Talk on the bench

1, different levels of knowledge, different upbringing, different life experiences, your values, outlook on life and world outlook are different. In this way, your life taste and consciousness will be different, and you will have all kinds of birds when you grow up.

It is strange that there is no right or wrong in a crowded place. It's a trap for you to care about other people's gossip. You should be as sad as you are now. If you take him seriously and leave him alone, those rumors are just a gust of wind and will not affect your life coordinates.

3. In fact, all the troubles come from your own attention. If you don't pay attention, it's like the autumn wind. If you indulge in it, it is as difficult to be at leisure as a raging river.

4, other people's mouths, our own way, we are not RMB, it is impossible for everyone to like it.

5, no one is perfect, there are always shortcomings or defects, don't care about other people's evaluation, live your own life.

6. You don't need to pay attention to or care about how you look in the eyes of others. You are the master of your own life! Learn to untie your thoughts properly, and life will be as you wish.

7, go your own way, let others say it, your mouth is long on others, just have a clear conscience.

8. Be honest with each other, do things with your heart, go your own way and let others talk!

9. I am not RMB, so it is impossible for everyone to like it. If you don't like me and I don't like anything, please find true love! Spend time with your loved ones and lovers.

10, Eat, drink, be merry, and be happy is the most important.

1 1. Go straight and stand firm. Hold on, hold on. Can afford it, can put it down! The road of life, go by yourself!

12, you will be tired if you care too much. Think about what you want to do, and you can live a relaxed life.

13. Look at the world generously and live a leisurely life!

14, everyone is an independent individual living in this world, and we all live for ourselves. Living well is the responsibility to the world.

15, don't care too much about what others think of you, and don't rush to make others like you. On the other hand, you should observe the advantages of others, pay attention to their needs and understand their feelings. my heart

16, people who don't know others but talk nonsense about others are nothing more than people who don't agree with you, not the same person. And envy, jealousy and hate. Faye Wong, for example, can let her two ex-husbands get along with her as friends, which shows that her personality is certain, but there are so many people on the Internet who say that she is not. And those who say others are not, first look at where they are better than others. If Faye Wong had cared, he might have died this morning. Therefore, a person's mentality is very important. Saliva can drown a person or turn a person red.

17, go your own way. Let others cry.

18, I think so. It's really tiring to live in the eyes of others. No one is perfect. You did a great job. What others will say, so don't care what others say or think. Better yourself.

19, feel the same way, go your own way, others love to tie up.

20. I like to make my own decisions and be good or bad with others. Go your own way, not what others think. Be yourself, not what others think of you.

2 1, everything will get better gradually, don't worry, life will be as you wish.

22. Be yourself and have a clear conscience. Good night

People should be able to afford it, but also let go of their personality.

They say that a person only needs three things to be truly happy in this world, someone to love, something to do and hope. There are three things in life to be truly happy: people you love, careers you like and dreams.

You don't need a vow of eternal love, you just need a lifetime of silence; Don't need a luxurious candlelight dinner, just two people, a table of simple tea and light rice; There is no need to have a villa, facing the sea, spring blossoms, as long as a small house, French windows, one meter of sunshine; I don't need bright and beautiful roses, just give me a generous shoulder.

The white love between us is just black thoughts, just like the world in front of us. The front is not necessarily heaven, and the back is by no means hell. In the metaphysical realm of black and white, I like white mixed with black, like black and white keys covered with happiness, playing a music similar to love between us. Then, our story is like the plot of a black-and-white movie, which is staged over and over again, so that pure love can stand the crazy yearning every night.

In fact, my life hasn't changed since you weren't with me. One less person listens to my complaints, and one less person makes me presumptuous. The most serious thing is that one less person makes me happy.

If people can afford it, they should also let go of 1. To bear is to live, to let go is to live. What you can afford is ability, but what you can put down is wisdom. 2, some people can't afford it, and it doesn't matter if they can't put it down; Some people can afford it, but they can't let it go. If you can't afford it, you will be mediocre; If you can't let it go, you will be exhausted. There are many things in life that need to be put down. Only by letting go of those unnecessary burdens can we move forward smartly.

When a woman and a man first meet, they are careless with men, and it is very likely that they will go to bed faster and break up faster. Because men are interested in women at the beginning of their acquaintance, and they move "sex" more than "affection". When men are not emotional, women are emotional and single-minded, and often beat dogs with meat buns. It's boring when men vent like animals. I don't think it's necessary to delve into it.

If there is a kind of love that loses its language, if there is a kind of love that only leaves pain, then please don't torture yourself any more. Missing may be another kind of beauty. The time found in the hourglass has been happily loved, and guarding the future without tomorrow is just a self-directed and self-performed play, so please smile brightly after tonight …

What can be kept by you is love, and what can be kept in your heart is love. When a person is too busy to breathe, never touch love, because love is a treasure that needs oxygen to survive. Leave some time for your lover.

