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Standing at the historical intersection of "two hundred years", the new journey of building a socialist modern country in an all-round way is about to start. The journey is long, only struggle. Through struggle, we walked through Qian Shan. We will continue to struggle, forge ahead and create greater glories!

"The journey is long, only struggle. Through struggle, we walked through Qian Shan. We will continue to struggle, forge ahead and create more brilliant glory! " The word "Struggle" is the clearest footnote left on the tree wheel of history every 365 days, and it is also an essential keyword for leaders to remember New Year greetings in the past few years, which constitutes our time memory. 20 18 new year message points out that "happiness is achieved by struggle" and must be "not fantasy, not wasted"; 20 19, the encouragement of "persisting in self-reliance and hard struggle" made everyone "run hard" and always boasted that "we are all dream catchers"; In 2020, "irrigate the harvest with sweat and make efforts to ensure progress" inspires every struggler in the new era.

A few days ago, a netizen asked me a question: Is love meaningful?

Love is meaningless, life is meaningless, and even life is meaningless.

The netizen asked again, then what makes sense?

I said that the process of hard work is meaningful!

When a person is alone, he is afraid to face his own heart. There is always a voice in their hearts asking you, what do you want to do with your life? How to live is meaningful? Do you love me or not? Why do I live so miserable? Therefore, when these voices are always asking themselves, they are anxious and afraid of loneliness because they can't accept the torture of the soul.

Is love meaningful? Two people who love each other, one leaves, and the other will soon enter a new relationship. From the perspective of love, it is disloyal, but from the perspective of life, it is correct. Another situation is that two people who love each other suddenly feel that they don't love each other, but they are still together and their hearts have left. This person will start a relationship again. Morally speaking, it is immoral, because love has the obligation of loyalty. But in real life, it is a common phenomenon. Besides moral condemnation, we should also think deeply. Whether the personal attachment between the three virtues is better or the release of physical and mental freedom has not been answered yet.

In this sense, love itself has no meaning, but more significance lies in the fact that love can maintain the process of survival and reproduction and make this process pleasant and meaningful. This significance lies in maintaining the integrity of a family, so that love can not be invaded by the outside world, can feel love, and can strive to maintain the permanence of love.

So, how can we maintain the durability of love? In a short time, it is dopamine secretion caused by sexual attraction, as long as the appearance is beautiful. But with the passage of time, the pleasure brought by this kind of sexual stimulation shows a downward trend year by year. Many people understand that they don't love, but they don't feel love because they are no longer happy. Stimulations other than sexual attraction, such as wealth, such as being needed, such as freshness, are the magic weapon to maintain long-term love.

Having wealth can bring me enough lasting happiness, which reminds me of a mantra between husband and wife: all my efforts now are for the children. This sentence means that two people have stopped loving each other and are still poor. Nowadays, many couples are poor and nobody loves them. I gave all my love to my children because I didn't love them. Because of poverty, I dare not separate. Only partnership can maintain the healthy growth of children. At this time, people with wealth will have two choices, one is divorce, and they will get a lot of money, just like a star getting married. Another way is to live and play together, and each other can find happiness outside marriage, such as the seclusion of celebrities.

As for being needed, it is easy to understand, such as the involvement of mutual interests, the honor brought by the other party's status, and the other party can meet their immediate needs. To put it bluntly, it is the concentrated expression of power, influence and ability.

Finally, talk about freshness. Many people think it is to find fresh people to experience novelty. In fact, this is a wrong understanding. What is really novel is that there are different changes between lovers every year. For example, the innocence of girlhood, the charm of young women, the charm of middle age and the elegance of old age. On the other hand, it must have messed up the four seasons of life. If you still can't understand, let me give you another example. If the house you live in hasn't changed all your life, maybe you don't even want to go home.

In our life, we all hope that every step can be right, but the reality is that every step may be wrong. The question is whether we have the ability to correct mistakes when going downhill. If we don't want to make mistakes in life, the most important thing is to think twice before you act, and then, choose the path that is most beneficial to us and go on unswervingly. Remember that this is the best way for you. Because other people's roads and environmental factors can't be the same, they can only refer to them and can't be copied.

The biggest sorrow in life is that this is not the life I want, but the life I choose. In fact, the real sorrow of life is that there is no choice. In a person's life, there are few opportunities to choose, such as going to college, working, getting married and buying a house. It is because it is difficult to choose, so you need to study hard, work hard, fall in love and make money. Hard to achieve takes a long time to get, and easy to get can be easily obtained as long as the moral bottom line is drawn. Therefore, everyone needs to work hard to have more choices than others, otherwise, nothing can be done!