" in different situations, so people around him should respect him.

Dumas wrote in La Traviata: "After a passionate age, a person reaches a respectable age, and then he needs a stable job or a corresponding social status."

Xu Zidong said: People always mention people or things with face intentionally or unintentionally, hoping to show their value and status. Some people even lost their most precious youth in order to buy a house they simply can't afford in first-tier cities.

In my opinion, the civilization of contemporary society is that most people have cities that they think are suitable for their work and life.

However, the most difficult problem is that some media are using the values of "being reluctant to give up others and embarrassing others" to create a so-called "most worthy of your possession" lifestyle, trying to push most people to the economically developed but fiercely competitive cities of North, Guangzhou and Shenzhen.

Many people have desires but can't reach this widely circulated ultimate destination, and their recognition is not high, so they can only feel particularly annoyed.

Most people are people with ideals and ambitions, but there seems to be no prospect in the boring work day after day and year after year, so they can only adopt a Buddhist attitude towards work and life.

Originally, I didn't want to pursue fame and fortune, but I just wanted to make my life better and better through hard work, but I was inexplicably involved in the game of competing for places in big cities.

Maybe we should think more about self-identity. We need to define what a good life is for ourselves. If the work and life in a small city can bring us great satisfaction, there is no need to go to a big city at all. You know, cities with a land area of over 97% are non-first-tier cities.

Of course, there will be some people in this world who have the desire to keep forging ahead and constantly improve themselves, and want to beat the people around them in all aspects.

For these self-motivated people, it may be necessary to make full psychological expectations and always be ready to face the jealousy of others. Of course, you can also regard it as the excessive attention of the other party, so you don't have to blame yourself for it, and at the same time cultivate the ability to quickly forget the unhappiness.

So, how to refuse to attend all kinds of parties that you don't agree with in your heart?

In my opinion, you should learn to refuse the invitation of some colleagues bravely, and don't leave room for fantasy for others, otherwise once you can't meet the high expectations of others, you can't avoid a series of troubles behind you.

When a person makes a request, he has already prepared two answers in his mind, so it is expected to give him either one.

A person's personality is the sum of all social relations. Walking in today's society, others measure themselves by their faces. It is the weak who care about face, and the strong who give people face.

Liang Wendao believes that "beating a swollen face to fill a fat man" is a rational calculation under pre-capitalism.

A celebrity with real face actually doesn't need high-sounding external packaging, because his own value can tell everything.

The host Tao also shared his own anecdote. He was once invited to be the wedding host, but the reason was just to be the groom's official face. The groom spent a lot of money to make Wendu Tao lie: he needed to lie that the groom himself and the famous host Wendu Tao were good brothers.

The problem is that they don't know each other at all, so the groom flies to Tao's hotel to "confess" and study the answers to various questions that may be asked.

For example, "How and when did two people meet?" "What are the chances of two people becoming good brothers?" ..... and so on.

The two discussed the answers to various questions privately, and it was really unbearable for the perfect wedding man to be a "fake orgasm"!

Later, Tao also analyzed one of the sad "values". It turns out that the groom was poor when he was a child and was looked down upon by his neighbors.

But as an adult, the groom made a lot of money because of his excellent business, so he arranged the wedding reception at all costs.

The groom also deliberately pulled his neighbors to a table for dinner at the wedding banquet, in order to humiliate these neighbors who had looked down on his family before. This is obviously a very strong revenge!

Paul Stoz, a famous American educator and White House business consultant, first put forward the concept of "AQ" in his book "Adversity IQ: Turning Obstacles into Opportunities".

After IQ and EQ, adversity quotient (AQ) has become a new generation of popular words among global white-collar workers.

Today, after all mankind has rapidly entered the modern commercial civilized society, the "three high people" with high IQ, high EQ and high adversity quotient can really be reborn in adversity.

Dr Paul Stoz, the founder of AQ, believes that adversity quotient refers to people's response to adversity, that is, their ability to face setbacks, get rid of difficulties and surpass them.

People with high adversity quotient can limit the negative impact of adversity to a certain range and will not expand to other levels.

