"Your father is ill, why should I let my son accompany him?" What did the daughter-in-law's response get?

The daughter-in-law responded: "Then you and your father-in-law are sick, so I don't have to accompany them in the future?" But my mother-in-law went on to say, "As a daughter-in-law, you naturally have to serve your in-laws." The daughter-in-law feels helpless, and such a mother-in-law makes no sense.

Abortion's father is ill, and abortion is too busy alone. The husband who had an abortion offered to share the burden for his wife and take turns to accompany his father-in-law. Originally, it was nothing. The mother-in-law who had an abortion couldn't stand it. She saw her son lose weight in order to take care of his father-in-law. She asked abortion why she asked her son to accompany her father-in-law. Fortunately, however, Xiaoyue's husband ignored what his mother said and took good care of his father-in-law.

0 1, the son-in-law knows how to take care of her parents-in-law, and the daughter-in-law will take care of her parents-in-law willingly. Although abortion's mother-in-law is unreasonable, fortunately, abortion's husband is a reasonable person. He won't do it until his daughter-in-law has done it. If you don't want to take care of your father-in-law, your daughter-in-law has no reason to take care of her parents when they are sick. Love goes both ways, so does family.

Of course, there are still many feudal ideas of being a mother-in-law, thinking that since a daughter-in-law is married to her own family, everything should be subject to her husband's family. The mother-in-law who has an abortion belongs to this kind of mother-in-law. It's hard for her to change her mind. Abortion is too lazy to ignore her. Her husband knows what to do anyway.

02, the mother-in-law is not sensible, and the husband has to be sensible. In fact, at this time, the communication between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law is the most ineffective, or the son wants to fight. His own son, whatever he says is wrong, and his own mother can't do anything about him. Therefore, when I meet such a mother-in-law, I have no choice but to let my husband handle this matter.

Generally speaking, if the husband is particularly concerned about his wife, she is very nervous when she is angry, and her mother-in-law will not embarrass her daughter-in-law for her son. For example, the husband who had an abortion told his mother that it was too hard to take care of his father-in-law by abortion, and it was distressing. If the mother wants him to get better, don't make irresponsible remarks, let them take good care of his father-in-law and let him get better soon.

03. Self-cultivation of mother-in-law in the new era Don't care about small family affairs, help where you can, and don't interrupt where you can't. As a mother-in-law in the new era, to be a qualified mother-in-law, at least these qualities must be possessed. You know, there is a serious imbalance between men and women now, and it is not easy for men to find a wife. Many bachelors, even married women, don't arrive early. It is enough for a son to live a good life with his wife. Don't interfere in their lives with the same routine. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. Now that I am retired and free, why not go out to play more?

It is impossible to change young people, and the times belong to them. It is better to change the mentality of being a mother-in-law and not to put yourself too high. This is no longer the old society. The greatest significance of a mother-in-law is that you are her husband's mother, and nothing else.