What do parents need to do in several critical periods when the baby learns to speak?

What do parents need to do in several critical periods when babies learn to speak? When the baby learns to speak, how should parents guide him? The baby is 3 years old and can only call mom and dad. My friend's baby is about his age. Don't speak Chinese. I have memorized some English and can recite some ancient poems. He knows everything he says to him, but he just doesn't say it, and occasionally his pronunciation is vague, which worries me to death. What should I do?

The old man said that the later a child speaks, the smarter he becomes. He also gave me an example that the children of the Lao family next door didn't speak until they were in primary school. As a result, their grades were particularly good, and they sat firmly in the top three of the class!

So, I can only keep brainwashing myself. You speak late, and you speak late ... But how can I believe that a child who can't speak is smarter than a baby who speaks eloquently? Obviously, it has fallen a hundred thousand miles ...

I deeply understand my mother's gushing. Seeing someone else's baby's mouth keep talking, but his own baby has a hard mouth to open, so it's strange not to be "an ant on hot bricks"!

actually, if you want your baby to talk early, you should pay attention to the timing and methods. Don't jump into the pit!

children's language development

January-February: babbling

February-June: laughing and screaming

August-September: voice similar to "mom/dad"

October-December: it will be called "mom/dad"

18-. Understand more than 5% of strangers' languages < P > 22-24 months: < P > There are more than 5 words, and the scope of these words has expanded to human organs, clothes, vehicles, people and so on; Understand more than 75% of strangers' languages

3 years old:

Have more than 25 active words, and be able to say simple short sentences, such as "Baby has eaten" and "Mom, don't talk"

5 years old: Master the grammar of mother tongue

Language reserve period

Babies are in the language reserve period until 24 months ago. If they are not fully prepared during this period,

language explosion period

2-4 years old is the baby's language explosion period. At this time, the child's language ability develops very rapidly. In addition to strengthening the interaction with the baby, Bao's parents should also change the content and form of the conversation.

How to guide the baby to speak

6 months to 1 year old

1. Say "Mom and Dad"

Point to yourself in front of the baby and say "Mom, this is mom" and "Dad, this is dad".

2. use the same word to explain things

use a fixed and unique word to express the same thing, for example, don't say "fruit" this time, and say "fruit" next time to avoid confusion for the baby.

3. Physical card

After 8 months, you can try to show the physical card to your baby. Generally, it takes about 1 months for TA to identify some familiar items.

physical cards should be physical, not cartoon ones, which is convenient for the baby to contact with life and easier to understand.

4. Tell a story

Give the baby a cloth book that can't be torn, and an environmentally friendly cardboard book with rounded corners, so that TA can read it by herself, without emphasizing the complete hearing of a story. 1 -1 and a half years old

1. Speak slowly, don't say uncommon words

When parents communicate with their babies, they should speak more familiar words and sentences, and slow down the speech for the key words, such as "Does the baby want to eat' Xiang ~ Banana ~'"?

2. Stop repeating words and say short sentences

Stop repeating words like "sugar, sugar, water and water" and use simple short sentences to communicate, so that the baby can understand and practice repeatedly.

3. Combining actions with words

For example, saying "blow your feet" on the steps and saying "painting" while drawing will help your baby to understand the actions and words.

4. Three-character songs

Listening to more three-character songs for your baby is very beneficial to your baby's language development.

Clap your hands

Clap your hands, nod,

salute and shake hands;

clap your hands, nod,

smile, good friend.

car

car, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, 1 and a half years old -2 years old

1. Give instructions

such as "Go to the room and bring mom's slippers" and "Put this apple core in the trash can and bring it here" to improve the baby's understanding of language through complicated instructions.

2. Identify items

For example, if you see any items such as "zebra crossing, traffic lights, cars", you should identify them at any time, and simply explain to the baby what this item is used for, so that TA can understand it easily.

3. Ask and answer

"What's your name?" "Li Yutong"

"How old are you?" "I am 2 years old"

"Are you a boy or a girl?" "I'm a girl"

Let the baby get familiar with his information in the question and answer, and then use this method to train to call his parents' names.

4. The use of you, me and him

Many babies are vague about pronouns. For example, mom said, "Do you want toys?" The baby replied, "You don't want toys".

You can put it another way, for example, "Does the baby want a toy?" Baby doesn't want toys.

after the baby is familiar with this statement, make it clear that he is "me" and the other is "you".

it may take some time to fully understand this point.

5. understand antonyms

such as "the baby is in the house", "the father is outside the house", "the mother walks on your left" and "you are on the mother's right".

6. Read and tell stories

Keep telling stories to your baby every day, and let TA repeat some sentences or ask a small question. "Kittens love to eat ..." "Kittens love to eat fish".

2 misunderstandings

Is it related to intelligence that the baby speaks sooner or later?

Every child speaks very differently in the morning and evening, but it is not directly related to intelligence.

For example, Einstein, a famous scientist, couldn't speak at the age of 4, and he wasn't fluent until he was 9. His parents once thought he was dumb.

Therefore, we can't judge the intelligence level just by speaking sooner or later.

Will speaking dialects at home affect your baby's learning to speak?

Pro:

Some studies have found that children who can speak dialect and Mandarin fluently at the same time have better cognitive self-control ability and language self-control ability. Disadvantages:

When many dialects are mixed, the learning time of each language is relatively reduced. This may cause children's language development delay, unsmooth expression and other problems.

Therefore, whether teaching children to speak dialects or insisting that children only speak Mandarin, we should adopt corresponding methods to teach children to speak.

A study shows that fathers play a greater role than mothers in children's initial language acquisition. On the one hand, fathers' voices are more conducive to children's learning, on the other hand, mothers may "talk too much", which exceeds children's imitation ability.