My mother-in-law gave me 50,000 yuan in demolition money, and I gave her a pair of gold bracelets. Why should my sister-in-law take it away?

My mother-in-law is almost 70, and my husband wants to give her a big red envelope. In addition to the gift money, I also want to give her something else. In the past, my mother-in-law always liked to ask me to wash her silver bracelet. That silver bracelet was bought for my mother-in-law when my father-in-law was still alive. For more than ten years, my mother-in-law has not taken it off. I plan to buy a pair of gold bracelets for my mother-in-law this time. At this age, she should also wear some gold, and let her put the silver bracelets away as a thought.

After spending a long time in the gold shop, I finally selected a pair of bracelets with a dragon and a phoenix in the auspicious shape. They are elegant and exquisite, and are just right for my mother-in-law. On the way back, I met my sister-in-law. When she saw the box from the gold shop in my hand, she said in a strange tone, "Hey, sister-in-law, I'm buying jewelry. Mom is celebrating her 70th birthday. She divided so much demolition money last year. How can you do it?" We should take out more to honor our mother.

I was too lazy to talk too much to my sister-in-law, so I said hello and went home. Unlike my generous mother-in-law, my sister-in-law is a very narrow-minded person, so the relationship with our family has never been good. Last year, we received the demolition money for our old house. Because my sister-in-law’s family is in a very good situation and she gave us a large dowry when we got married, so the money for the demolition was increased by 50,000 yuan to our family. Little did I know that because of this, my sister-in-law would come into conflict with our family. She would be sarcastic and sarcastic every time we met. I was too lazy to argue with her.

My mother-in-law’s 70th birthday was very simple, just having a meal at home as a family. As soon as I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, I gave her the gold bracelet and helped her put away the silver bracelet. My mother-in-law looked at the gold bracelet over and over and couldn't put it down. She even asked me to help her put the bracelet on, saying that she felt better after wearing it. After a while, my sister-in-law came. As soon as the sister-in-law came, she took my mother-in-law and talked about it, and I went to the kitchen to help. I know that when my sister-in-law comes, she will definitely oppose me at every turn.

All the dishes at home were prepared by my siblings and I, as well as the nanny. My sister-in-law stayed with my mother-in-law in the house the whole time. When dinner was ready, my sister-in-law helped her mother-in-law out. I was sitting opposite my mother-in-law. When she sat down, I noticed that the gold bracelet on her hand was gone. Probably because I was afraid of losing it, I put it away. I think so. During the meal, my sister-in-law kept talking and laughing with my mother-in-law. I didn't want to look at her at first, but now I couldn't help but notice her. But when I looked at her, I found that the pair of dragon and phoenix bracelets were on my sister-in-law's wrist. It's impossible, my mother-in-law won't give the things I gave her to my sister-in-law.

Mother-in-law, where are the pair of bracelets I gave you today, why didn’t you wear them? I asked my mother-in-law. Before the mother-in-law could say anything, the sister-in-law said, "Sister-in-law, the pair of bracelets you gave me are not high in gold content. No, my mother asked me to wear them." As he spoke, he deliberately shook his wrist. My husband and I's expressions changed immediately. My mother-in-law immediately said that I liked the bracelet very much, but it was too heavy to wear when eating, so she asked her to put it away for me. My mother-in-law clearly liked bracelets before, so how could she let my sister-in-law keep them? Besides, she was not allowed to wear the bracelets on her hands.

At this time, the five-year-old nephew said that my aunt asked my grandma to take off the bracelet for her to wear. Grandma refused to give it, but my aunt insisted on taking it off. I saw it. Now, the people at the table could no longer eat. I felt a fire coming out of my heart, and I said, this bracelet is my birthday gift to my mother-in-law. If you want to wear it, you can't steal it from her.

Others are also talking about my sister-in-law. The sister-in-law said impatiently, "Isn't it just a gold bracelet? I think the quality of this one is not good, so I asked my mother to give me the bracelet, and I will buy a better one for her. It's up to you what to do." I was so angry that I almost overturned the table. It was the first time I heard that someone took something belonging to an old man and felt dissatisfied with it. It was very reasonable. The meal was not a pleasant one and the family finished the meal in embarrassment. Afterwards, I asked my sister-in-law to return the bracelet to my mother-in-law. My sister-in-law still said that the bracelet was not good, so I ignored her. I hope this narrow-minded sister-in-law can get a general understanding one day and understand the overall situation.