What is the most uncomfortable thing about confinement? How to scientifically confinement?

It's almost three years since I finished my confinement, and I still remember it vividly. In my impression, the most difficult things in the month are staying up late, physical pain and not being free. First, wait for the child to fall asleep like an eagle every night

My daughter was born at night. I spent the first night in the newborn center, and I don't know if she cried in the middle of the night. However, from the night she came to my side, I knew that she inherited my greatest weakness-night owls.

other children usually wake up a little longer during the day and fall asleep at night, but she is not. She can sleep hard during the day and torment me at night. In my impression, she rarely fell asleep before 12 o'clock in the evening during the whole month.

I cook like an eagle every night, waiting for her little eyes to close and her chubby legs to stop kicking. However, most of the time it is a failure.

Even though I slept with my children during the day, the drowsiness accumulated during pregnancy seems to have all returned in the second month. I feel sleepy every day as if I haven't slept for ten years. So, I practiced the skills of sleeping with my child in my arms, putting nipples into the child's mouth accurately with eyes closed, and changing diapers with eyes closed.

Really, I'm so sleepy that I want to sleep completely every day. Now that I think about it, I can't help yawning several times. Second, placental residue makes me physically and mentally exhausted like a nightmare.

Before my daughter was born, I stayed in the hospital for 8 days and exhausted all kinds of methods of inducing labor in the hospital. Perhaps it was an unnatural birth. After the baby was born, my placenta was not naturally delivered, but was taken out by the doctor.

The doctor told me that she had tried to clean it up for me, but I was afraid there would be residue. I was afraid of what I came for, and I went for an examination the next day after delivery, and there was indeed a residue.

The doctor's advice is that it is best to clear the uterus, because an carelessness will lead to massive bleeding, which is particularly dangerous. However, just suffered such a big crime, I really don't want to suffer another crop, decisively rejected the doctor, and planned to take medicine to let it be discharged naturally.

so, I have been drinking Chinese medicine all the time during the whole month. Biochemical soup is not too bitter, but the herbal flavor is very strong and it is difficult to drink. In particular, there is no milk fragrance at home, but it smells of traditional Chinese medicine, which makes me feel bitter physically and mentally.

the probability of drug residue is not great, and no one is sure. While drinking medicine, I was worried, because the residue remained unchanged until 42 days after delivery. So, I can only continue to drink medicine and continue to worry.

Fortunately, on the 5th day or so, two pieces left at different times were automatically delivered with the omen of regular contractions, and the nightmare finally passed. However, even when I think about it now, I still feel a lot of shadows. Third, just like wearing shackles on my feet, the feeling of not being free makes me feel suffocated. < P > I was a proper stay-at-home girl before giving birth. I don't like going out after work, and my favorite thing on weekends is sleeping. I have always thought that there is no place more comfortable than home. However, all these ideas were completely reversed after I gave birth to the baby.

when I went to the hospital for a check-up p>42 days ago, I almost cried with excitement when I got on the bus. Because the free air is so comfortable.

during the confinement period, although everything was contracted by my mother and my husband, the prohibition of this and that is not allowed has always been there, not to mention going out and wanting to watch TV for a while. No matter how tired the child is at night, he has to get up and nurse when he cries. If the child pulls, he has to get up to change his diaper.

Just like wearing chains on my feet, although my body is relaxed, my psychological pressure is particularly great, and the feeling of not being free sometimes even makes me feel suffocated. At that time, what I wanted most was that I could have a whole piece of completely undisturbed time and do whatever I wanted.

However, I soon discovered that this freedom was almost out of my mother's reach since I had children. So, in fact, I like going to work best now, because I don't have to take care of my children during work, which is very free.