After you left me, I fell in love with traveling and went to the place you promised to go with me. Fantasy, I will meet you at the corner, and then … maybe not!

When you can't have it anymore, the only thing you can do is not to forget it. If one day I can't help asking you who you love most, please lie to me. No matter how reluctant you are, please say that the person you love most is me. I don't care what others think of me, I just want to be happier than others. If everything can be forgotten, every day will be a new beginning.

The most important thing is to cherish today, study hard, practice more, and let yourself move forward in a down-to-earth way. Yesterday has passed, and tomorrow has not come yet. All you can have is today. Only by working hard today can we achieve fruitful results tomorrow.

If it is impossible, then it is only perfunctory to continue. When happiness ends and indifference begins, there is no reason and no need for any reason, and everyone obeys it silently; Thin and transparent glass, separated by two worlds, no one resists, no one escapes ... My heart is broken without a trace. I am touched by the sky, but I can't touch you.

When we haven't opened our hearts and locked ourselves in loneliness, we will find ourselves living very depressed and lonely, losing all contact with the outside world. We are often contradictory, eager for freedom and afraid of loneliness, so we have been groping and crawling in all loneliness.

Some words, short and helpless! Waiting for your concern until I close my heart. Walking through the same street, returning to two worlds, thinking of you, some happiness, some sadness. The most unforgettable thing is that I have never thought about it, but I will never forget it. Who really takes who seriously, who is distressed for whom, thank you for your rude feelings, let me learn to give up; When tears come down, I know that separation is another kind of understanding.

The meaning of life also lies in having a group of friends who take care of each other. Laugh when you get together; When you are apart, miss; In front of others, there are allusions and jokes that we only know each other; When you are bored, you can find people who send text messages. Even if one day, they will eventually be scattered all over the world. But once, life met; Once, it was radiant; Once, I was sad for each other's grievances; When you are sad, hold back your sadness and smile brightly.

Weibo's words: To be a man, you should be able to afford and let go.

1, humiliated-it is better to turn your face than to turn your face, and it is better to be angry than not to live up to expectations.

2. Facing objections-listening and thinking.

3, make mistakes-it is not surprising that young and frivolous, knowing mistakes can change the real Jie Jun.

4. Trouble-you can't just say what you think.

6, rumors-can not be ignored, can not be entangled.

6, the face of others-don't care too much, do what you should do.

7, sit on the bench-be a man, you must be able to afford it.

8, windfall-a gentleman loves money and takes it right.

9, into the business-men are afraid of entering the wrong business, women are afraid of marrying the wrong person.

10, make friends-friends can be "many" but not "many"

1 1, dealing with acquaintances-friends are mostly sharp knives.

12, job rejection-start from a low place and prove yourself with your own ability.

13, ask for a raise-ask yourself if you are confident enough.

14, job-hopping-"jumping" or "not jumping", think twice before you leap. Quotations from Weibo.

15. Discover other people's privacy-treat other people's private affairs as passing clouds.

16, arguing with people-talking too fast for a while is not a win.

17, there is a small contradiction-let three points calm down and take a step back.

18, misunderstood-peace of mind, wide world.

19. refuse others-dare to say "no" and "mouth" when it is time to say "mouth".

20, meet a villain-be careful and keep a moderate distance.

2 1, fame and fortune-don't blindfold yourself for fame and fortune.

22. Go back to eat grass or not-a good "horse" should go back to eat grass, be flexible and stretch the gentleman.

23. Stop fighting-learn to fight, let nature take its course and win people's hearts.

24, talk to offend people-control your mouth.

25. Criticize others-be tactful, subtle and clever.

26. Expose shortcomings-don't hit people in the face, don't expose them.

27. "Changing face" is a skill and a necessity.

28. Business competition-don't take all the benefits away, but share them with others.

29. Face the person you hate-learn to get along with the person you don't like.

30. Complaining-People who talk about their dissatisfaction are the most likely to suffer.

3 1, hatred-take revenge when it is time to take revenge, and it is also a gentleman not to report it.

3 1, others make mistakes-forgive yourself with forgiveness, and forgive others with forgiveness.

33. losing money-losing money sometimes means taking advantage.

34. Politeness-Good for bad is the best human investment.

35. People are under the eaves-you have to bow your head when it is time to bow your head.

36, the crossroads of life-no regrets, I go my way.

37. Ask for help-make good use of the power of others and ask for help when it is time to ask for help.

38, ridicule-as an opportunity to recognize shortcomings and correct them.

39. Frustrated-look at the flowers in front of the court and look at the clouds in the sky.

40, in the face of other people's setbacks-never say your pride.

4 1, frustration-the ups and downs of life can make great achievements.

