I don't know why I just want to talk about my business, not my panic, whether my classmates or my family meet and chat now.

"The report says the fertility conditions are poor", whose report? Yours or hers? If it is yours, she will probably leave to find a man with "excellent fertility conditions". Women sometimes care about whether their offspring have a good father. If this is the reason, then the possibility of you living with her is very low. She may leave you for this reason.

According to what you say, their family is actually not good for your wife. But your wife went back to her house (not necessarily voluntarily). That's what people do. They like to stay wherever they feel comfortable. If you are really kind to her, she will definitely fall in love with your family instead of taking it away from her family. There are only two possibilities: first, you are really not as good to her as you say; Second, because she has no opinion, anyone can take her away at will.

After pregnancy, you should have a pregnancy test regularly. This is the attitude of being responsible for your wife and children. The child has been 6 months old and found it difficult to induce labor. You, husband, must be half responsible. If you don't give her a pregnancy test because you want to save money, you will take full responsibility.

You said, "I was engaged to someone else and was rejected." Does this mean that your wife is "unclean"? What is your logic? Don't you have the right to get married when you are engaged, and say, "I am a clean boy and I was cheated at that time", which makes me feel ridiculous. Your wife didn't marry anyone else and didn't do anything shameful. Just because she was divorced once, you think you are a gift to her. But psychologically, you are already an unqualified husband. Since you look down on your wife, it is inevitable to sneer at her at ordinary times. A normal woman has done nothing wrong, but who can stand being treated like this by you?

"And the money I spent on my wedding was spent by her father, not by her, but by her brother, who was engaged to her brother (and the money will be brought to live after marriage)", are you talking about the "bride price" money? Who stipulates that the bride price money should be spent on the married daughter to live for her? Ask, how much bride price does rural women spend on their daughters when they get married (especially those poor families who have managed to raise a group of children)? 10 It is estimated that nine of the bride price money will be posted on the boys at home. Why? Don't you know? After giving birth to a girl and a boy, how to spend the bride price for her daughter's marriage? Ask yourself. What you can't do yourself, why let others do it for you? The remaining 10 bride price money is spent on the daughter, so it is estimated that the family is very rich, not bad. There are also (many now, but they are all city people) only children, and there is only one girl at home, so the bride price money is naturally spent on her daughter, because no one else needs it.

I think your idea is really selfish. Although you "don't let her work" and you "work to support your family", what you think in your heart can really make you an unqualified husband. Her family probably saw your selfishness and did this to you.

Of course, I'm not saying that everyone in her family did the right thing, but there is something wrong with your excessive concern and selfish ideas. In addition, you may not be very nice to your wife at ordinary times (at least you can't satisfy her, and women usually don't want to leave a husband who is really nice to you), and your family doesn't like you, which has caused today's situation.

Men can't care about everything If a man is too stingy (plus irrationality-the reason for breaking off the engagement can be "unclean"), then this man will make women feel depressed and always have a sense of suffocation. Depression is also a pain. No woman likes being in such an environment for a long time.

If you have no feelings for her, I suggest you give up. But with your selfish personality and ignorance of the world, so is your family (didn't several aunts say that your wife was sold by her father and married to her brother? The whole environment is based on your family, so no matter who you marry in the future, that girl and her family will be similar to this. Unless you marry an only child. Otherwise, it is a word "difficult"!