Why do gentle women become shrews after marriage?

Who doesn't want to be a gentle lady who is loved, but life is ridiculous. In the collision of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, many women are forced to become bitches.

A woman is gentle before marriage and becomes a bitch after marriage. As a man, have you ever wondered what made her a bitch?

First, love and marriage after PK gap

Everyone knows that love is not equal to marriage. When falling in love, there is a distance between two people, and both try to show their good side in front of each other. Beauty is beauty in the eyes of lovers. You see that she is gentle and lovely, she sees that you are handsome and versatile, and only sees the advantages of the other party.

It's different after marriage. Two people under the same roof, the independent space drops sharply. Many men have a wrong cognition that the woman who marries the door is their own, there is no need to be diligent in front of women, and their attitude towards women is not as good as before. At this time, women feel cheated, and there will be contradictions or quarrels between them.

Men will think that women are not gentle at all, not considerate before marriage, just like shrews.

Women, on the other hand, think that men have changed, just like before marriage, and thus doubt whether he ever loved himself.

In the face of the contradiction between two people, if both choose to escape rather than face it correctly, then the relationship between two people will get worse and worse.

Second, women are trapped in heavy housework alone.

When in love, two people only care about flowers and the moon. After marriage, women are drowned in heavy housework after work every day. Men just enjoy it, but they don't know how to lend a helping hand to women, which makes her stand in the wrong position in marriage. Without knowing it, they accidentally took over the task of taking care of men.

Repeated heavy housework every day will make a person feel that marriage is boring, while men always feel that petty theft such as floor toilet is their own appearance, but they can't see the women behind them.

It doesn't matter if a woman is tired of bright windows at home. What she fears most is the man's disapproval. She is not only unsure of her words and deeds, but also ready to criticize and criticize.

No matter how good a person is, he can't stand the criticism and accusation of others again and again, and it's hard not to get angry.

Third, the absent husband

After marriage, many men use the busy work as an excuse to seriously neglect their duties when taking on family responsibilities, so as to make themselves a transparent existence. Although this is also a woman's own responsibility, when a woman needs a man, he will always be absent. After a long time, she will complain. If she has such dissatisfaction, she will take it out on the man.

I wanted two people to team up to fight monsters, but after I got married, I found that I was the only one facing the burden of life. A man is always a shopkeeper of cutting and cutting. When he meets such an empty husband, he forces a gentle woman into a bitch.

You should carefully understand why she became a bitch, and understand that she had to do so. You don't agree with her behavior, but don't jump to conclusions. After understanding her handling method, tell her your thoughts seriously, and try to communicate with her to solve the problem on the basis of understanding her.