What does the behavior of praising in each other's circle of friends after breaking up represent?

Some netizens asked: "Should we praise each other after breaking up? What do you mean if the other person praises himself? " I think this can be divided into four situations:

The first is to praise one party for having a compound will.

After breaking up, one of them is reluctant to part with the other and even wants to get back together. He will praise or leave a message in the other person's circle of friends to express his still-concerned attitude and test the other person's attitude. If the other person will reply to the message or praise himself, it will prove that there is a chance of getting back together, and there will be a series of actions, such as changing the public news in the circle of friends into private chat, and even asking the other person out to meet. Or feel that we have the idea of getting back together with ourselves. Praise and comments are also circuitous to tell each other that we still have a chance, depending on who takes the initiative to take the first step.

The second is that everyone has passed the sad period and can face each other calmly.

If we break up peacefully, everyone can get out of the sad period and choose to be ordinary friends again (of course, this must be based on respecting the current wishes. If the current one cares, it is best not to contact the predecessor). Praise as a friend is actually a very common thing. If it is only occasional praise and comments, and there is no further action, it should only be approval and support for the published content. However, if you find that the other party has not let go or wants to get back together, and you don't have this idea, even if you have let go, you can face the past calmly. I suggest not to do anything that makes the other party feel that there is a chance to get back together and gives the other party the illusion.

The third is to try to break the shackles and develop into spare tires.

After breaking up, some people think that their predecessors' conditions are actually very good and good, but they have to break up for some reasons, such as separation at work, or one party wants to get married and have children, while the other party wants to devote himself to hard work and has not yet wanted to get married. They will feel that if they don't meet better and more suitable people in the future, they will still be friends if conditions permit.

The fourth is that both parties or one of them has not invested too much in this relationship, or the other party still has the relationship of using value and interests.

Now most people have experienced more than one relationship, and more. Many times, they will not be as devoted as their first love, and some people even have a playful attitude. The degree of emotional involvement determines the degree of sadness after breaking up. If you don't put too much emotion into it, you won't be sad when you break up. In this case, you will be indifferent to the circle of friends after breaking up. Or if the other person is still interested and useful, for example, if a colleague breaks up and needs to communicate with each other in future work, or if the other person's work field is helpful for his future development, keep in touch with his basic friends.

In either case, I hope we can get together and leave, even if we just lie in the address book and don't contact each other. If you choose to be friends again, you should also pay attention to your sense of proportion and focus on your current feelings. Just love each other, cherish it, don't break up easily, don't wait until after breaking up to discover the importance of each other and regret each other's kindness. No matter how much you miss, you can't go back. It's hard to find your feelings. Don't let yourself live in regret all your life. If you like my article, you can pay attention to me and send positive energy every week. You can leave me a message if you have any emotional problems. I look forward to communicating with you!