42. Being despised-prove yourself with actions, not with your mouth.

43. Encountering injustice-adaptation must be adapted, and change can be changed.

44, talent is not met-try to polish yourself, gold will always shine.

45, an affair-unbearable weight in life, unbearable pain in marriage.

46, break up-break up together.

47. Premarital property notarization-what is the measure of love?

48. Trial marriage-be careful about trial marriage.

49, my husband is sad to quarrel-quarreling hurts people, there is no need to fight for you to lose and I win.

50. Jealousy-the strongest "poison" to destroy love and happiness.

Can let go of what life needs to unload.

1, put down laziness

Try to change your destiny

Don't blindly envy others' unique skills and unique skills. You can have them through persistent efforts. Because it is a trick to practice a simple movement to perfection; It is a unique skill to do an ordinary little thing perfectly.

Remind yourself, remember your own reminder, you who are motivated, happy, healthy and kind will surely have a brilliant life.

Step 2 let go of narrowness

If the heart is wide, the world is wide.

Tolerance is a virtue. To be tolerant of others is actually to make way for your own mind. Only in a tolerant world can people play a harmonious song of life!

If we want to get rid of prejudice, we must create a tolerant society. To eradicate prejudice, we must first eradicate narrow thinking. Only by staying away from prejudice can people and hearts, people and people, and people and society be harmonious.

We should not only be happy by ourselves, but also share our happiness with friends, family and even strangers. Because sharing happiness itself is a kind of happiness, a higher level of happiness.

Tolerance is a virtue. To be tolerant of others is actually to make way for your own mind. Only in a tolerant world can people play a harmonious song of life!

Step 3 release the pressure

Whether you are tired or not depends on your mentality.

The room of the soul will be full of dust if it is not cleaned. A dusty heart will become gloomy and confused. We go through a lot of things every day. Happy and unhappy people all settle down in their hearts. If there are too many things in your heart, it will become chaotic, and then your heart will be chaotic. Some painful emotions and unpleasant memories, if filled with them, will make the people's Committee collapse. Therefore, sweeping the floor and removing dust can make a gloomy heart bright; Only by sorting things out can we bid farewell to our troubles; Throw away some unnecessary pain, and there will be more room for happiness.

Grasping the cause of unhappiness and ignoring the cause of happiness is the reason why you always feel uncomfortable.

Step 4 let go of hesitation

Take immediate action, there is no limit to success.

Look for things, don't be indecisive; Choose the right direction, go on the road and don't look back. Opportunities are like lightning, which can only be caught quickly and decisively.

Immediate action is the common feature of all successful people. If you have any good ideas, then act immediately; If you meet a good opportunity, seize it at once. Take immediate action, your success is limitless!

Some people must forget, some things are used for introspection, and some things are to be cleaned up. Let go when it's time to let go, and then you can free your hands and seize the joy and happiness that originally belonged to you!

Some things can't wait. A moment's hesitation will leave you with eternal regret!

5. Let go of your troubles

Happiness is actually very simple.

The so-called practice of smiling is not to mechanically move your facial expressions, but to try to change your mentality and adjust your mood. Learn to accept the reality frankly, learn to tell yourself to let nature take its course, learn to face bad luck calmly, learn to look at life positively, and learn to look on the bright side in everything. In this way, sunshine will flow into the heart, drive away fear, drive away darkness and drive away all haze.

Happiness is actually very simple, just be unhappy.

6. Don't complain

It is better to work hard than to complain.

All failures are preparations for success. Complaining and discouragement can only hinder your progress towards success. It is undoubtedly a wise man's gesture to let go of complaining and accept failure frankly.

Complaining can't change the status quo, but fighting can bring hope. Real gold, as long as you don't bury yourself, as long as you concentrate on flashing, there will always be a flash.

Throughout ancient and modern times, many miracles of life were created by people who initially took a bad hand.

Don't always worry about life. Don't always think that life failed you. In fact, you have as much as others.

7. Let go of inferiority complex

Delete inferiority complex from your dictionary.

Not everyone can be a great man, but everyone can be a person with a strong heart. Inner strength can dilute all pain and sadness; Inner strength can effectively make up for your external shortcomings; Inner strength can make you walk fearlessly on the road and feel the buildings and peaks with your own thoughts above all else!

Believe in yourself, find your place, and you can have a valuable life.

8. Let go of negativity

Despair to the left, hope to the right

If you want to be a successful person, please cheer for your best self. Let positivity overcome negativity, nobleness overcome meanness, sincerity overcome hypocrisy, tolerance overcome intolerance, happiness overcome melancholy, diligence overcomes laziness, strength overcomes fragility, greatness overcomes meanness ... If you like, you can be the best yourself all your life.

No one can decide the result except you. Your own war, you are the general who masterminded it!

Not all dreams can become beautiful reality, but beautiful dreams can also decorate the beauty of life.