steal the beams and change the pillars—perpetrate a fraud

? When I went to work this morning, I looked through my son's homework and found that the handwriting of a Chinese homework and an English homework was not like his handwriting. I looked at it carefully and made sure that he didn't write it. Suddenly, a fire rose in my heart, and I had an impulse to go home and question him at once. I remember he vowed to study hard after junior high school, and he knew what to do. I also talked to him specifically, and the homework must be done independently, and you can't copy other people's homework. Once you start copying homework, it is difficult to do well in your study, because no matter how well you learn in class, you need homework exercises to strengthen your consolidation. At that time, he also told me that you would never copy other people's homework.

? My feeling now is that my son lied to me, and he certainly didn't listen carefully in class at home. Although he gave me his mobile phone and talked with nails in class, he didn't implement it at all, so he could study hard. Can you still get into high school? Can you still get into college?

? The more I think about it, the angrier I get. The more I think about it, the more anxious I am. I feel that this child doesn't give the teacher and mother a long face at all, and has already hit him in his heart.

Is this a true portrayal of the hearts of most parents? It is really a true portrayal before learning. The difference between reading and not reading is that after reading, our ass has the ability to sit still and grow into smart parents.

At noon, I came home from work early and made a "Luo Songtang that can grow taller" for my son. My son ate with relish and praised his food for its delicious taste. I think the time is almost ripe. I said to him, "son, eat more." Seeing you eat so well, my mother has the motivation to cook. I'll wash the dishes later, and my mother will watch your homework these two days! " I have to make him understand that I have to check my homework when I am in junior high school.

? "Son, you come and have a look, did you write this homework? Why did the font become round? And this English homework? When did you practice this font? "

? silent ...

? "Why don't you talk? Son? "

? "I didn't write that," the son said guiltily.

? "Tell me what's going on?"

? "I didn't write, so I borrowed my classmate's homework," the son bowed his head.

? "Then do you think this is the right thing to do?"

? "No, I won't borrow other people's homework. I will write it again. "

"Mom thinks you have two things to praise today. First, you dare to admit your mistakes. Not everyone can bravely admit their mistakes. Second, when you say you want to finish it, it shows that you dare to take the initiative to take responsibility and correct your mistakes. So, today, mom not only doesn't criticize you, but also praises you! But I hope you can remember today's event as a warning, don't you think? "

"Good," he was very happy and ran to the kitchen to wash the dishes.

After handling this matter, it may be more direct to get angry with the child and hit him, which satisfies the psychological needs of parents to vent their emotions, but it does not help the child at all. He can't realize the mistake of making a fake, and he can't realize that learning is his own business and his own responsibility, because you are more anxious than him, and it seems to be your parents' business anyway. Therefore, in order to prevent children from making mistakes in future studies, we should try our best to make children realize that he is the master of his own study.

? To be a good mother and guide for children, you must have a strong heart. Come on!