A sentence that a good breakup has a good ending (the most decent breakup for adults)

Thousands of people are in the sea. Luckily, I met you.

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Not long ago, a friend was broken up.

According to him, because he didn't want to break up, when his girlfriend broke up, he didn't control his emotions and scolded his girlfriend. This is not over. When I got home, I continued to swear on WeChat.

For his series of performances, his girlfriend just apologized to him at first, saying that she didn't want such an ending either.

However, after his avalanche of abuse and humiliation, his girlfriend replied to him on WeChat: "I really broke up, and I regret knowing you." After that, he deleted his WeChat.

When he told me this, he said that he regretted it and blamed himself for not controlling his emotions at that time, because he didn't want to accept the reality of breaking up, so his emotions were out of control.

"I didn't expect to love for three years, but this ending is over." He said that he should actually stay with his girlfriend, at least leave a good thought for him.

But it's too late now, and he doesn't even have a chance to apologize. In his mind, he may always owe his girlfriend a "sorry".

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Many people will feel that people who really loved each other will leave without getting together.

Actually, it is. Love is often easy to get together, but it is not so easy to get together.

I'm afraid every couple who broke up will recall the scene when they first met, and that scene has become the most unforgettable memory in each other's hearts.

The first acquaintance is beautiful, because we know each other. When we get together and fall in love, two strange hearts come together.

However, when a relationship comes to an end, it is difficult to say a blessing and farewell in a friendly way in the face of setbacks and abandonment.

It is easy to get together, but it is too difficult to leave.

In most cases, one party is unwilling, unwilling or even unwilling to accept the reality, which leads to irrational behavior.

When love has become a thing of the past, when the desire to be together has become a bubble, the person in front of me is no longer so cute, but disgusting. At this moment, I only think of myself, I only care about myself.

In fact, this psychological performance just shows that I don't love each other very much, but I really love myself.

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When we break up, we should respect each other's choices and generously offer our last wishes to those we once loved, which is not only respect for each other, but also respect for this relationship.

In this regard, the practice of writer Wang Shuo and movie star Xu has been passed down as a much-told story in the film and television circle.

Wang Shuo and Xu broke up after falling in love for three years. However, the two became best friends after breaking up, and Xu Jinglei always respected Wang Shuo.

When Wang Shuo was in financial difficulties, Xu Jinglei bought a house for Wang Shuo. In an interview with the media, Wang Shuo also said: "After my death, all the property will belong to her."

They are no longer lovers, but this sincere feeling is better than friends and relatives.

On the contrary, in our life, because after breaking up, the two sides turned against each other, attacked each other and even retaliated, which is often seen in various media.

This is the most cruel interpretation of a relationship and the greatest harm to the loved one.

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In the episode "Decent" of the movie "Ex-girlfriend 3: Goodbye to Ex-girlfriend 3", there is a lyric that reads: "Break up with dignity, so I'm sorry. I dare to give it, and my heart will be broken. "

Indeed, breaking up is the end that no one wants, but when the feelings can't go on, breaking up is also the end that two people have to face.

Breaking up is a heartbreaking thing for everyone No matter who offered it or who broke up with it, no one can escape this pain.

At this time, the greatest respect for this feeling is actually to break up with dignity and dignity. Even if there is no love, there should be no hate.

A Mu's song "There is a kind of love called letting go", even if there is no amount of disappointment and disappointment in my heart, when love has become a thing of the past, "letting go" means giving myself and the other party a chance to be reborn.

Don't pester, let alone mercilessly turn against each other, slander and destroy the people you once loved. This is really disgraceful and irrational.

It is better to leave than to get together, so that we can be worthy of the love we once had, the people we loved and the life we lived.

In fact, the most decent breakup for adults: get together and part.

If you never break up gracefully with the person you love, if you don't say goodbye to TA properly because of anger or irrationality when you leave.

After reading this article, I will silently bless TA in my heart. After all, you were in love. After all, TA has been with you and had the best time in your life.

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