What will a real nobleman do for you?

In the movie "Naked Return", there is a story of a peasant's counterattack.

Qin Jun was born in the countryside. Because of manslaughter, his mother sheltered him and forced him to flee.

He met the chairman in the street, and the chairman exercised him, promoted him, gave him resources, gave him opportunities and led him to become the president of a group.

Without the chairman, there would be no Qin Jun who changed from a murderer to a billionaire business tycoon.

The chairman is a small lamp when he is down and out, a guide when he is at his peak, and his biggest golden finger.

Life is bound to be in a dilemma. If you can get help from the nobles, the future is boundless.

The most rare thing in life is to meet a bosom friend at the end of the road and fly in hungry. You get the moon first when you are near the water, and you get a good doctor when you are terminally ill

Because it is rare, it is precious. The people who do these three things for you are the people in your life.

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Give you a hand when you are in trouble and embarrassment.

Mo Yan said, I am far away from two kinds of people:

A person who helps when good things happen, and a person who avoids when difficulties happen.

A true aristocrat will never stand by when you are in trouble, or throw a person when he is down, but will help you.

Qi Baishi can change from a village carpenter to a generation of masters of painting and calligraphy and art without the help of nobles.

Qi Baishi was born in poverty and claimed to be a grass coat.

At the age of 27, several flower-and-bird paintings painted by his master for carving were appreciated by Hu Qinyuan, a celebrity in the neighboring village, and were accepted as students and given painting skills.

Because Qi Baishi's family was poor, Hu Qinyuan not only did not provide him with accommodation, but also arranged a portrait business for him.

When Qi Baishi was down and out, if Hu Qinyuan didn't help him, exempt him from tuition, room and board, and help him sell things, it wouldn't have contributed to his transformation from a carved carpenter to a professional painter.

A truly noble person is someone who gives you timely help when you are in adversity.

Ng Man Tat also met such nobles.

After becoming famous, Ng Man Tat went through a period of depression. The lure of gambling, women, drinking, fame and profit made Ng Man Tat lose himself. Nobody asked him to make a movie. He owed 300,000 yuan for gambling.

In despair, Ng Man Tat thought of Chow Yun Fat and borrowed money from him. What broke his heart was that the five words "solve it yourself" that Fage responded made him fall into the bottom of disappointment.

Just when he felt that there was no way out in heaven, he suddenly received an invitation to the movie "If there is love in heaven".

After the film was released, it was a great success. Ng Man Tat not only got into debt, but also won the Best Supporting Actor Award.

And the person who helped him was Chow Yun Fat, the person he hated most in his life.

Without Chow Yun Fat's strong recommendation, Ng Man Tat couldn't have received the job invitation from the director of Love in Heaven, and he didn't have a chance to win the Best Supporting Actor Award.

If Fage lends him money directly, he will definitely gamble again, and he can't wash it off, because the money is too easy to come by.

Those five heartless words were Chow Yun Fat's good intentions, which made him learn from a bitter experience and turn over a new leaf.

True nobility is not to give you money, but to stimulate your desire, give you motivation, wake you up and illuminate you.

As Jiang Yang said: "Only modest people have the best chance to see the truth and human feelings of the world."

It's easier to add icing on the cake than to send charcoal in the snow.

A true aristocrat will help you when you are most helpless, help you on a journey, and prevent you from sinking.

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Tap your potential and give you confidence.

Emerson, an American writer, once said, "Self-confidence is the first secret of success".

A person without self-confidence has no courage, and his life will be bleak.

A truly noble person will tap your potential, appreciate you, encourage you and give you confidence.

Frog Oil tells the author's own childhood experience in Kurosawa.

Kurosawa was weak and pale when he was in elementary school. The school has a morning meeting every day. When the teacher asks for attention, Akira Kurosawa will fall down and be carried into the infirmary.

Because of his poor constitution, he can only play games that girls like to play: throwing sandbags and skipping rope, which is often teased by his classmates.

After the second grade of elementary school, Kurosawa was incompatible with the collective: all the students around him shaved their heads, wore kimonos, trousers, clogs and carried canvas bags; Only Akira Kurosawa has long hair and wears a suit, shorts, leather shoes and a leather bag.

For children, being different means being rejected. Akira Kurosawa became the target of bullying: someone pulled his hair, someone pulled his schoolbag, and even someone wiped his nose.

Helpless Kurosawa burst into tears with anger, so he got a nickname called "Crispy Sugar", which is equivalent to "Crying Baby", especially hurting his self-esteem.

Kurosawa is mentally retarded in addition to poor physical fitness. When the teacher lectures, he doesn't know what he is talking about, so he can only sit in the corner and play by himself, and is regarded as mentally retarded.

Everything changed until he met the noble person in his life-his teacher: Tachikawa Kiyoshi.

