Tell me about your education methods for children?

Educate children to find a way that suits them according to themselves, their children and their families. Don't worry, adults and children also need to work together. Make friends with children first. Although children are willful, we should not underestimate them. Children also have accounts in their hearts, and who is good to them is very clear! Therefore, we should not treat them as children, but treat them as good friends, and they will listen to us! Too much criticism and interference in the gameplay will make them rebellious and unwilling to talk to us, let alone listen! So encourage, praise and care more, and children will trust us, rely on us and listen to us! My child is 5 years old now and is introverted. He is afraid to speak when he meets strangers, and always hides behind adults. It gives me a headache. Finally, after I pick him up from kindergarten every day, I let him go to the supermarket to buy his favorite snacks, and give him just enough money to communicate with the clerk. Over time, he became generous. I hope this method will inspire you! Children's personality, personality and congenital genetic factors account for 30%, and acquired education accounts for 70%. Children's education has always been a problem that puzzles parents. Not giving freedom is not conducive to the development of children's own personality. If you give too much freedom, you are afraid of adding many problems and delaying your study. So I introduce you to a good book, a good boy and a bad boy, hoping to inspire your tender dog. The brief introduction is as follows: "At the beginning of life, human nature is good". Whose fault is it that children get worse while growing up? Are they all caused by children's "lack of ambition"?

Children are innocent by nature, and their deterioration is largely influenced by improper educational methods, which come from parents, schools and society. ...

When you lament that children are not doing well in school, have you thought of the reasons?

When you can't do anything about your child's poor study, do you want to find a solution?

This book will take you into the inner world of bad children, understand the reasons for their deterioration, give you the correct direction and method of future education, and believe that bad children will be changed in your hands!

A wise dictionary for good parents to educate their children and a classic reader to interpret their psychological behavior. I often hear parents complain that their children have shortcomings in this respect and in that respect. In their eyes, their children are disobedient and downright bad children. So as a parent, have you ever thought about the causes of this situation in your spare time, and why it is all their fault that children don't study well?

Yes, parents want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. When a child makes a little mistake, they conclude that "this child is too stupid to succeed" and so on. At this time, we have to ask, don't parents have the slightest responsibility? Is your education method completely correct? Have you ever asked children what they think? Do you know what kind of people children associate with? When children stand at the crossroads of life, have you ever cared? Do you only blame your child when he is in a bad state, and never think about the reasons for this situation? Are these all the children's faults? Of course, maybe you will use "I am very busy and don't have much free time" as an excuse, but since the child has come to this world, you should educate him well and don't complain about his "various misdeeds"!

In fact, children are children, pure and innocent, and there is no difference between good and bad. Maybe your child used to be a good boy, but just because your education method was wrong and you didn't give him (her) a good growth environment, it became "bad". So, change your understanding of children, and maybe children will become better than you think. When you are at a loss about your child's problems and don't know where to start, this book is just a guide for you to teach your child.

In principle, all parents' own literacy, education level, self-requirements, learning spirit, outlook on life and behavior habits will have a far-reaching impact on their children's growth. A scientific grasp of the educational stage and the effective implementation of educational principles are the necessary conditions to ensure the healthy growth of children. The book "Good Boys and Bad Boys" will tell all parents that children's poor performance in school is not entirely their fault, and a large part of the reason comes from their parents' education methods. This book will teach you how to care for children with wisdom and strengthen emotional ties with them; Let you and your children solve their troubles. Help children grow up healthily.

In order to make this book more instructive, the author discusses the bad practices or wrong behaviors that are easy to appear in education at a great length to warn parents. Perhaps these discussions are not very comprehensive, but at least they can point out the direction for all parents who want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed and avoid making mistakes. As for how to use it, parents need to understand it carefully and use it flexibly according to the child's personality characteristics. Because the knowledge in the book itself is dead, only through personal flexible use can we really play the role of knowledge!

Finally, I wish all parents in the world can change their previous views by reading this book, so that all "bad children" can become good children! The first chapter of the catalogue is the "bad" of bad children.

1. Rebellion is not a bad thing

2. Achievement is not a standard to measure a child's quality.

Playing is a child's nature.

Curiosity is the source of children's progress.

Chapter II Children learn from their parents.

1. Parents are the most important mentors for children.

2. Bad children are scolded.

3. The influence of parents' attitude on children

4. Keep your word to your children.

5. Parents' vanity-"face" education

6. The core of education is self-education.

7. Parents' quality affects children's life.

Chapter III Misunderstanding of Family Education

1. "Education is a school matter"

2. spoil children too much

3. Love is strictly controlled.

4. Urgently pursue "long-term success"

5. Scores mean everything.

6. Overprotection

7. Lack of fatherly education is serious.

8. Inconsistent parental education

9. Lack of psychological education

10. "Freedom has gone too far"

1 1. Reward is a double-edged sword.

12. Pay more attention to IQ than EQ

The fourth chapter is the lack of modern education.

1. It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish.

2. High-pressure education system

3. Pay attention to intellectual education and ignore moral education.

4. Education can only guide but not force.

5. Pay attention to children's inner needs.

6. Utilitarianism education

Chapter 5 This kind of communication is the most effective.

1. Know your child's personality.

2. Understand the growth of children

Don't expect too much from your children.

4. Pay attention to children's mental health

5. Make friends with children

6. Listen to your child.

7. Pay attention to children's interests

Chapter VI Environment-the Soil of Education

1. Family is the main battlefield of education.

2. The influence of family cultural atmosphere

3. The influence of bad entertainment programs

4. The influence of bad cultural products

Chapter 7 Appreciation-A Magic Weapon for Bad Boys to Become Better

1. There are no born bad boys

2. Learn to encourage children

3. Let children overcome their inferiority complex

4. Learn to praise children

5. Explore the advantages of children

Step 6 trust children

Chapter VIII Advice to Parents

1. Give children free space

2. Help children improve their self-control

3. Give your child wings of confidence.

Respect for the child

5. Guide children to surf the Internet correctly

6. Eliminate the "generation gap" and wish you good luck ~! I wish my child health and happiness ~! ! I wish your family happiness ~! ! !