Without some frost and bitterness, how can plum blossoms be fragrant?

I am a middle school math teacher. In math class, whenever I come up with a topic that requires high thinking ability or a large amount of calculation, most students complain that the topic is too difficult. I saw them sighing, but they didn't think or calculate with their brains. At this moment, I inadvertently said my feelings: "No pain, no frost, plum blossoms come naturally." This is what Mr. Yu Zhenfei, a famous performing artist in China, said when he taught the actors technical experience, and it is also his heartfelt feeling.

With the rapid development of economy and the improvement of people's living standards, the spirit of suffering seems to be out of line with the trend of the times. At present, most people think that the hard times have passed. In our time, we must eat, drink, live and study happily! "Live happily and study happily" is what we yearn for and pursue, but "happiness" is by no means synonymous with "no pain". On the contrary, because of "bitterness", it is "joy". As the saying goes, "there is sweetness in bitterness." Only by "suffering" can we get real happiness. As a student, only by "studying hard" can we truly realize the happiness of learning, study happily and achieve something. So I advocate the spirit of "study hard". Only by studying hard can we achieve something.

1. Why are students now afraid of hardship when studying?

Why are students now afraid of hardship in their studies? The reasons are as follows: 1) Family factors Nowadays, most children grow up in honeypots and don't know what "bitterness" means. Parents are really afraid of touching their children when they hold them in their hands, but they are afraid of melting when they hold them in their mouths. Some parents think that they have already suffered, and their children need not suffer any more. Parents are the catalyst for children to form a delicate character, and also an important factor that causes children to be afraid of learning. 2) School factors Nowadays, there are more and more private schools, and the competition between schools is becoming more and more fierce. In order to compete for students, students are regarded as "God" and "parents". Naturally, we should try our best to provide students with the best accommodation and other services. If you dare not "mistreat" students, how can you make them "suffer"? Even some schools aim at making money, regardless of students' future development. Social factors With the rapid development of the Internet and its more and more extensive application in life, people can't live without the Internet. However, the network is a "double-edged sword", which also brings negative effects to people's lives. In particular, it has a great negative impact on middle school students whose ideology has not yet formed and who are good at imitation. The Internet makes many middle school students addicted to the virtual world. The virtual network world not only satisfies people's possession of all kinds of information, but also leaves a broad daydream space for interpersonal communication without having to bear the pressure and responsibility in real life. These characteristics of the virtual world make many middle school students prefer to indulge in the virtual world all day rather than face the real life, lose their will and develop inertia, which leads to weariness, truancy and even neglect of their studies. And today's popular coal body also shows how to have fun. When you turn on the TV, your eyes are almost full of entertainment programs or romantic dramas. In addition, the proliferation of hype and speculation can easily make middle school students form wrong values-today's era is an era of enjoyment and speculation, and "study hard" is a fool's behavior.

What is hard work? "Bitter" people work hard; Studying hard means studying hard. The ancients said, "Diligence and laziness destroy success by thinking." It can be seen that leisure is difficult to achieve great things, and hard work can make a difference. Wang Xizhi's superb calligraphy skills are created by his bald pen and ink in the pool. Years of burning incense and years of poverty and death have created Han Yu's immortal poems; Wei created three unique skills, never tired of learning, which made Confucius profound. Look at the predecessors, who are not diligent and industrious, "clothes are getting wider and wider, and people are haggard for Iraq." Blister fireflies reflect the snow, steal the light from the wall, stab the stock and hang the beam ... One by one, the figure of studying hard, and one by one, the example of studying hard inspires many students to practice hard in the cold window and study hard! Times have changed, so we naturally don't need to imitate the specific practices of the ancients, but their fighting spirit is always worth inheriting and carrying forward. The edge of the sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold. If you want to learn something and achieve something, you must start with diligence, hard work and dedication. On the other hand, some students listen to music, hum songs and spin pens while doing their homework. It is easy to copy the answer if you are afraid of thinking when you encounter problems; In the self-study class, talk loudly and waste time after school. What's more, they are addicted to internet cafes, obsessed with games, avoiding learning and ignoring codes. In the former case, it is difficult to concentrate; As far as the latter is concerned, sincerity and hard work have long gone. In the long run, you can only associate with failure and miss success. "Diligence is a good training, and one point is hard work!" Only by facing the reality, studying hard and studying hard can we reach the peak of glory and the other side of ideal.

Now most middle school students live in excessive comfort and enjoyment. Excessive comfort and enjoyment will kill people's will, lose initiative and lose the spirit of hard study and research. Therefore, these children who grew up in honeypots are vulnerable. These fragile children simply can't stand the blow of difficulties and setbacks in life; Afraid of being tired, suffering and thinking in learning; It is also difficult to find its place in the fierce competition and complex and changeable society in the future, and will eventually be eliminated by the times. Therefore, parents who want their children to succeed, you might as well consciously let their children go to the countryside, go to hard places to see, live and experience, let their children exercise their hard-working will and industrious and thrifty quality, cultivate and shape their sound physique and spirit, and lay the foundation for them to truly become cross-century talents. 2) Help middle school students to establish a correct outlook on life, values and honor and disgrace.

Rich students don't know what hardship is and why they suffer. They have no lofty goals and correct outlook on life, values and honor and disgrace. Therefore, it is necessary to help students establish a correct outlook on life, values and honor and disgrace through various ways such as setting an example, teaching by example and special discussion. Let the students know: "We should support ourselves with our own hands and not be parasites of society;" We are the hope and future of our motherland. In order to make our motherland more prosperous, we must study hard and strive for strength. We are proud of advocating science and ashamed of ignorance; Be proud of studying hard and be ashamed of being lazy and enjoying yourself. "When students understand why they have to endure hardships and have a sense of hardship, they will take the initiative to learn and actively face and overcome difficulties in learning. 3) Educate students to overcome difficulties.

It is necessary to guide students to overcome difficulties in learning, so that students can feel the joy of success, so as to cultivate students to actively find solutions to problems and help them build confidence in overcoming difficulties. This is the only way to cultivate the spirit of studying hard.

Guiding students to overcome difficulties should be implemented in the classroom and homework. In the classroom, we should guide students to actively participate in the learning process, overcome thinking obstacles and understand the classroom content; In homework, we should urge students to finish independently, and promote them to develop the habit of thinking independently and solving problems independently, as well as the habit of asking questions if they don't understand and not letting go of difficult problems easily.

"If Heaven wants to be a great man in Sri Lanka, it must first suffer from its mind, work its bones and muscles, starve its body and skin, and empty its body ..." It can be seen that to be a useful person, it is necessary to learn to bear hardships; If you want to succeed, you must study hard. Life is a hundred years, and only the sooner you cultivate your child's spirit of studying hard can you benefit early. Cultivating children's hard-working spirit is by no means a few slogans, but a few words can be completed. Instead, we need our parents, teachers, students and every member of society to take practical actions and work together. Finally, I wish each of our children a healthy growth, full of vigor and vitality, and not afraid of difficulties and hardships!