Why do so many people like to report good news instead of bad news? Is it good or not?

People who like to report good news but not bad news include me. Because everyone is willing to listen to happy events, everyone is happy. There is also a good news that travels thousands of miles, and bad things don't go out.

Is it okay for your roommate to do this? First, even if he is ill, even if he tells his family, although they want to help him share the pain, there is nothing they can do. On the contrary, they increase their sadness. Of course, their parents are willing. I think your roommate didn't want his parents to see him like that. Secondly, if he tells these things to his parents, he will get their concern, and there will be no need for his dormitory brothers to collect hospitalization fees for him everywhere.

Some people are just so stubborn. They should like to bear everything silently by themselves from an early age, and don't want others to worry. I think your roommate is like this. I have a classmate who is the same. He never wants to tell others what happened to him, especially his parents. Because I watched my parents grow old and I was used to worrying that I was not enough, I never said anything. I remember once he had a fever and was taken to the hospital by his classmate's teacher at three in the morning. At that time, he wouldn't let the teacher call his parents, or he didn't see a doctor. The teacher asked him why, and he said that his parents got up early and had to go to work, so they didn't want to wake them up, and one more person would be worried. Later the teacher agreed. It was his roommate who told us about it. There are indeed many sensible people around, and they will silently bear everything. I think it is impossible to judge whether it is good or not. If you tell one more person something like sadness, one more person will be sad, and this will not reduce their own pain. Probably many people don't want to see others, especially their parents feel sorry for them. However, happy events are different, and everyone will be very happy to hear them. Maybe that's why so many people like to report good news instead of bad news!