Life is gone, everything is zero, Tomb-Sweeping Day, do it and cherish it

The annual Tomb-Sweeping Day has arrived, and even the extracurricular institutions are closed, so that children and parents can remember and cherish their deceased relatives together.

A drizzling rain falls like tears on the Mourning Day; The mourner's heart is going to break on his way. Although the country does not advocate burning paper money now, and people hide their grief for their loved ones in their hearts, that unbearable sadness still arises spontaneously.

I lost three close relatives that year, my father-in-law, my grandmother and my favorite brother. His life had just begun, but it came to an abrupt end and he lost his fresh life. I don't know whether such misfortune should be attributed to the injustice of fate or the bizarre car accident.

As the saying goes, having a good wife is never a disaster. Shortly before his accident, the couple always quarreled and the daughter-in-law always clamored for a divorce. I don't know if it's a family conflict or a bad business change.

This always makes him uneasy and anxious. The car had just been bought for more than half a year when something happened. On the day of picking up the car, the two were still at odds, and the daughter-in-law refused to go with him.

On the way back with him, I almost hit a landmark on the side of the road, and I couldn't see that he was happy to mention a new car.

One month before the accident, his brother had appendicitis. He drove to the hospital in the middle of the night. He was in a hurry and ran into a stone on the road. He swore and was anxious.

The first strange phenomenon is that when the autumn harvest happens, my brother can't work, so just two people help. At that time, the little nephew was less than three years old, and his mother asked him to call him uncle, but he was surprised and said, "Uncle is dead!" " "The family thought that the child's words were unscrupulous and did not think deeply. Now that I think about it, maybe it is really that the child's eyes are clean and what he sees.

Therefore, when children tell incredible lies, we must pay attention to them. Maybe some disasters can be avoided.

The reason may be that during the Chinese New Year, a family conflict, he hit the undead. Daughter-in-law has no rules and parents are proud. He is in a dilemma in the middle. He neither dares to provoke his daughter-in-law nor wants his parents to be wronged, so he has to drive to find her dead mother.

The Spring Festival didn't go well either, and there were family conflicts.

In fact, two people grow up in different environments and have different personalities, so contradictions are inevitable. But I hope that the elderly and daughter-in-law can be humble and tolerant to each other for their sons and husbands. Who will be the saddest when something happens?

The second strange phenomenon is that on the night he went out, all his family fell asleep and no one urged him to go home.

On the night of his accident, the dogs at home kept barking, which led to the barking of the dogs in the village, and no one in the family woke up.

And a friend who has been with him for a long time. When he was driving in the field, his hands suddenly stopped working and the steering wheel could not be controlled.

What is even more bizarre is that none of the brothers close to home worked in one place, and all of them went home one after another that night, saying that the construction site was dead.

No one can explain these phenomena, maybe it is coincidence, maybe it is some arrangement of heaven, and God called him away.

However, if he doesn't go out at night, maybe nothing will happen, whether it is arrangement or coincidence. If he can control himself, he'd better not do unimportant things in the middle of the night.

His brother said that my brother once said: I will die if I have no money. I don't know why he thinks so. Shepherd would rather lose wool than sheep. You can still make money if you lose money, but what can you get if you lose your life?

No matter how young you are, don't say you don't want it. Maybe business is too difficult to do, which keeps him in a state of anxiety, but without life, everything is zero. What about family?

I especially want to comfort him when he is emotional. Hearing his daughter-in-law say that he was out of control, I quickly went to his house by bike, and he had calmed down. I didn't say anything. I dare not go near him again for fear of provoking him again.

He had an accident for a long time, and I especially regret it. Why didn't I talk to him then?

I am also particularly surprised, why as a wife, knowing that her husband is so out of control, and because she is in conflict with her family, why can't she persuade her? No one knows her husband better than she does.

Regret and blame are useless, only painful results, and the lessons we bought can only be left to future generations not to repeat the same mistakes.

Zhang Ailing said: A person will die three times in his life. The first time is brain death, physical death, the second time is funeral, social death and the third time is forgetting. No one in this world will think of you again, it is completely dead.

Our loved ones are gone. As long as we can remember them forever, they will live in our hearts forever.