For example, when you have some disputes with colleagues at work and your emotions are out of control, you can vent all your inner dissatisfaction and anger in the shortest few minutes, and then solve the problem with a down-to-earth attitude. Never escalate to the level of unfair views on other people's character.

Talents in adversity quotient have the opportunity to hedge their anxiety and turn it into an opportunity to complete their upward promotion.

When your material life reaches a new height, your difficulties will be correspondingly less, and there will be fewer ignorant and arrogant people around you, because ignorant and arrogant people will only bully honest people and weak good people.

Adversity, in the final analysis, is the contradiction between the most valuable age and the identity capital that cannot be increased.

Most people like to let nature take its course to hedge their anxiety or perfuse the thorns and bumps on the road of life, but rarely admit that the real nature take its course is actually not importune after doing everything possible, not inaction.

Active resilience means being willing to take responsibility and improve the consequences. People with high adversity quotient can often clearly understand the reasons of their own adversity, and are willing to take all responsibilities and take effective actions in time to reduce the negative impact on real life and people around them.

"Zhuangzi Qiushui" once said: "Well frogs can't talk to people in the sea, but they are confined to the air; Summer insects can't talk to ice, but it's also timely. "

The frog at the bottom of the well is limited by the narrow space, and it is impossible to understand the vast world beyond the wellhead.

In summer, the insect's thinking mode is limited by its short life time, so it can't feel the cycle of the four seasons and the beauty of winter.

Modern people's ability to resume normal work and life is different after being frustrated in the Internet information age. Some people are full of flexibility, some people will be devastated after being frustrated, and most people are in between.

For myself, I will firmly choose the power of justice to confront my doubts and dilemmas. I also look forward to bringing you a persistent and long-lost energy, making sounds from distant places through your fingertips, shining warm and pure light, and comforting people's vacant hearts with the help of beautiful nights. ...

In fact, the guest who impressed me the most was Chen Xiaoqing, the director of China on the Tip of the Tongue, who showed the audience what a high-class gourmet is.

When it comes to food, I glow all over. That state can't be described by professionals, it should be called piety.

Chen Xiaoqing is a famous "scavenger". In Beijing, it can be said that there are almost no restaurants he doesn't know about. He once lost a mobile phone on a trip and fell into the Yellow River. The mobile phone has the audit data of thousands of restaurants in Beijing, and what is the specialty of each restaurant, and what does he need to explain to the chef? ...

As early as ten years ago, Chen Xiaoqing began to write food columns in newspapers and periodicals, recording his unforgettable hometown flavor and the most delicious people he met in the Jianghu.

Behind the tempting food are fresh people, full of emotion and culture, bearing the unique memory of one side of the soil and water.

The stomach will always remember your native place, and a gourmet is such a person-with a family gene, a keen sense of taste, knowledge of Chinese and Western knowledge, and a complete system of food works.

The book The Best Taste in the World is a collection of his ten-year columns. Chen Xiaoqing's food articles are full of human fireworks, neither too high nor too cold, nor too fresh.

In fact, for the gourmet Chen Xiaoqing, what to eat and where to eat are far less important than how to eat.

He likes to study the special dishes in small restaurants in the streets and lanes, and likes to taste all kinds of hometown dishes with real food culture characteristics with his friends.

A video blogger in China did an experiment. Technology-made meat and raw meat are put together for cats to taste. His own cat finally made the right choice. What does this mean?

Chen Xiaoqing replied, "This is the smell. The reason why we humans become human beings is not only to pay attention to whether food can provide us with motivation, but more importantly, when we eat these foods, we will have a pleasant feeling. Flavor can only come out by time, growth, food and water eaten by animals and the surrounding breeding environment. "

In the Round Table School, Chen Xiaoqing introduced the contempt chain of meat in ancient China: "Sheep are the top, cows are the middle, and pigs are the bottom."

Sheep are beautiful, but they stink. How can we cook them to get rid of the smell? Later, people finally found a way by chance, that is, it is best to burn fish and sheep together, which is the original source of the word "fresh".

There are eight treasures in the Book of Rites, one of which is fat. In the past, when the material was relatively scarce, the total demand for fat was particularly large.

