Does the relationship that parents don't like have a good result?

Feelings that parents are not optimistic about will also have good results.

It is said that it is better to destroy the temple than to destroy the feelings. It is not easy for two people to fall in love. On the whole, I advocate continuing. There is no sense of right or wrong. The reason why parents are not optimistic is not the secular standard. No car, no house, no savings. For them, such a combination is a shameful thing.

But feelings are two people's business, and parents' obstruction is temporary. They are essentially thinking of their children, hoping that their children will be happy, and don't blame their parents for their material things. They think it's better to have at least one to rely on than nothing. Everyone says that feelings without the blessing of relatives and friends will not have a good result. Probably there are too many cases of this kind of failure, and everyone seems to have slowly acquiesced in this statement.

In the year when my sister was going to marry her brother-in-law, the family looked down on his brother-in-law, thought he was unreliable, and said nothing to let her marry him. However, my sister followed the demon and said that she would never marry in this life. At the worst time in the family, my aunt and sister quarreled all the time. Everyone advised my sister to wait, but in the end my sister married her brother-in-law.

On the wedding day, my aunt and uncle didn't attend her wedding. My sister got married from my family. While waiting to meet her relatives, she cried in the wedding room. How sad it is that a woman's most important moment can't be witnessed and blessed by her closest people.

Fortunately, after my sister got married, my brother-in-law has been very kind to her, and my life has gradually improved. But life always likes to play jokes on everyone. When they were about to live a good life, their brother-in-law was diagnosed with lung cancer. After more than three months of treatment, he finally failed to overcome the disease. When my sister read my brother-in-law's suicide note at his funeral, there was a saying:

"Thank you for unswervingly choosing me when everyone is not optimistic about us. If there is next life, I will meet you. If there is a next life, I will definitely give you a marriage approved by your parents. Sorry, thank you, I love you. "