Which is more important, wife or lover?

What is a wife? That is the woman you are willing to entrust your savings to. What is a lover? That's the woman you go on a date with secretly but are afraid your wife will bump into you. A wife is a constraint that restricts you from interacting with other women casually; a lover is a compensation for the passion that you want from your wife but cannot get. Your wife will accompany you to live your life, and your lover will spend your money with you. A wife cannot replace a lover because she does not have the sentimentality of a lover; a lover cannot replace a wife because she does not have the affection of a wife. ? Your wife is a woman who has no blood relationship with you, but she is worried about you not coming home late at night; your lover is a woman who has no family relationship with you, but she lets you taste what it's like to be a man. ? A wife is a home, a harbor that can bring comfort to your impetuous heart; a lover is a burden to the family, but you don’t want to get rid of it unless you have to. ? A wife's concern is like a cup of boiled water, sometimes it becomes a nagging, but only becomes a kind of warmth when she is sick; a lover's concern is like adding a spoonful of sugar to the boiled water, slowly tasting it all night long is not enough. ? When your wife is pregnant with your child, she will ask you affectionately whether you want a boy or a girl. When your lover is pregnant with your child, she will cry and ask you what to do? You don't want your wife to return to her parents' home for a week and you don't want to. If your lover doesn't see you for three days, you call her: Where are you? How about we go to the old place and have a cup of coffee tonight? The most unbearable thing for a man is his wife’s nagging and his lover’s tears. His wife's nagging makes a man's heart more confused, and his lover's tears soften his hardened heart. ? The best wife is one where a man can find the feeling of a lover in her, but this feeling is difficult for men to find. The best lover is when your wife discovers your relationship with her and quits without making any demands. It’s just that it’s difficult for lovers to do this.