Whether it is Chinese food or western food, fat is essential in the cooking methods of folk and authoritative institutions in the early years.

However, if modern people eat too much fat, it may induce cardiovascular diseases, so everyone will choose to eat thinner meat now. Edible oil generally chooses healthier vegetable oil such as virgin olive oil, because high-quality vegetable oil is rich in unsaturated fatty acids and vitamin E.

Listening to Chen Xiaoqing's story is also a kind of sensory enjoyment. When he calmly narrates his food trip in a gentle tone and listens to his stories about people and food one after another, you really can't help being moved by the kindness, wisdom and erudition of this middle-aged man.

There is no doubt that Chen Xiaoqing, a gourmet, has lived a full life.

To sum up Chen Xiaoqing's "appetite" of China on the Tip of the Tongue in one sentence, that is, he is a gourmet who can elevate his diet to a philosophical level.

A talk show can only impress others if you tell something you really believe and really like.

With the advent of the era of digital information technology, everyone's demand for self-space is increasing day by day, and owning a house of their own has become the imagination and ultimate pursuit of freedom for contemporary young people.

More and more people are used to eating alone, watching variety shows and movies and traveling alone. ...

When the city's public services have gradually replaced the functions of family and partners, living in * * * is no longer to meet the needs of mutual care, and even living in * * * with others is no longer a warm and sweet imagination at the beginning, but a kind of accommodation or grievance after the novelty disappears.

In the program of "Round Table School", many practical problems faced by contemporary young people are deeply excavated one by one like big waves scouring sand.

For example, will living alone be the final form of future society? Why do we actively choose loneliness?

I like to read what some sincere people say, which may be unwise, but sincere people dare to face their reckless and impulsive immature words or behaviors in the past, and will not simply pretend to be crazy because of embarrassment.

The Round Table School meets the spiritual and cultural needs of audiences at all levels, and it is a clear stream of literature and art when variety shows and film and television dramas are extremely popular.

With Tao's 20-year hosting experience and strong cultural elite guest lineup, * * * has created a high-value program with a strong cultural atmosphere.

Since 20 17 this year, cultural programs such as The Reader, Seeing Words as Face, and Chinese Poetry Conference have been popular on the screen, and the round-table douban score has sprung up everywhere, reaching 9.5. These new agreements reveal that class stratification has gradually changed from material level to spiritual level!

From the spiritual level, the character of a scholar will never grow old, only in appearance, but in religious and cultural self-confidence. A person's physiological age does not constitute any obstacle!

When it comes to the character of literati, we have to mention and remember such a legendary figure: Zhou Youguang, the "father of Chinese Pinyin", who left a cultural heritage for us in China with his lifelong knowledge, which is also a miracle in the history of world culture.

Zhou Youguang experienced four times in his life: the late Qing Dynasty, Beiyang, the Republic of China and People's Republic of China (PRC). Some people nicknamed him "the elder of the four dynasties".

1955, Zhou Youguang, who was nearly 50 years old, was ordered to be transferred to the China Character Reform Committee to participate in the formulation of the Chinese Pinyin Scheme. After rounds of discussion and revision, the program was finally implemented, which brought great convenience to the popularization of literacy in China.

Mr Zhou Youguang also knew Einstein, who was arranged by He Lian, a visiting professor at Princeton University. Einstein was also at Princeton University, and they were colleagues.

Mr. Zhou Youguang died in October of 65,438+06,5438+07,65,438+04, and Mr. Zhou Youguang persisted in writing all his life. After he was 100 years old, he also published a century-old manuscript, an essay about what he saw, a collection of stories he heard in the morning and a record of quiet thoughts.

Zhou Youguang lived to be 1 12 years old. He once said, "I don't care whether I am old or not, I live every day."

My personal understanding of the poetic world is actually very simple, which can be reinterpreted as: people wrapped in eternal emotions are a kind of hope to actively improve their own shortcomings!

The Round Table School deeply cultivates the cultural field, nourishes the souls of urbanites, and embodies its overall situation and selfless pioneering spirit. It is an energetic rescue soldier and a warrior who dares to rebuild psychologically.