Kurosawa is not good at sports and mentally retarded, but he has a talent for painting, which was excavated by teacher tachikawa.

In the past, Japanese art education only required students to draw a tiger according to a cat. But teacher Li Chuan told the students that art is to be free and unrestrained and follow one's inclinations.

Hearing this, Akira Kurosawa came to his senses. He daubed it heartily. Not only did he break some colored pens, but he finally got the color wet with spit.

I didn't expect this rather unusual painting to be appreciated by teacher tachikawa. He gave Kurosawa a big three-layer red circle, indicating that the painting was very good.

It is the excavation and appreciation of teacher tachikawa that makes Kurosawa regain his confidence.

From then on, he fell in love with painting, and the more he painted, the better. This laid a solid foundation for him to design film pictures and colors as a director later.

At the same time, Kurosawa made rapid progress in other subjects, and he became the monitor. At the primary school graduation ceremony, he was also selected as a student representative to deliver a graduation speech.

For thousands of years, people have a misunderstanding: gold always shines.

But if gold has been buried underground, it is just a raw ore, without light, let alone value.

The real aristocrats are gold diggers.

He will dig you out of the ground, and then you will have a chance to be boiled, refined, ground, soaked, polished and polished, from obscurity to glory.

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Point out your own mistakes and shortcomings in order to improve.

A true aristocrat will properly point out your mistakes and shortcomings, and make you sober, introspective and strive for perfection.

The so-called "advice at the most unpleasant time is good for action."

When Akira Kurosawa was acting director, he had two problems: he didn't pretend to understand and couldn't remember his name.

His noble man, Kajir? Yamamoto, Kurosawa's master, severely criticized his shortcomings.

In the frog oil, these two things are recorded.

On one occasion, Akira Kurosawa was responsible for setting up an outdoor set of a costume drama. There is a shop with a signboard at the door.

An actor asked what this shop sells. Kurosawa didn't know the words on the signboard, but he didn't pretend to understand them, so he casually replied that he was selling medicine.

When Mr. Yamamoto heard this, he said angrily to Kurosawa, "That's a signboard selling sachets! You can't just say it! If you don't know, say you don't know! "

These words made Kurosawa unforgettable, and he never pretended not to understand them.

Kurosawa always forgets the names of actors, and then greets them according to the color of their clothes, "Hey, the girl in red, come here" or "the one in blue ..."

Mr. Yamamoto's criticism of him is not only disrespectful, but also an example.

Whenever he wants to invite an actor to perform, he will ask his assistant to find out the name of that person first and then say, "please."

Kurosawa learned a new skill from it, and those unknown actors will always be moved by it.

During Akira Kurosawa's directorial career, there were many imperial actors who cooperated tacitly, and they achieved each other and became a much-told story.

Spielberg, the famous director, praised Kurosawa as "Shakespeare in the film industry", and he was also nicknamed "Emperor Kurosawa".

Thanks to Mr. Yamamoto's advice.

Compliments sound sweet, and it is human nature to like compliments.

However, exaggerated praise is flattery, while empty praise is poison. It blinds your heart and makes you ignore your own shortcomings, but you are complacent.

A real aristocrat dares to tell you his own shortcomings frankly, so that you have self-knowledge. And teach you how to correct it, prevent you from making mistakes again, and let you keep improving.

Balzac said: "Complacency, conceit and credulity are the three reefs of life".

Pointing out your mistakes means that you can avoid these three reefs. Without criticism, people will get carried away with what they have achieved and will not make progress.

Sharp tools can do a good job.

True nobility is to sincerely put forward your shortcomings and make you go further.

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Noble people help each other like heaven.

As the saying goes, "a fence has three piles, and a hero has three gangs."

A person's growth and success cannot be separated from the help of noble people.

The noble people in life are not necessarily your family members who live together day and night, nor are they necessarily your friends who never forget, but they must be positive and observant.

For example, Zhuge Liang is to Liu Bei, Guan Yu is to Cao Cao, and Degang Guo is to Hou.

Some well-intentioned suggestions from noble people, giving people a helping hand to fish at a time, or even a word that inspires our hearts may change your life course.

Noble people are like starlight in the night sky, and they are like lighthouses in navigation, guiding you and illuminating you.

But don't forget, the master leads the door and practices in the individual.

If a noble person wants to help you, if you don't reach out, you can only be a pile of mud that can't help the wall; Noble people have discovered your talent, and it is useless if you don't work hard; The noble pointed out your mistakes, but instead of correcting them, you still hold a grudge against your critics and will only stop.

No matter how good the objective conditions are, they also need the blessing of subjective initiative.

Although Tianyu is big, it doesn't nourish rootless grass, and although Buddhism is wide, it doesn't limit people who don't have a chance.

You are a lucky man, you have your own help; You are a kind person and you have your own help.

May you listen to magpies in front of the hall and meet distinguished people when you go out.