Big brother, big sister, uncles and aunts, what should I do?

I am also an introverted boy, and I don't like to talk much, but when I was at school, I chased my girls one by one, and my friends were ok. So introversion has nothing to do with having friends. Although I was unknown when I was a freshman.

You should be yourself first. You don't need to recruit others on your own initiative. Others will come to you. When you see others suffering, you should do your best to help them. Don't speak ill of others behind their backs. In short, you should be a good person. Treat each of your friends sincerely, love them and understand them, and your friends will gradually increase.

learn to enjoy this quiet when you are alone. You don't have to go looking for trouble when you are free. This will make you very happy.

as for the kind of eating you said, it's normal to have nothing to say. Introverts like us just don't talk much, and I think I have more than three sentences. But if people you know sit together without saying a word, you won't feel uncomfortable. On the contrary, if you don't know, it will be awkward to sit together. So I don't usually go back to strangers' invitations, or I go there, that is, I sit there and listen to others and won't say anything myself.

On weekdays, when you have nothing to do, you can find friends to play cards (girls) and play ball games (boys). These are activities that need not be said too much. Knowing that you are introverted, don't go to situations where you need to express yourself on your own initiative, such as debates. You can participate in more projects that you are good at (you don't need to express your intelligence or physical strength, just use your head or hands).

4 yuan a month is a little less. At that time, my living expenses were more than 1, yuan, and with the work money, I earned several hundred yuan a month. I don't have enough money to work to make money. I started working as a freshman. In fact, boys don't have any big expenses, that is, they just need to eat and spend money, clean their clothes and have a neat hairstyle. A haircut once a month is indispensable. In fact, some girls are really nice, they will help you wash clothes, and all my classmates' clothes are washed by girls. This saves a lot.

it's a pity that I always touch my subordinates' faces and feel that I owe people a lot. If you have a thick skin, find a girl to help you wash clothes, which will save you a lot. Or if you don't clean up your image, it will be horrible.

However, another classmate of mine never cares much about his image, just like Brother Sharp every day. We all doubted what his girlfriend would be like in the future, and as a result, she got married after graduation. Feelings can't be measured by logical thinking.

Well, you should save the phone bill. Never reply to a text message sent by a girl. Don't underestimate the cost of text messages. Some girls are super texting. Anyway, it's so close. If you have something, you might as well go to her directly. Let's control the telephone bill within 5 yuan a month. Don't go to expensive places with rich women, unless she treats you, or go once, and the monthly consumption will be consumed. In short, don't talk on the phone if you can talk to your face, and don't talk if you can.

Therefore, we should know more about each other's consumption levels when we first meet. Poor girls are to say that they are most afraid of meeting that kind of rich girl.

generally speaking, it's a rotation system to invite people to dinner. I'll invite a girl this time, and I'll let that girl invite me next time. Let's balance the difference between going in and out. And some rich girls will invite you to a particularly good place to eat. You can order more, but you can't pack it. After dinner, you will have breakfast the next day. This will give you two meals to treat others to a meal.

When you associate with a poor girl, you should take her to spend a good time once in a while. Never treat her every time. If she knows that you are not rich, she will understand you.

As for the girl who eats men and drinks men, we poor people can't afford it. Let her have fun wherever she likes. I've been in contact with this kind of person before, and I'm still waiting for her to invite me. As a result, the money naturally has gone and never returned. Think of it as spending money to buy lessons.

men also have those who only take advantage of small things, and such people are also good. You can take advantage of them if you follow him. What can I say? Let's stay at a respectful distance from others.

Some brothers spend a lot of money (this has nothing to do with whether they have money or not). I know a man who is in debt, spends money like water, and was heavily in debt when he graduated.

When it comes to eating, there is another good way, that is, when you see something that others can't finish in the canteen (there are many leftovers), you can secretly take it away and take it back to the dormitory to eat. But it depends. It's only necessary if you can't make ends meet.

Eating is just an example. You can't just eat all day. If you go out to play occasionally, cold drinks will also cost you money. I usually bring a big bucket of water with me, which saves me a lot. Don't turn on the light if you can't turn on the light in the dormitory. My dormitory is a unified type that goes out at night and doesn't stay in the dormitory (study in class or go out to pick up girls), so the monthly electricity bill is also very small. If you smoke, you'd better quit smoking, and you'll have money immediately after quitting smoking. One of my classmates smokes more than 2 cigarettes a month.

I'm not a saver. I spend all my money (and have no debt). A buddy of mine saved more than 2, yuan in four years in college. People bought a car after graduation.

There's so much to talk about that interesting days of our lives, among which I took many detours, and many experiences were summed up later. I hope it will help you.