It is suggested that no matter who you get along with in life, don't get too close.

I suggest everyone: be an indifferent person in this life and don't get too close to anyone. Being too enthusiastic is not the way to maintain good care.

A good relationship, like boiled water, looks tasteless, but it is needed every day and cannot be separated.

If we add honey to it, it may be delicious at first, but after a long time, we don't want to drink it so much.

Of course, the feeling between people is the same. Keep a proper distance, otherwise it will hurt each other's relationship, especially between relatives. I remember when I was a child, my family had no money and we didn't even have a place to live. My father couldn't bear my brother and I to suffer with them, so he simply built a house by himself, but the money in his hand was not enough to build a house, so he asked many relatives to borrow money, and no one was willing to lend us money. Dad borrowed money from his friends and built this house. Later, on an accidental occasion, my father got a chance to start a business and slowly started his own business. Life at home is getting better and better, but relatives at home will come to my father to borrow money. Dad thought, why are they all relatives? Give them a hand if they can. Who would have thought that the money lent to each relative was different? On the other hand, some relatives say that my dad, dogs look down on people.

I believe many people have this experience. I think: in the face of relatives, you can't help blindly. It is your duty to help, and it is also your duty not to help. On the other hand, you can't blame your father for not helping. You should have your own bottom line and principles, so as to maintain the most basic friendship.

Finally, I want to say: only when we are well, can we help our family better, and we can't blindly help our family achieve his goal. When helping others, we should see if we have this ability and keep a certain relationship. After all, everyone has their own things and lives.