People who failed because of their bravery in history and their stories

Yi Zhongtian is in <: < Pinren record > > When talking about Xiang Yu and Liu Bangshi, I talked about the courage of a man and the courage of a gentleman. "When the road is rough, it's brave to stir up the knife, disagree in a word, and add fists and feet." "Mount Tai collapses in front of it, but its color remains the same. Elk thrives on the left, but its eyes are not instantaneous. It is a gentleman's courage to suddenly face it without being surprised, and to add it without anger for no reason." The courage of a man is a bit bloody, and it is personal heroism, just like Xiang Yu. The courage of a gentleman shows calmness, concentration and forbearance, just like Liu Bang. Not everyone can do it just by being calm and forbearing, so a gentleman's courage is few and far between, and he can't do it unless he achieves great things.

when I was young, my personal heroism complex was particularly strong. I like the Liangshan hero in the Water Margin and the masked man Zorro in foreign films. I think they are tough, chivalrous, courageous, high-spirited and spontaneous. They are all bloody men full of masculinity, and they especially despise the middle-aged people who are passive to Nuo Nuo, dare not stand up straight and talk, and do things heartily. Think it's cowardice, it's cowardice.

As an adult, I met some people because I had to walk independently in the society. After some things, I found that my husband's courage ran into a wall everywhere in real life, and I was often punished for impulsiveness. This status quo, which is contrary to my ideal, makes me very confused. So that for a long time, my thoughts were in a state of ignorance and confusion. I have to re-recognize what real courage is.

A man's courage can be used to vent his anger for a while, and his heart is happy and his face is beautiful, but things are screwed up and the consequences are irreparable. It is often said that "a little tolerance leads to great mischief" and "revenge by a gentleman is never too late". For the sake of lofty goals, you can be temporarily humiliated, regardless of immediate gains and losses. Endure for a while, but you will get a lifetime. This sobriety, this wit, and even a little cunning are exactly what makes a gentleman brave!

the courage of a man is the courage of one person, while the courage of a gentleman is the courage of ten thousand people.

A man's courage is only the enjoyment of the pleasure of the process, while a gentleman's courage is the complete enjoyment of a happy ending!

A man's courage can last for a while, but a gentleman's courage can last for a long time!