Be a good role model for children.

The culture of a family and the value orientation of parents determine the direction of children's growth. Some parents spend a lot of money to send their children to famous schools for education in order to make their children become "Jackie Chan" and "a fashion", but they often ignore the influence of their own performance on their children, such as not caring about others and not protecting the harsh environment. Because children's ability to distinguish right from wrong is very poor, every parent in the new era should understand his position in children's minds, try to set an example for children in life with good behavior, and create a bad environment for their healthy growth.

( 1)? Parents should create a family atmosphere that loves learning and strives for progress for their children. Children generally like and respect parents who are educated, educated, studious, democratic in style, civilized in manners and harmonious with others. In particular, parents' interest in learning affects children's interest in learning to a certain extent, which indirectly affects children's academic performance. Children grow up in a bad environment full of learning atmosphere, and it is easy to sprout a demand for spontaneous learning, thus forming a conscious learning action that is difficult to buy. Therefore, parents should love learning, form a family style of learning, and edify their children with conscious words and deeds. Imagine if parents often invite friends to play cards, chat, or even take their children out to play cards, and let them sit around the card table until midnight 12. How can children study with peace of mind in such an environment?

(2)? Correct attitude towards schools and teachers. Parents should tell their children more about their beautiful yearning and memories of school, rather than why they don't want to go to school, and strive to cultivate their feelings for school, so that their children are willing to go to school and like it. Parents should not give gifts to teachers, which will make children feel that they are not studying hard, and the teacher will take care of me, thus becoming the psychological background for children to do something wrong.

(3)? Parents should also pay attention to putting things back at home, set an example and cultivate the habit of putting things back, which can not only keep the learning environment clean and orderly, but also save time in finding school supplies. For example, before studying, clean up all things unrelated to study on the desk, leaving only school supplies, books, exercise books and so on. It can not only avoid other things distracting children, but also help them to write their homework comfortably. Children are required to put all kinds of supplies back in their original places after learning, so that they can take them easily when they study again. Otherwise, looking for school supplies everywhere during study will not only waste time, but also affect learning mood, hinder concentration, reduce learning efficiency, affect studies, and even cause children's attention to be easily distracted.

(4)? Parents must make a fixed study exercise table with their children and study with them. Parents can read some books, newspapers and magazines. On the one hand, they can expand their knowledge so as to have background knowledge to communicate with their children. On the other hand, they can discuss and communicate with children on some topics in the book, which is of great significance for setting an example for children, promoting children's learning, promoting emotional communication between parents and children and preventing the generation gap.